Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Thing is.... it’s not even the rejection that bothers me, and to be honest I don’t think i would get rejected for it, I’m not doing too bad for myself.

I might not have a professional career, but I’m doing ok.

What bothers me is me myself not having it for myself.

Like I need to be on even playing field as them or better, that’s what I mean.

It’s more of me thinking that I need to be way better than I am currently and feel like I have a career.

I don’t want to feel like I’m a kid when they’re younger than me.

It’s like I don’t need them to think they’re better than me, fukk that shyt, I wanna know I make good bread to shut that shyt down, I don’t play that shyt.

And you right, I’m not gonna let life slip away because I’ll be older and feel like I missed out.

I don’t care when people say don’t focus on women or whatever, they a hobby to me and for a time I actually put them on the backburner for years and had a chick I was dealing with, I finished some school up, but I feel I wasted my youth by doing that.

So now fukk that imma finesse these hoes!!

I gotta find a way to get this shyt together soon and make hella bread soon.






Just have some confidence man, and be proud of the fact that you have a plan for your life.

If a woman turns you down, or rejects you for who you are, then move on. Don't watch your life slip away
 

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Wassup brehs?

Been a minute I got a 3 part post coming.

Part 1:

I want to fukk my co-worker before she leaves for good in a few weeks. :wow:
She got a BF tho. :mjcry:
And she might be moving away for good:dame:
So I'll never ever see her again most likely :sadcam:

We are very good friends and she is a very nice person.:mjcry:

I usually be HOH on these women:hhh:
But she's one of those women where I'm like :ohhh: so there are genuinely good women out there

So I feel bad when I imagine throat punching her with my D:mjcry:

We often go out to eat for dinner sometimes and we just sit around and talk for hours, we might do it again this week. :mjlit:

Don't know if her bf knows or what cause he always at work and she said they never text each other and the only time they see each other is at night.:russ:

But last time we went out to eat I was making fun of her for being a person who goes to sleep mad early :russ:

She hit me with, "I keep getting picked on about that.":mjcry:

"The new guy who works at our job texted me at 10pm and i was already asleep.":francis: (she didn't say the new guy, im calling him the new guy cause hes new at our job)

I'm thinking :ohhh: damn... another nikka tried to make a move too.

She's so nice so i feel bad.:mjcry:

I feel like she too oblivious and naive to the fact we all walking around here trying to destroy that muff :mjlit:

So I'm torn brehs:wow:

Plus like I already mentioned she got a man:russ:
I already dipped into the girl got a man/husband jar before and succeeded:takedat:
I got to chill before I get murked out here.:gucci:
 

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Post Part 2, different story.

There is this bar and grill gig me and my roommate go to on campus all the time.
This sounds like some comedy skit but literally every waitress/bartender is pregnant:gucci:

Literally all of them are 7's and up :shaq:

But somehow all got knocked up this year :gucci:

Like when we first started going there only one of them was like 2 months pregnant and as time went on the list kept adding up:hhh:

The finest waitress there would go out and party with us and drink the whole house down.:wow:

She hit us with the "I'm pregnant" line today :mjcry:

Talked about how last time when we all went out and got drunk. Our crew left and she stayed with her ex.
They went back home and fukked. :mjcry::mjcry: lucky nikka cause she a 8 with a fat booty

she talking about she been crying and angry for a the past two weeks because she doesnt want another kid:lolbron:

She said her ex out of town like, :yeshrug:

But dog... it feels so fake or movieish that 90 percent of this bar/grill is pregnant.

Which is why it feels weird to read reports people are having a lot of babies anymore when it feels like everyone around me got kids
 

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Post 3

What should a breh do for the weekend?

Go out of town and hang with a breh and go out in his area?

Invite this chick from my hometown to come visit which is a guaranteed smash session. (the downside I don't want her staying the night let a lone the entire weekend so if she does come she will be here even when i dont want her too)

stay here and go out to the bars and hope i make magic or just enjoy the night out?

avoid all that shyt and relax this weekend after a long week by working on school projects and shyt
 

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So what y’all telling me is to not give a fukk and just fukk these hoes to sleep even though they have a professional career and I don’t??

iight, like I said this is brand new to me, usually hoes had regular jobs before, but now that I’m older they wanna have all this fancy shyt lol.

I ain’t waiting to get a professional career to get some ass cuz that’ll be years and I’ll be an ol head before I know it and I already feel type old now.

So imma make this shyt work.

If these chicks are fukking and you feel each other then definitely.

A lot of times these chicks just want someone they can chill and be relaxed with.

I seem to attract a lot of women who work in law and business and they don't want to mess with men who work in their industries. And they like that, I have an artistic creative job it makes them more excited to not have to think or talk about their work.

If you're fun and interesting chicks will flock. Just enjoy yourself whilst working towards your own goals and purpose.
 

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Who cares if you’re rejected there is nothing special about these chicks. You can apply for a job and not get it doesn’t mean your not qualified.

The thing that always helps me is remembering if someone wants to b with you they will if they don’t they won’t. Nothing you can do to change it.


I’m not going to waste my time selling myself to someone
 

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Yeah I feel u my g. U got any tips 4 pics, bio, n shyt??



If these chicks are fukking and you feel each other then definitely.

A lot of times these chicks just want someone they can chill and be relaxed with.

I seem to attract a lot of women who work in law and business and they don't want to mess with men who work in their industries. And they like that, I have an artistic creative job it makes them more excited to not have to think or talk about their work.

If you're fun and interesting chicks will flock. Just enjoy yourself whilst working towards your own goals and purpose.
 

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I be on that shyt and I don’t see anything new.

If there’s old shyt I should look at then idk because that shyt goes back hella years.
:dahell: Its a whole lot of info in numerous threads
 

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Just had a date tonight with a new chick I honestly don’t feel anything about it. The girl is nice, she a school teacher, she’s involved in her community, she travels but I still feel:patrice:

Why is travel a plus for you? Not being aggressive, but I'm curious as to why this is your category of good things about a potential partner
:jbhmm:
 

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Why is travel a plus for you? Not being aggressive, but I'm curious as to why this is your category of good things about a potential partner
:jbhmm:
I travel too and she's more of a backpacker traveller, I found that people that travelled are more open minded:ehh:
 

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Who cares if you’re rejected there is nothing special about these chicks. You can apply for a job and not get it doesn’t mean your not qualified.

The thing that always helps me is remembering if someone wants to b with you they will if they don’t they won’t. Nothing you can do to change it.


I’m not going to waste my time selling myself to someone

It's the simplest truth about dating and relationships. She either wants to be with you or not.

It's been a hard lesson chasing these chicks when they were no longer feeling it and making myself look like a fool. Now if she doesn't message I don't feel any kind of way. Sometimes a chick is just there for both of you to fukk a couple times then you both keep it moving.

The ones that actually mean and want more will make an effort.
 
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How a woman drives is an indicator of who you're dealing with. I never put much thought into this til now. If the bytch got road rage or drives like a speed demon, you're in for some trouble.
True,
also if a potential woman brags/tells you about how many cars she has wrecked or totaled. No lie. Years ago I wanted to holler at this cute smart younger woman at my company. I didn't because she kept joking about how many times she rolled cars etc. One day she asked the boss if she could have a Friday off.
She came back to work on Monday married! It turns out she got pregnant with this dude and ended up marrying him in Vegas.
I am not saying i had a chance with her but damn woman!
 
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