Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Long story short she was showing signs she was fukking someone else months before she broke up with me. I would ask her if she was and she would hit me with the "no im just busy I have 3 jobs" shyt. One day she says she's on vacation and she needs some space to focus on other things. She gets back from vacation and tells me she doesn't want a relationship
:mjgrin::mjgrin::mjgrin::mjgrin:

So I already know she was up to no good. Come to find out she had 5 guys in her rotation when we were together. She was the only girl I was talking to I even cut all the other ones off for her. Every time I think about her I want to put my hands on her which isn't even me. I thought she was the one now I have this ice box where my heart used to be
:mjcry:

That’s life breh. Stuff like this only make u wiser n stronger. BUT....don’t go scorched earth n turn bitter n go hard on ALL women.
 

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This is exactly the point this woman makes from 1:50 -



The problem is when you have a scarcity mindset then you're afraid of losing a chick and putting up with things you know deep down doesn't sit well with you.

Bingo, that video is spot on, on what I'm learning. Self love and integrity before you commit to girl or else she's gonna ragdoll you around in the relationship.
 

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I think some of our charisma improves with women as time goes on because we get to see how trash women are with their interests in men
nine times out of ten I'm thinking ":gucci: she chose to get with this guy..."
Like literally if you a 7 or above, as a female the options for a partner is endless... but they really be dating corny or dramatic dudes you never even pictured getting p*ssy.

Then you be questioning yourself like
what makes those guys better than you?
And if you have that same mindset I have the answer is:
nothing:yeshrug:
I'm a dope ass dude and any female should be lucky to have me in their life.

it's the type of mindset you need to have out here brehs
Charisma is built through confidence. Confidence changes your posture, the way you dress and your whole outlook on life.
 

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How do you brehs deal with encountering women you were interested in or briefly dated when you are in a serious relationship? Most of the time I just ignore them :russ: Some girls try and hit me up but I don't divulge my dating life publicly too much having dealt with the BS of that last relationship.

But I won't lie part of me wants to show off my girl to the girls who turned me down and are single :mjgrin:

I think I still sometimes deal with my ego getting the better of me when I feel disrespected. I think I felt like that a lot after dealing with rejections, one night stands, and BS prior to being more serious with my girl.
 

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Day 3 decided to stay in London
Met girl from day 1 tookme out and about the city.

Seems like 9/10 black dudes I see have a white girl :mjpls:
 

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nikkas be acting like hoes way too much man.

This former friend turned enemy stalker really fukked me up something fierce by getting my Twitter account suspended AND fukked up my money. I worked 10 years to get to the point I was at with Twitter and building relationships and networking and marketing my music and gaining followers. All gone cause he had to be a hater cause his music never popped cause it sucked be never had a social media account with more than 39 followers cause he was jealous I was going places he wasn't and therefore he was entitled for something of me. I had an opportunity that was life changing gone out the window come the next day because this dude was such a hater. Like trolling me on Twitter under 68 different accounts. This dude is fukking mentally I'll and I seriously want to beat the life out of him but because I know how p*ssy he is and how much he loves to hide behind a screen of some sort it's made it difficult as hell to confront him in person.

:snoop:

I am so mad and just disappointed somebody would do something like fukk with me like that cause they were jealous.

I already decided to just dead it and keep going but damn...this dude really crossed the line something fierce and the cops won't do shyt. I guess it's out of sight of mind until he decides to pop up again and do the same bullshyt from some other troll account. And I block him and then he makes another one...what fukking 35 year old man acts like this?

:martin:
This year has already turned into bullshyt.

First my laptop back gets fukked up while working on new two albums, and this dude gets my Twitter account nuked the day before a major management agency contacted my email

:snoop:

Like I am so fukking devastated. Been depressed honestly that someone would do some shyt like that.

I mean Instill got albums.out there and 5,000 + followers on Tumblr but that Twitter account was more valuable.

I am so sick of hating ass losers that wanna fukk up somebody else's dream cause they never lived theirs.
:dahell:
 

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It started off aiight at first when I first did the app thing at the beginning of the year, now it's trash. Despite all their big talk, chicks don't wanna risk an L by making the first move so it tends to be more quiet than other apps. Hinge was going well but that seems to have slowed down a lil bit too. Tinder has started picking up lately though.

I just signed to POF for the hell of it, and this app is asking mandatory questions like salary and if your parents are still around. :hhh:

If you want proper usage, then stick to one or two apps regularly at most because they're money grabbers and most of these apps are just bollocks. On bumble and hinge I keep seeing the same chicks. Tinder has a higher population.

Hookup websites, forget it. 99% of the profiles on there are just bots lol.

Bytches would match you up and then wont make a move smh
 

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Seems like 9/10 black dudes I see have a white girl :mjpls:

as a london breh thats currently seeing a french pawg, they get with the program my g
full


alot of black chicks play around and im not saying that for no reason ,ive experienced it myself, me personally i only really mess with foreign chicks
still alot of black couples too young and old, where you staying at fam?
 

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as a london breh thats currently seeing a french pawg, they get with the program my g
full


alot of black chicks play around and im not saying that for no reason ,ive experienced it myself, me personally i only really mess with foreign chicks
still alot of black couples too young and old, where you staying at fam?

South Kensington but im never there went to visit the Emirates stadium Todat

Both women I met up with said they are single because black men here only want white women :heh:

However they said they could never date a non black man


Even on hinge never seen so much attractive black educated women that are sing
 

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Why are there so many cops? Ish is insane

And why do they all sit like 8 in a van ?

I know London has money but why do most jobs pay barely anything?


I saw a ad for like being a met cop starting salary 30;000 pounds I was like :dahell:
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South Kensington but im never there went to visit the Emirates stadium Todat

Both women I met up with said they are single because black men here only want white women :heh:

However they said they could never date a non black man


Even on hinge never seen so much attractive black educated women that are sing

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Bytches would match you up and then wont make a move smh

Most of them are a waste of time and just looking for a quick ego boost. If they're so scared to make a move then why even bother to sign up to bumble in the first place. Jokers.

South Kensington but im never there went to visit the Emirates stadium Todat

Both women I met up with said they are single because black men here only want white women :heh:

However they said they could never date a non black man


Even on hinge never seen so much attractive black educated women that are sing

Lack of any accountability and self reflection so they need to generalise and project that energy on the black men they come across and the black men in turn sense it and give them a wide berth....nothing new there.
 

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before i had a car and my own place bagging chicks was mad long

now shyt is glorious now that my bag is on point

been having sex all night now its time to chill, how my new chick got the same sex drive as me? shyts wild brehs , ive been enjoying april :takedat:


cant stress this enough guys, things get easier once your life is on point always remember that

Don't lean on your success to attract women and turn into a simp/trick. Your success should be for your own peace of mind only. Always stick to looks, mouthpiece and sex game for attracting women.
 
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