To the fellas out there that are apprehensive about approaching women and feel that women should come to them; get that idea out of your head. You’re a man, the onus is on you. You have to be intentional in life. Career, goals, relationships etc. This is especially true with women.
I feel collectively as men we’ve become too soft and have failed to realize how much freedom and liberty we have
Example from just today.
Was at the train station waiting for my train. In the corner of my eye I thought I saw this chick I knew from way back when. She was like 6 feet away but I was mad sweaty and looking frumpled cause I ran to catch the train (still missed it).
Anyway, I told myself eff it and pulled up on her.
“Hey aren’t you xxxxx, you looked familiar” - Me
“Yea! I glanced over but wasn’t sure it was you” Her
Anyway, we got on the train, chopped it up for like 10 mins and then exchanged numbers.
Really sunk in to me that we both had the same thought in our head about “that person looks like someone I know”, but trust me when I say if I didn’t make the move she wouldn’t have.
I feel collectively as men we’ve become too soft and have failed to realize how much freedom and liberty we have
Example from just today.
Was at the train station waiting for my train. In the corner of my eye I thought I saw this chick I knew from way back when. She was like 6 feet away but I was mad sweaty and looking frumpled cause I ran to catch the train (still missed it).
Anyway, I told myself eff it and pulled up on her.
“Hey aren’t you xxxxx, you looked familiar” - Me
“Yea! I glanced over but wasn’t sure it was you” Her
Anyway, we got on the train, chopped it up for like 10 mins and then exchanged numbers.
Really sunk in to me that we both had the same thought in our head about “that person looks like someone I know”, but trust me when I say if I didn’t make the move she wouldn’t have.