Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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u can still come to an understanding where the girl says shes so into u and you're all she wants, then she turns around and does some fuccked up sh1t.
That's why you gotta keep your options open... unless we committed, we are single. You could tell me how bad you want me or you'll do this and that, but if your actions showing me different then I'm moved based off that
 

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That's why you gotta keep your options open... unless we committed, we are single. You could tell me how bad you want me or you'll do this and that, but if your actions showing me different then I'm moved based off that

the idea of keeping ur options open, while it sounds good, isnt entirely practical. there's always going to be one out of the many that u like the most. and if she pulls some bull, u will be hurt. but having options will keep u from hurting as bad as u would have had those options not existed.

if u can have ur options be of the same caliber (looks, education, mannerisms, hygiene) , then you are one lucky motherfucccker. most people are not.
 

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What’s funny whenever you go back to the apps it will be the same women on there

That's what cracks me up. Every time I go back on I see a core of 100 women who seem to be on Both Tinder and Bumble. Still looking for a man.

I was cycling on Bumble yesterday and saw 4 women I fukked in 2017 on there looking for 'relationships'

One got back together with her old BF in December, must not have worked out with him or she's prepping to dump him and is already seeking his replacement. That was the one who swallowed my nut in Stanley Park after our first date.

:banderas:
 

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I have a thing for teachers.


Matched with one on Tinder two days ago. It went from she loves her kids in class and that they have a test tomorrow to her showing me her titties within one hour.

These teachers are freaks fam.

Might dodge the invites I sent my friends for the super bowl and just invite her over :mjlit:

Teachers and Nurses are the universal freaks on these apps. Along with any chick who works in Law or property.

Meeting a nurse tomorrow evening as she has a night off. Sexy little Croatian ting. She's already told me her fave positions.

Going round to hers with some wine.

:shaq:
 
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the idea of keeping ur options open, while it sounds good, isnt entirely practical. there's always going to be one out of the many that u like the most. and if she pulls some bull, u will be hurt. but having options will keep u from hurting as bad as u would have had those options not existed.

if u can have ur options be of the same caliber (looks, education, mannerisms, hygiene) , then you are one lucky motherfucccker. most people are not.
I mean yea thats true. But if your still fukking other women or have a roster than your not fully invested in just that one person so when some bs happens it wont sting as bad...lol that's what u just said tho
 

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Teachers and Nurses are the universal freaks on these apps. Along with any chick who works in Law or property.

Meeting a nurse tomorrow evening as she has a night off. Sexy little Croatian ting. She's already told me her fave positions.

Going round to hers with some wine.

:shaq:

Breh running rampant in Vancouver :wow:
 

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Teachers and Nurses are the universal freaks on these apps. Along with any chick who works in Law or property.

Meeting a nurse tomorrow evening as she has a night off. Sexy little Croatian ting. She's already told me her fave positions.

Going round to hers with some wine.

:shaq:
Yeah I fukked with a nurse last year

Idk about women within law and property because I never talked to em.

But this like the third teacher I've talked too in the recent months.

shyt is easy mode on a video game
 

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I mean yea thats true. But if your still fukking other women or have a roster than your not fully invested in just that one person so when some bs happens it wont sting as bad...lol that's what u just said tho

ok. here's the thing. u need to be very careful about this "roster" thing. why?

suppose u have 3 women on ur roster.

2 of them are gorgeous but they work at walmart and have no serious education.
The 3rd woman has a law degree or works in some highbrow position. And she's gorgeous too.

Chances are, (and if you're mature), she'll be the one common sense will force u to gravitate towards - That's if u know whats good for you (provided of course she's not bat sh1t crazy). But all things considered, your intuition should tell u of the 3, she's the one u should probably give more attention to.

now, if the 3rd chick likes u back, but finds out ur out there juggling these other women, and she rightfully dumps ur ass, then what? Will u be glad u have those two walmart chicks to call up on? like seriously? Of course not. But why not? Because they're not equal. Plain and simple. They are NOT equal to the 3rd chick.

Or let's take it a step further and say those other two women didnt work at walmart. Say they are lawyers themselves, but they have kids from previous relationships. Will you still be glad u have them to call up on, especially if the 3rd chick is childless. Of course not.

im not knocking anyone that works at walmart. this is just an example. But walmart chicks (or chicks with no education) will do nothing but wreck ur life. And women with kids, well, who wants to deal with that? the baby daddies etc. And while ur screwing around with them, they can get pregnant. now, you're stuck with an uneducated chick who will run through your paycheck.

the point im making is, if you're going to be building a roster, u better make sure u have a roster full of women that can only augment your life. not the other way around.

matter of fact, there's this big booty asian chick i've decided i wont be fuccking mainly because she falls in the category of the 2 chicks i used in my example. she's a sweetheart and i actually like her because shes eye candy. but i cant consider her to be "on my roster" because she is not of high value.
 

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ok. here's the thing. u need to be very careful about this "roster" thing. why?

suppose u have 3 women on ur roster.

2 of them are gorgeous but they work at walmart and have no serious education.
The 3rd woman has a law degree or works in some highbrow position. And she's gorgeous too.

Chances are, (and if you're mature), she'll be the one common sense will force u to gravitate towards - That's if u know whats good for you (provided of course she's not bat sh1t crazy). But all things considered, your intuition should tell u of the 3, she's the one u should probably give more attention to.

now, if the 3rd chick likes u back, but finds out ur out there juggling these other women, and she rightfully dumps ur ass, then what? Will u be glad u have those two walmart chicks to call up on? like seriously? Of course not. But why not? Because they're not equal. Plain and simple. They are NOT equal to the 3rd chick.

Or let's take it a step further and say those other two women didnt work at walmart. Say they are lawyers themselves, but they have kids from previous relationships. Will you still be glad u have them to call up on, especially if the 3rd chick is childless. Of course not.

im not knocking anyone that works at walmart. this is just an example. But walmart chicks (or chicks with no education) will do nothing but wreck ur life. And women with kids, well, who wants to deal with that? the baby daddies etc. And while ur screwing around with them, they can get pregnant. now, you're stuck with an uneducated chick who will run through your paycheck.

the point im making is, if you're going to be building a roster, u better make sure u have a roster full of women that can only augment your life. not the other way around.

matter of fact, there's this big booty asian chick i've decided i wont be fuccking mainly because she falls in the category of the 2 chicks i used in my example. she's a sweetheart and i actually like her because shes eye candy. but i cant consider her to be "on my roster" because she is not of high value.

Regardless of a female got her shyt together if u ain't clicking with u just aint
Even with the baddest most stable one it happens
Also what u say has validation I also believe if ur single u tell em upfront u single I'm single we ain't exclusive.
shyt happens to where people run into each other or know one another.
If u lay ur cards down upfront she cant say shyt she may say shyt but then :camby: her ass
Ur the prize they have to earn u not the other way around
Having a roster is fine regardless of a female status in her life even if she is top notch preferred if they got their shyt together tho
Using ur ex: if all 3 lawyers
They all know what's up u do u I do me but if u want me to sign ur ass supermax deal better put the work in cuz others are
Best believe if she feeling u enough she will
Sure she could just stop fukking with u
But being upfront does wonders cuz less headache cuz like I said she say something kick rocks u were up front she cant say shyt too u

I'm sure she got a damn roster herself no reason a guy can't
 

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Any of y'all ever took time off from the dating game to get yourselves right? And not just like proper dating but even you're light flings and such.

Like you completely took yourself out the game even if there was a lay up in sight.


That's what I did. During that time period, I'm in the best shape I've been in a long time, created multiple streams of income and started investing my money in stock game and seeing a return on that. Deactivated FB, tinder and all other forms of social media to focus on getting my mind, body and spirit right.

Let me tell you. When you come out on that other side, you will be a beast. :banderas:


Now that I got the momentum going for myself and got a little bit extra spending money, I'm going to hit up Tinder in Vegas and get into some fukkery :steviej:
 

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That's what I did. During that time period, I'm in the best shape I've been in a long time, created multiple streams of income and started investing my money in stock game and seeing a return on that. Deactivated FB, tinder and all other forms of social media to focus on getting my mind, body and spirit right.

Let me tell you. When you come out on that other side, you will be a beast. :banderas:


Now that I got the momentum going for myself and got a little bit extra spending money, I'm going to hit up Tinder in Vegas and get into some fukkery :steviej:

Seems like one of those things you really can’t half-ass. You gotta be 100% in.
 

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Seems like one of those things you really can’t half-ass. You gotta be 100% in.

Yeah. You gotta go all the way monk mode if you're going to do it. Start small by doing something productive little by little each day. For me it was opening an investment account, forcing myself to exercise each and every single day, putting myself out there on job interviews and punch above my weight, paying off some annoying credit card debt, keeping my spot clean, starting a Youtube channel and waking up early even on my days off.

It's really a rewiring of the brain and it takes time, but if you do baby steps that shyt adds up. :myman:


Best move I could've ever did. Women aren't a priority at all in my life and it makes it that much easier to deal with them, because ultimately if they aint giving me what I want, I bounce immediately and just go back to dolo mode and keep building my bread up :manny:
 
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Any of y'all ever took time off from the dating game to get yourselves right? And not just like proper dating but even you're light flings and such.

Like you completely took yourself out the game even if there was a lay up in sight.
Me...

I'm not in the right frame of mind to be dating right now.
 
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