Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Soundbwoy

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im a share a L i took tonight so hopefully I can educate brehs (and even Brehettes) on this

If you (a male) are in the early stages of dating a girl who is a stranger (in any capacity whether it be casual or intending to be serious).....And she invites you out to hang with her friends or go to a party of her social circle ...DO NOT fukkING GO. It will be a waste of time. You having a good time becomes contingent on you being a very extroverted person or her actually having the ability to juggle friends of different backgrounds.
I did that last night but we were at a party we spend most of the time dancing and kissing, her friend was getting it in with some dude she met recently
 

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I don't even think I'm that "cold" just introverted. That's just the word he's used in the past to describe me.

I'm currently in trouble for some dumb shyt. My boyfriend needs 100% attention when we are together. I can't be on my phone or do any of the shyt I need or want to do. He spends the night 3 STRAIGHT days this week. On my day off, he texts me from work saying he wants to come by on his lunch break despite the fact that he is planning on spending the night again. I'm instantly annoyed because that means I gotta stop what I'm doing to entertain him.

I don't jump for joy as its my freaking off day and I need some time to myself. He gets mad so I tell him to just come on.

He comes over...sees I'm cleaning up my home & still gets pissed cause I don't want to stop cleaning up and chill with him.

He then gathers all his belongings and leaves.

I don't know what to do. It's like he doesn't understand I enjoy him being around but I don't need to be constantly interacting with him. My ex and I could chill in the same house & do our own things separately.

I've never dealt with a man that needs this much attention. :hhh:
:scust::scust::scust:
 

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We already met 1 on 1.

Problem is when bytches invite you out in the early stages, they have the expectation that you're to socialize with their friends, not catch a vibe in your own way. In fact, I find most women bring you around in the early stages either as a low-key flex or to "entertain" their friends like you do her.

Additionally, women don't understand the nuances of social circles and the concept of working a room. You cant expect someone who is mostly a stranger to you to intuitively fit into your social circles, especially when the conversations revolve around memories/experiences/inside jokes of the aforementioned social circle. And im not speaking from a one off incident, this isn't the first time or first woman this has happened to me with.

I find when men bring their new GF or chick they're dating/fukking around friends, they understand this far better and will go harder into helping their partner break the ice.

^^^^^
1 guy surrounded by a bunch of bytches, only 1 of whom he’s gona be able to flirt with and prob get pressured into buying bytches drinks. :camby:
End of the night the girl ain’t goin home with u either if u barely started dating cuz she won’t wana look like a ho in front of her annoying friends
I actually don’t wana meet bytches friends unless we been fukking regularly for a while. And even then, it’s kinda like ok now we’re meetint each other’s friends and her next question will be “so what are we”
:flabbynsick:

If u can’t bring ur boys with u :camby:
 

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Haven’t heard nothing about bumble on here, guessing it’s trash??
 

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Haven’t heard nothing about bumble on here, guessing it’s trash??

It started off aiight at first when I first did the app thing at the beginning of the year, now it's trash. Despite all their big talk, chicks don't wanna risk an L by making the first move so it tends to be more quiet than other apps. Hinge was going well but that seems to have slowed down a lil bit too. Tinder has started picking up lately though.

I just signed to POF for the hell of it, and this app is asking mandatory questions like salary and if your parents are still around. :hhh:

If you want proper usage, then stick to one or two apps regularly at most because they're money grabbers and most of these apps are just bollocks. On bumble and hinge I keep seeing the same chicks. Tinder has a higher population.

Hookup websites, forget it. 99% of the profiles on there are just bots lol.
 

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Haven’t heard nothing about bumble on here, guessing it’s trash??

All dating apps are trash b. You can filter through all the bots, scammers and attention seekers, just to get catfished in the end :stopitslime:

My advice is to use them just as backup for shoring up dryspells or closing out your roster or as target practice for real life interactions.
 

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It started off aiight at first when I first did the app thing at the beginning of the year, now it's trash. Despite all their big talk, chicks don't wanna risk an L by making the first move so it tends to be more quiet than other apps. Hinge was going well but that seems to have slowed down a lil bit too. Tinder has started picking up lately though.

I just signed to POF for the hell of it, and this app is asking mandatory questions like salary and if your parents are still around. :hhh:

If you want proper usage, then stick to one or two apps regularly at most because they're money grabbers and most of these apps are just bollocks. On bumble and hinge I keep seeing the same chicks. Tinder has a higher population.

Hookup websites, forget it. 99% of the profiles on there are just bots lol.
All dating apps are trash b. You can filter through all the bots, scammers and attention seekers, just to get catfished in the end :stopitslime:

My advice is to use them just as backup for shoring up dryspells or closing out your roster or as target practice for real life interactions.

So we gaming hoes in real life 100% now huh?

I just got back on the dating app scene too, damn. I gotta get me some bytches off there.
 

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So we gaming hoes in real life 100% now huh?

I just got back on the dating app scene too, damn. I gotta get me some bytches off there.

Dating apps are Hard Mode and real life is Easy Mode when it comes to dating. With real life, you just have to 1. get over the fear of rejection 2. learn to spot interested/available women and you will be surprised by the results when you approach. You will be met mostly with kindness and normal behaviour, but this is online dating in comparison:

 

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BTW been given the all clear after getting tested last week. :wow: Text came through earlier.

Been a naughty boy in Panama and Colombia especially (that Venuezalan chick :banderas:), but I always use condoms, ALWAYS. No matter how tempting it is to go raw.

Being tested regularly should be a habit. It's free and takes very little time.
 

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I'm 5'10 but I'm thinking about putting 6ft on my profile since I can pass for it irl.
 
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