Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

phcitywarrior

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To the fellas out there that are apprehensive about approaching women and feel that women should come to them; get that idea out of your head. You’re a man, the onus is on you. You have to be intentional in life. Career, goals, relationships etc. This is especially true with women.

I feel collectively as men we’ve become too soft and have failed to realize how much freedom and liberty we have

Example from just today.

Was at the train station waiting for my train. In the corner of my eye I thought I saw this chick I knew from way back when. She was like 6 feet away but I was mad sweaty and looking frumpled cause I ran to catch the train (still missed it).

Anyway, I told myself eff it and pulled up on her.

“Hey aren’t you xxxxx, you looked familiar” - Me

“Yea! I glanced over but wasn’t sure it was you” Her

Anyway, we got on the train, chopped it up for like 10 mins and then exchanged numbers.

Really sunk in to me that we both had the same thought in our head about “that person looks like someone I know”, but trust me when I say if I didn’t make the move she wouldn’t have.
 

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Done messing with chicks for a while. Need to focus on everything but p*ssy for the next couple months. Not like they checking anyway.
 

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When you're not chasing it suddenly multiple chicks throw it at you.

Now if you serious and have the willpower you'll be able to resist them.

:lolbron:

Nah that’s bullshyt. I’d say that only happens when you’re in a relationship. Definitely. When you’re just chilling however, it’s like working a really long shift - boring, but still getting paid.

I pretty much control whenever I want women in my life. They don’t just suddenly pop up. I usually initiate it.

*Steps to the Hyperbolic Time Chamber*
 

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Nah that’s bullshyt. I’d say that only happens when you’re in a relationship. Definitely. When you’re just chilling however, it’s like working a really long shift - boring, but still getting paid.

I pretty much control whenever I want women in my life. They don’t just suddenly pop up. I usually initiate it.

*Steps to the Hyperbolic Time Chamber*

Most of the time it's chicks you've dealt with in the past or who had previously curved you who pop up.

It's like a signal goes out.
 

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Nah that’s bullshyt. I’d say that only happens when you’re in a relationship. Definitely. When you’re just chilling however, it’s like working a really long shift - boring, but still getting paid.

I pretty much control whenever I want women in my life. They don’t just suddenly pop up. I usually initiate it.

*Steps to the Hyperbolic Time Chamber*

I reduced my roster down to 0 when I made the decision to go hard on changing my financial situation. What you're saying is facts. I get bytches whenever I feel like it, they gon be there.

The real power comes from when you finally do get your paper right, you can be okay with 10 women or 0 women. Me personally I cant deal with no more than 2 at a time and honestly thats too much.

Once you focus on getting your paper straight, it becomes a never-ending mission and all it takes is one chick to distract you from it. :mjgrin:
 

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I reduced my roster down to 0 when I made the decision to go hard on changing my financial situation. What you're saying is facts. I get bytches whenever I feel like it, they gon be there.

The real power comes from when you finally do get your paper right, you can be okay with 10 women or 0 women. Me personally I cant deal with no more than 2 at a time and honestly thats too much.

Once you focus on getting your paper straight, it becomes a never-ending mission and all it takes is one chick to distract you from it. :mjgrin:
Hell fukking yeah, If I could have back all the bread directly or indirectly spent on bytches the past three years MAAAAAAAAAAAAAAN :mjcry:
 

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Glad i'm back home. Travelling alot really makes you sometimes appreciate the city you come from or lived in a majority of your life.

Toronto :blessed:

Oh and Dubai is the tricking capital of the world. :scust: Makes you realize just how much of a skill talking/approaching/seducing a woman really is.
 

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Hell fukking yeah, If I could have back all the bread directly or indirectly spent on bytches the past three years MAAAAAAAAAAAAAAN :mjcry:

nikka who you telling :russ: :to:

Thats why nowadays I just take chicks out to starbucks where I dont spend no more than 10 bucks. Then try to finesse em back to the crib where I got all the drank at :shaq:

Recently I met this bird on Tinder who was adamant out getting some food which I didnt mind but I wasnt hungry, but she wanted me to pay for it. All I had for her was liquor and dikk :manny:

I spent about $16.00 on some Tequila that we drank but she aint give up nothing and then went on this long tangent about how she struggling to pay her bills because she got a car from Uber and they taking her whole Uber checks and leaving her with nothing. :umad:

Then proceeded to shame me saying that Im selfish and if someone was hungry and broke she would feed them. After that it was :camby: from here.

These single mothers are broker than ever in 2019 and with Trump cutting welfare, I aint got no sympathy for em. It aint my job to feed these broke hoes. Better get on the gram and get you some simps to cash app you :ufdup:


All in all I took a 16 dollar "loss" for buying the liquor when she came over. But shid I had plenty of drank for the next few days and spent way less than I did in my simp days. I'll take that L :manny:
 

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I reduced my roster down to 0 when I made the decision to go hard on changing my financial situation. What you're saying is facts. I get bytches whenever I feel like it, they gon be there.

The real power comes from when you finally do get your paper right, you can be okay with 10 women or 0 women. Me personally I cant deal with no more than 2 at a time and honestly thats too much.

Once you focus on getting your paper straight, it becomes a never-ending mission and all it takes is one chick to distract you from it. :mjgrin:

Sometimes it’s not even about the money. I just don’t want to spend time with shorties. It’s draining and temporary. Rarely does it add any value.
 

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Sometimes it’s not even about the money. I just don’t want to spend time with shorties. It’s draining and temporary. Rarely does it add any value.

Facts. :salute:

You only get 24 hours in a day right? I spend about 11-14 hours each day grinding at my main job and my side hustle combined, plus I'm 34 so I have to make sure I get enough sleep to get ready to do it all again the next day with full energy. Then the weekends I'm focused on my side hustle full time and then spending the rest of it on family and/or my day 1's.

Finding time to spend with women are slimmer and slimmer. When I do decide to deal with women, I want to make it count. Because time is finite as fukk. The truth is that when you evaluate it from a cost/benefit analysis, the majority of these women aint worth the time.

It is what it is. :yeshrug:
 
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