Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Balla]

im a share a L i took tonight so hopefully I can educate brehs (and even Brehettes) on this

If you (a male) are in the early stages of dating a girl who is a stranger (in any capacity whether it be casual or intending to be serious).....And she invites you out to hang with her friends or go to a party of her social circle ...DO NOT fukkING GO. It will be a waste of time. You having a good time becomes contingent on you being a very extroverted person or her actually having the ability to juggle friends of different backgrounds.

Yeah that’s a bad move, I don’t ever party with my chicks, it’s also kind of a waste of time for me as well because I just want to fukk and if I’m out, I want to sleep with a new chick from the club anyway.

 

[Balla]

Yo so I’m on tinder and they saying I gotta pay money to see who liked me n shyt, they even stopped me from swiping.

They be lying about that like shyt to just have nikkas spend bread?

 

[Lootpack]

im a share a L i took tonight so hopefully I can educate brehs (and even Brehettes) on this

If you (a male) are in the early stages of dating a girl who is a stranger (in any capacity whether it be casual or intending to be serious).....And she invites you out to hang with her friends or go to a party of her social circle ...DO NOT fukkING GO. It will be a waste of time. You having a good time becomes contingent on you being a very extroverted person or her actually having the ability to juggle friends of different backgrounds.

This was literally me last weekend. Take this man's advice brehs.

shyt really is a waste of time. Going late night shopping at 7 Eleven buzzed was the highlight of my night.

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

I like bytches who can fukk

U seem like a rapist

I agree.

Some brehs in here want bad, boring sex I guess

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

im a share a L i took tonight so hopefully I can educate brehs (and even Brehettes) on this

If you (a male) are in the early stages of dating a girl who is a stranger (in any capacity whether it be casual or intending to be serious).....And she invites you out to hang with her friends or go to a party of her social circle ...DO NOT fukkING GO. It will be a waste of time. You having a good time becomes contingent on you being a very extroverted person or her actually having the ability to juggle friends of different backgrounds.

Just mentally prepare yourself. Starve yourself of social interaction that week so you’re excited to meet new people when that event comes around

 

[RealAssanova]

Always get consent.

East african women cant fukk. Hopefully shorty learned some new tricks from gettin cracked by other nikkas after me

Somali, kenyan, tanzanian or ethiopian?

 

[mortuus est]

im a share a L i took tonight so hopefully I can educate brehs (and even Brehettes) on this

If you (a male) are in the early stages of dating a girl who is a stranger (in any capacity whether it be casual or intending to be serious).....And she invites you out to hang with her friends or go to a party of her social circle ...DO NOT fukkING GO. It will be a waste of time. You having a good time becomes contingent on you being a very extroverted person or her actually having the ability to juggle friends of different backgrounds.

or you can go and just be yourself

depending on how the chick is and what shes into, why not go and catch a vibe ? no need to pretend, no need for self deception , be yourself

personally a 1 on 1 meet for the first meet is key lol

 

[sfgiants]

im a share a L i took tonight so hopefully I can educate brehs (and even Brehettes) on this

If you (a male) are in the early stages of dating a girl who is a stranger (in any capacity whether it be casual or intending to be serious).....And she invites you out to hang with her friends or go to a party of her social circle ...DO NOT fukkING GO. It will be a waste of time. You having a good time becomes contingent on you being a very extroverted person or her actually having the ability to juggle friends of different backgrounds.

haha
some broad invited me to hang with her friends after work this week, i passed
they had been out in the city all day and shyt and they're all like 22-25 and high energy. i was already drained from work and i didnt feel like being around a gaggle of squawking twats for like 3 more hours

 

[Marc Spector]

or you can go and just be yourself

depending on how the chick is and what shes into, why not go and catch a vibe ? no need to pretend, no need for self deception , be yourself

personally a 1 on 1 meet for the first meet is key lol

We already met 1 on 1.

Problem is when bytches invite you out in the early stages, they have the expectation that you're to socialize with their friends, not catch a vibe in your own way. In fact, I find most women bring you around in the early stages either as a low-key flex or to "entertain" their friends like you do her.

Additionally, women don't understand the nuances of social circles and the concept of working a room. You cant expect someone who is mostly a stranger to you to intuitively fit into your social circles, especially when the conversations revolve around memories/experiences/inside jokes of the aforementioned social circle. And im not speaking from a one off incident, this isn't the first time or first woman this has happened to me with.

I find when men bring their new GF or chick they're dating/fukking around friends, they understand this far better and will go harder into helping their partner break the ice.

 

[Marc Spector]

Just mentally prepare yourself. Starve yourself of social interaction that week so you’re excited to meet new people when that event comes around

Lowkey i already was kinda shytty with her because im traveling and staying in a hotel 2 hours away from my next duty station and we really haven kicked it like that yet (or more specifically we havent smashed yet and she was talking ALLLL that talk about fukking prior to us meeting ).

Its her bday weekend and I simultaneously underestimated how much she wants to get out for her bday (single mom of 2) and overestimated how much she wanted to chill and fukk with me.

 

[TRUEST]

We already met 1 on 1.

Problem is when bytches invite you out in the early stages, they have the expectation that you're to socialize with their friends, not catch a vibe in your own way. In fact, I find most women bring you around in the early stages either as a low-key flex or to "entertain" their friends like you do her.

Additionally, women don't understand the nuances of social circles and the concept of working a room. You cant expect someone who is mostly a stranger to you to intuitively fit into your social circles, especially when the conversations revolve around memories/experiences/inside jokes of the aforementioned social circle. And im not speaking from a one off incident, this isn't the first time or first woman this has happened to me with.

I find when men bring their new GF or chick they're dating/fukking around friends, they understand this far better and will go harder into helping their partner break the ice.

This guy knows what he is talking about.

Personally I would not go to meet a girls friends unless I’ve already fuccked her a few times.

 

[DaRealness]

I'm not hanging out with some new broad's friends either.

I don't feel like sitting around pretending to be interested in annoying bird babble. Not to mention they'll just talk hater shyt in her ears, especially the ugly one and the cockblocker.

Nah unless I'm with friends of my own, forget that.

 

[mortuus est]

We already met 1 on 1.

Problem is when bytches invite you out in the early stages, they have the expectation that you're to socialize with their friends, not catch a vibe in your own way. In fact, I find most women bring you around in the early stages either as a low-key flex or to "entertain" their friends like you do her.

Additionally, women don't understand the nuances of social circles and the concept of working a room. You cant expect someone who is mostly a stranger to you to intuitively fit into your social circles, especially when the conversations revolve around memories/experiences/inside jokes of the aforementioned social circle. And im not speaking from a one off incident, this isn't the first time or first woman this has happened to me with.

I find when men bring their new GF or chick they're dating/fukking around friends, they understand this far better and will go harder into helping their partner break the ice.

.

 

[Babymama Magnet]

Girl i'm dating is trying to get me to come over to hers and fvck her with her brother being in the next room but i keep on refusing.

Tell me this is weird

 

[FLATOP]

Girl i'm dating is trying to get me to come over to hers and fvck her with her brother being in the next room but i keep on refusing.

Tell me this is weird

Its not weird. People arent trying to pay for hotels to get a nut. Bro can get his ass out the house