I don't even think I'm that "cold" just introverted. That's just the word he's used in the past to describe me.
I'm currently in trouble for some dumb shyt. My boyfriend needs 100% attention when we are together. I can't be on my phone or do any of the shyt I need or want to do. He spends the night 3 STRAIGHT days this week. On my day off, he texts me from work saying he wants to come by on his lunch break despite the fact that he is planning on spending the night again. I'm instantly annoyed because that means I gotta stop what I'm doing to entertain him.
I don't jump for joy as its my freaking off day and I need some time to myself. He gets mad so I tell him to just come on.
He comes over...sees I'm cleaning up my home & still gets pissed cause I don't want to stop cleaning up and chill with him.
He then gathers all his belongings and leaves.
I don't know what to do. It's like he doesn't understand I enjoy him being around but I don't need to be constantly interacting with him. My ex and I could chill in the same house & do our own things separately.
I've never dealt with a man that needs this much attention.