Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Hostles are a great way to meet people I hear. Never been to one myself, but always been interested.

Amazing how you can get a hostel for about $22 a night in Santo Domingo. Private for $25 with breakfast included. A 3 star hotel in manhattan is $200 a night with complimentary toothpaste and ice.

Sad how people don't realize how much easier their life can be once they start exploring...this country is a MACHINE. Try to get you working non-stop in hopes you fall into the materialistic trap in where you pay slowly for things you think you need.

goin to DR this april fam :win: cant wait
 

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Nice subject we got going on here.

Yeah, that's what's crazy about it. We be going hard on women, but sometimes it be the women that end up holding you down... but usually it's the ones you don't get in a relationship with with. I don't know what it is, but I got the best loyalty out of women I never took to that relationship level.

What I'm going to tell these young bucks is to live a balanced life. Don't base your life on competing and trying to surpass others. Don't make your metric for 'success' and satisfaction external. Find that internally and work towards self-contentment. You will waste a LOT of time and resources meaninglessly trying to compete with others.

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yeah, the important thing is to keep your self respect and remember to treat others as people. not better or worse because they have a different path.

but realistically, on top of that, people need to know about the dangers of dealing with certain types. youre right about not simping and tricking. thats in general. but whores end up having their lives planned around that. so we all have to know what, and who to look out for. its good to look at what whores base their lives around and what they do if you ever deal with them.

whores exploit men as well as their own bodies for cash. while we dont have to outright shun them from society and stone them, being cautious about what they do and how they get theirs is important. its just full awareness that is going to give someone the ability to protect their own while being able to treat others how they expect themselves to be treated.

so in the end courtesy and respect has to go both ways. a woman who doesnt respect her body and lifestyle needs to change up in order to make others look at her differently. I feel you on what jesus would do, but people are just naturally going to feel a certain way about someone who is destructive with their body and personal choices. it just is what it is. :manny:
i understand what you're saying and agree. It's not about wanting to befriend women of questionable lifestyles just for the sake of it. I definitely agree with you on that. And at the end of the day, you can't go around treating whores like ladies and ladies like whores. Like you said, we'll interact with them differently based on what they project. What i'm saying is, treating a whore like shyt dehumanizes her. Interact with her as she is but realize that being a human being is also in her identity. And the flip side of that is, if you treat a "lady" like a goddess and put her on a pedestal, you're also robbing her of her humanity (and ironically, she could resent you for it as well).

Treat people like what their identity is but unless they have made moves to harm you, you should have a basic respect for her. The fact she is a whore means she sold out a lot of her dignity already and that's not your fault, it was her choice so no need to put on the cape to try to build it up for her. That's not your role and she will abuse that a lot of times. but at the same time, all i'm saying is, the little shred of dignity she has managed to desperately hold on to, don't destroy it for no reason or just to be a dikk. And to be fair, that's something i used to do when i was younger but as you get older, you realize it's not even good for your soul.
 

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i understand what you're saying and agree. It's not about wanting to befriend women of questionable lifestyles just for the sake of it. I definitely agree with you on that. And at the end of the day, you can't go around treating whores like ladies and ladies like whores. Like you said, we'll interact with them differently based on what they project. What i'm saying is, treating a whore like shyt dehumanizes her. Interact with her as she is but realize that being a human being is also in her identity. And the flip side of that is, if you treat a "lady" like a goddess and put her on a pedestal, you're also robbing her of her humanity (and ironically, she could resent you for it as well).

Treat people like what their identity is but unless they have made moves to harm you, you should have a basic respect for her. The fact she is a whore means she sold out a lot of her dignity already and that's not your fault, it was her choice so no need to put on the cape to try to build it up for her. That's not your role and she will abuse that a lot of times. but at the same time, all i'm saying is, the little shred of dignity she has managed to desperately hold on to, don't destroy it for no reason or just to be a dikk. And to be fair, that's something i used to do when i was younger but as you get older, you realize it's not even good for your soul.

I agree with this for the most part. However, the term "whore" is relative. One chick can live her life in a manner in which she discretely fukks 20 dudes. All the while, another can be in a "relationship" with 20, and disguise her ways as being justified.

Dudes need to be on the look out for them.
 

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I agree that you don't have to treat whores like trash. You just need to avoid accepting whatever it is they are peddling. A lot of the whores are actually quite cool if you avoid sleeping with them. They can be quite generous and have fun conversation... And if you actually teach her, some of them actually turn their lives around based upon your influence. They've had dudes all their lives trying to get into their panties, but when they have a dude that doesn't and actually tells them to live to a higher standard, some of them actually respond to it.
 

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I agree that you don't have to treat whores like trash. You just need to avoid accepting whatever it is they are peddling. A lot of the whores are actually quite cool if you avoid sleeping with them. They can be quite generous and have fun conversation... And if you actually teach her, some of them actually turn their lives around based upon your influence. They've had dudes all their lives trying to get into their panties, but when they have a dude that doesn't and actually tells them to live to a higher standard, some of them actually respond to it.
Yeah they are usually the coolest ones to hang out with because they are so used to being around men.

Its a sad cycle, but sadly most men will develop feelings and become frustrated.
 

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Man, why you think that east coast dudes go out of their environment and have success with other regular chicks in other parts of the US of A? Cause we were trained to see the worst out of a chick. Just because you live in a big city doesn't mean that it is easier to find better looking chicks. quantity doesn't equal to quality.

Some of these dudes are just creepy as fukk. Can't even have a proper conversation and spit out cheesy one liners and then says the girl is being bytchy because she didn't jump at the fact you complimented her.

Girl walking by along past the admissions office after coming out of line

Random thirsty dude: Excuse me Excuse excuse miss excuse me"

Girl finally stops walking because she realizes the thirsty dude isn't gonna stop

Guy pauses and says "Excuse me miss i think your beautiful...." :rudy:

Girl looks nervous and says "thank you..." and goes ahead with walking.

Guy then proceeds to complain to his friend about how "some of these bytches be mad stuck up.....I bet if i had on a polo shirt and jeans she would have stopped for me".

These lame ass dudes are so awkward with their lines, Yes girls can be stuck up. But I mean....your not helping with these awkward ass conversations.

Your telling someone excuse me miss i think your beautiful and have them thank you and then say nothing else like they are suppose to drop their things and jump into your arms and push you down and start fukking you cowgirl

:cape:

I'm in NY so obviously that would be the example i would use but i have heard more than once that in places like Atlanta especially it can be just as bad or worse with the huge strip scene down there.

Some of these dudes love to brag but they have absolutely NO game and pushy with their thirstiness.
 

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Some of these dudes are just creepy as fukk. Can't even have a proper conversation and spit out cheesy one liners and then says the girl is being bytchy because she didn't jump at the fact you complimented her.

Girl walking by along past the admissions office after coming out of line

Random thirsty dude: Excuse me Excuse excuse miss excuse me"

Girl finally stops walking because she realizes the thirsty dude isn't gonna stop

Guy pauses and says "Excuse me miss i think your beautiful...." :rudy:

Girl looks nervous and says "thank you..." and goes ahead with walking.

Guy then proceeds to complain to his friend about how "some of these bytches be mad stuck up.....I bet if i had on a polo shirt and jeans she would have stopped for me".

These lame ass dudes are so awkward with their lines, Yes girls can be stuck up. But I mean....your not helping with these awkward ass conversations.

Your telling someone excuse me miss i think your beautiful and have them thank you and then say nothing else like they are suppose to drop their things and jump into your arms and push you down and start fukking you cowgirl

:cape:

I'm in NY so obviously that would be the example i would use but i have heard more than once that in places like Atlanta especially it can be just as bad or worse with the huge strip scene down there.

Some of these dudes love to brag but they have absolutely NO game and pushy with their thirstiness.

I used to do this:

See a broad pass me, then wait for her to pass by. If I wanna holla at her, I just say "I know you in a rush, and so am I, can I comment on something?" Then proceed to say something funny and original:myman:

The key is to make yourself look focused and look busy and not kiss ass. Humor has something that can make them look at you differently.
 

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Some of these dudes are just creepy as fukk. Can't even have a proper conversation and spit out cheesy one liners and then says the girl is being bytchy because she didn't jump at the fact you complimented her.

Girl walking by along past the admissions office after coming out of line

Random thirsty dude: Excuse me Excuse excuse miss excuse me"

Girl finally stops walking because she realizes the thirsty dude isn't gonna stop

Guy pauses and says "Excuse me miss i think your beautiful...." :rudy:

Girl looks nervous and says "thank you..." and goes ahead with walking.

Guy then proceeds to complain to his friend about how "some of these bytches be mad stuck up.....I bet if i had on a polo shirt and jeans she would have stopped for me".

These lame ass dudes are so awkward with their lines, Yes girls can be stuck up. But I mean....your not helping with these awkward ass conversations.

Your telling someone excuse me miss i think your beautiful and have them thank you and then say nothing else like they are suppose to drop their things and jump into your arms and push you down and start fukking you cowgirl

:cape:

I'm in NY so obviously that would be the example i would use but i have heard more than once that in places like Atlanta especially it can be just as bad or worse with the huge strip scene down there.

Some of these dudes love to brag but they have absolutely NO game and pushy with their thirstiness.
Timing is the most important thing in the world, I feel bad for those who never get it. You can basically say the same thing and get a completely different reaction if you just take the opportunity when it presents itself.
 

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Tell me how ridiculous it would sound if a woman came out with a book called "Act like a gentleman, think like a lady"... the title seems absurd, but the other way around, women lap it up. That's the problem in this day and age. Nobody is telling women the real. These charlatans are telling these women a whole host of 'smooth words' and pleasing garbage just in order to get their money. Instead of calling them out when they are wrong and steering them into the right direction. Too much of the industry tells women to do whatever they feel and then when the repercussions come, instead of telling them about cause and effect... that those negative repercussions came because of some fraudulent activity they engaged in, instead women are coddled and told to blame it on the man or blame it on society. They're being told things that sound pleasing to them, but in the end, they will be greatly disappointed when they are alone with no suitors because that huckster and charlatan that came and told you what you wanted to hear in order to sell you a book is nowhere to be found.
 

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“Nothing on this planet can compare with a woman’s love—it is kind and compassionate, patient and nurturing, generous and sweet and unconditional. Pure. If you are her man, she will walk on water and through a mountain for you, too, no matter how you’ve acted out, no matter what crazy thing you’ve done, no matter the time or demand. If you are her man, she will talk to you until there just aren’t any more words left to say, encourage you when you’re at rock bottom and think there just isn’t any way out, hold you in her arms when you’re sick, and laugh with you when you’re up. And if you’re her man and that woman loves you—I mean really loves you?—she will shine you up when you’re dusty, encourage you when you’re down, defend you even when she’s not so sure you were right, and hang on your every word, even when you’re not saying anything worth listening to. And no matter what you do, no matter how many times her friends say you’re no good, no matter how many times you slam the door on the relationship, she will give you her very best and then some, and keep right on trying to win over your heart, even when you act like everything she’s done to convince you she’s The One just isn’t good enough.
That’s a woman’s love—it stands the test of time, logic, and all circumstance. ”

This the kind of stuff I'm talking about. Steve Harvey over there telling women that funny style stuff. Let a negro lose his job or have her get the attention of a negro she feels is flyer than her man and we'll see how pure, sweet and unconditional her love is LOL
 
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“Most women in the real world have sons and fathers and brothers and have no real desire to see men treated unfairly.” ~ Mr Paddleship

Mate, take a seat. I’m afraid I have some bad news.

They don’t care.

There are four main categories of women:

1) Women who care about the men in their lives, but never make the connection that their naked misandry contributes to the misery of these men. Most of those women who whooped and cackled when RegisterHer lifer, Sharon Osborne, expressed delight when an innocent man was genitally mutilated belong in this category. They would not have cackled quite so much if someone had brutalized their sons. Other women’s sons? No problem. It has ever been thus: white feather campaign in WWI.

2) Women who may pay lip service to caring about the men in their lives, but in reality see them in the same way they see all other men – as utility objects to be manipulated and exploited. Such women don’t think of the men in their lives at all, except when they want something from them.

3) Feminists. These range from the mild (man-hating bigots), to the radical (man-hating bigots who advocate genocide and eugenics).

4) Women MRAs. These are rare women (I’ve never seen one, even in captivity), who regard men as actual people with collective and innate value. I can count them on two hands with fingers to spare.

Men have been struggling for many decades now with nary a peep from women. There is a reason for this.

They don’t care.

Feminism has provided today’s pampered princesses with the privilege-stuffed, consequence-free Nirvana that they believe they’re entitled to. Do you really think they can be swayed with reason and logic? Have you ever tried to discuss men’s rights with women? They will show concern for some imaginary, hypothetical female from some Third World country before they give two shyts about the son, brother or friend standing in front of them. It literally knocks the breath out of me when I experience it first-hand.

“Doing so only turns this into an Us vs. Them situation.”

This is an “Us vs. Them situation.” Peruse some feminist blogs. You may think these women are just lunatics, but many of them are influential, well-placed lunatics. Guess what? They hate our penis-swinging patriarchal guts and write widely-read screeds planning and celebrating our destruction. Our relation to them is adversarial, whether we like it or not.

We are in a battle against a powerful, well-financed and establishment-supported entity which has succeeded in stealing our rights in every sphere. This has been done with the silent collusion of vast numbers of women. As such, a few “derogatory remarks” are the least they deserve.

I agree that we should not go out of our way to alienate potential allies. However, your belief that we will succeed by approaching women with reason and logic – and being nice to them – demonstrates a stunning naiveté about our predicament. You need a little tête-à-tête with Pamela O’Shaughnessy.

Your approach makes you sound like a sane person who wants to be fair and do the right thing. You sound like a typical man. Feminists see this as a failing to be used against us – and they have done so with devastating results. It’s time to re-think your strategy.

Andybob’s Corner #2 | A Voice for Men


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^^^shyt like that is the reason I have to get out of America.
 

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Now who else wanna fukk with Hollywood Court?
^^^shyt like that is the reason I have to get out of America.


Divorce rates from around the world -

# 1 United States: 4.95 per 1,000 people
# 2 Puerto Rico: 4.47 per 1,000 people
# 3 Russia: 3.36 per 1,000 people
# 4 United Kingdom: 3.08 per 1,000 people
# 5 Denmark: 2.81 per 1,000 people
# 6 New Zealand: 2.63 per 1,000 people
# 7 Australia: 2.52 per 1,000 people
# 8 Canada: 2.46 per 1,000 people
# 9 Finland: 1.85 per 1,000 people
# 10 Barbados: 1.21 per 1,000 people
# 11 Guadeloupe: 1.18 per 1,000 people
# 12 Qatar: 0.97 per 1,000 people
# 13 Portugal: 0.88 per 1,000 people
# 14 Albania: 0.83 per 1,000 people
# 15 Tunisia: 0.82 per 1,000 people
# 16 Singapore: 0.8 per 1,000 people
# 17 China: 0.79 per 1,000 people
# 18 Greece: 0.76 per 1,000 people
# 19 Brunei: 0.72 per 1,000 people
# 20 Panama: 0.68 per 1,000 people
# 21 Syria: 0.65 per 1,000 people
# 22 Thailand: 0.58 per 1,000 people
# 23 Mauritius: 0.47 per 1,000 people
# 24 Ecuador: 0.42 per 1,000 people
# 25 El Salvador: 0.41 per 1,000 people
# 26 Cyprus: 0.39 per 1,000 people
= 27 Jamaica: 0.38 per 1,000 people
= 27 Chile: 0.38 per 1,000 people
= 29 Mongolia: 0.37 per 1,000 people
= 29 Turkey: 0.37 per 1,000 people
# 31 Mexico: 0.33 per 1,000 people
# 32 Italy: 0.27 per 1,000 people
# 33 Brazil: 0.26 per 1,000 people
# 34 Sri Lanka: 0.15 per 1,000 people
Weighted average: 1.3 per 1,000 people


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