Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Astroslik]

A year? That's a very long time. Why a year?

The first 6 months you date a chick is a straight facade, job interview finesse levels. A woman who is feeling you is going to put up a front as “perfect” girlfriend material.

Months 6-12: Her true nature starts to manifest, if you’re feeling her you ride it out till the 1 year mark then wife up. If not then you throw her to the bushes.

During this I period I give the facade that were excessively dating but no official title, however I’m still smashing other girls on the side and building an insurance roster in case of the almost inevitable fallout

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

The first 6 months you date a chick is a straight facade, job interview finesse levels. A woman who is feeling you is going to put up a front as “perfect” girlfriend material.

Months 6-12: Her true nature starts to manifest, if you’re feeling her you ride it out till the 1 year mark then wife up. If not then you throw her to the bushes.

During this I period I give the facade that were excessively dating but no official title, however I’m still smashing other girls on the side and building an insurance roster in case of the almost inevitable fallout

 

[MikelArteta]

Lol these chicks think ima bank that will give a denial message

It’s done it’s over not another word from me will be uttered

 

[VertigoKnight]

Ruthless

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

Was at a party last night.

Apparently, phone numbers aren’t the movement anymore. You have to give out instas or Snapchat. Gave a woman my Snapchat but I feel dirty about it.

Also, saw a woman get curved HARD. She had the dude on the couch, singing song lyrics to him. The dude just got up and left. She let out a big sigh and collapsed on the couch, exasperated.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Yeah a little while back at a party this shorty asked me for my IG. I told her to just give me her number. She said she didn’t know me well enough so I said aaight well I don’t have an IG so I just shrugged and walked off while she looked at me puzzled.

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

Yeah a little while back at a party this shorty asked me for my IG. I told her to just give me her number. She said she didn’t know me well enough so I said aaight well I don’t have an IG so I just shrugged and walked off while she looked at me puzzled.

Ye, the woman I was talking to was confused that I didn’t have an IG. What’s so special about IG?

 

[Killigraphy]

How long are you guys vetting a girl out before making her your girlfriend?

For me it’s at least 1 year

Besides the obvious red flags, there's no proper "allotted" time. She can be a massive thot who has a great cover. Or she could've given you her other FB/IG. The only sure fire way of checking if shes a heaux or not, is to meet any of the guys in her neighborhood. If she knows every guy by first name, I'm outta there. To be fair however, if you meet her at a bar/watering hole, you only have yourself to blame.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Ye, the woman I was talking to was confused that I didn’t have an IG. What’s so special about IG?

It’s just the thing that people expect you to be on. I’m not a part of that wave though. I’m 31, I know what it’s like to live without all that stuff so I’m cool on the social media stuff. I had a completely blank fb so I could use tinder but you don’t even need that anymore so I’m good.

 

[Killigraphy]

Was at a party last night.

Apparently, phone numbers aren’t the movement anymore. You have to give out instas or Snapchat. Gave a woman my Snapchat but I feel dirty about it.

Also, saw a woman get curved HARD. She had the dude on the couch, singing song lyrics to him. The dude just got up and left. She let out a big sigh and collapsed on the couch, exasperated.

Meta-game....say you don't have an IG or FB, you're more memorable than a photo with 100+ likes...


Gets thots hungry all the time. I do have an IG, but thats the pick up IG, completely different purpose. She gets my number, with a neg "hopefully your texts are like-worthy".

 

[Killigraphy]

It’s just the thing that people expect you to be on. I’m not a part of that wave though. I’m 31, I know what it’s like to live without all that stuff so I’m cool on the social media stuff. I had a completely blank fb so I could use tinder but you don’t even need that anymore so I’m good.

Its really because the general populous are a bunch of boring sheep, looking for that quick fix of serotonin. So they'll "sniff" every line of like and emoji on their pics. Its quite sad actually, so I do my best to be the life of the party. I remember chucking one guys phone into the street at a party I was throwing. I had only one rule, "If I see your phone out, say bye bye".....dude was angry as fukk, went home, everybody else put their phones in the basket. Gotta teach these sheep how to act.

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

Meta-game....say you don't have an IG or FB, you're more memorable than a photo with 100+ likes...


Gets thots hungry all the time. I do have an IG, but thats the pick up IG, completely different purpose. She gets my number, with a neg "hopefully your texts are like-worthy".

Next time, I'll just say - "Here - I'll give you my number. Hopefully your texts are 'like-worthy'."


This thread is a school

 

[The Message]

Yeah a little while back at a party this shorty asked me for my IG. I told her to just give me her number. She said she didn’t know me well enough so I said aaight well I don’t have an IG so I just shrugged and walked off while she looked at me puzzled.

i see that a lot nowadays. online and at the club or on the street. and i dont like it.

i dont have any social media. and i know a lot of brehs on here dont either. but even if i did have them, i still wouldnt give it to her. im not feeling the direction this trend is going. im not into feeding these hoes ig likes to swell their validation.

lately ive been on some...i dont even want their number, im trying to pull them outta the club back to my spot that same night. girls are too fukkin flaky nowadays to exchange numbers with.

 

[John Reena]

A chick don’t wanna wanna give u her number, oh well, it wasn’t meant to be.

Like they say....if Idris Elba asked for they phone number, they wouldn’t give him they IG or Snap

 

[Astroslik]

Besides the obvious red flags, there's no proper "allotted" time. She can be a massive thot who has a great cover. Or she could've given you her other FB/IG. The only sure fire way of checking if shes a heaux or not, is to meet any of the guys in her neighborhood. If she knows every guy by first name, I'm outta there. To be fair however, if you meet her at a bar/watering hole, you only have yourself to blame.

Problem is, the undercover thots will make it hard for you to get access to the people who REALLY know about her. And whose to say that they won’t lie or send you off.


The only way you’ll truly know her past is from a former friend/best friend she’ll tell you everything you need to know about her.