Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Atlrocafella

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:wow:This chick I’ve been talking to is the baddest I done pulled. I need to really be careful so I don’t get hypnotized by her looks and start low key simping. Gonna have to put her through the same test as everyone else :ufdup:
Reached my 2 date minimum. Ball is in her court now.
 

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Ball is in her court to do what?

To engage me, set something up for us to hang out. I set up and covered the first two dates, I’m clearly showing my interest. This is where I stop to see if she has any true interest for me, or is she here just to have me take her out and spend money to entertain her.
 

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Since you’re my G from the House Music thread I’ll give you the full scoop. Mind you, I just came from an MBA happy hour in DC. My grammar may not be stellar.

Anyway:

-Met shawty like August at this little function/house party with mainly Nigerians. She was the only SA (South African) girl there so we connected easily, especially as I just came from Jozi like 3 months prior. We spent like an hour just talkin about South African and Nigerian culture, plus my experience in South Africa. We flirted that whole night and exchanged numbers. Cool.

-After some texting and video chatting the following week etc, we met up like a week later to watch a movie at the theathers. After the movie I was kissing on her and all. She was in to me. This was Friday.

-Following day, Saturday, I was meant to link up with her but couldn’t. We said next week instead.

-Following weekend, she came to my spot Friday night. We cuddled and all but nothing really popped off. Just listened to music, drank some wine, Amarula (like a South African Irish cream for those who don’t know) and chilled.

-The following Saturday (week later), I brought her to a cookout. We had a good time then headed back to my place. Tried to hit that night but she wasnt with it. I fell back then (actually posted about it here).

-Following day (Sunday) we chilled for a bit before I finallly smashed. All in all pretty good.

-Following weekend, I tried to link up with her before I went to Europe but our schedules got mixed. I was in Europe for a while before she went to Zim and SA (Zimbabwe and SA). Cool, No p. We’ll link when we get back. I should say, at this point she started responding a lil slower.

-I’m back in the US and she’s back in US as well (like 1.5 months since we first met). Wanted to check up how she was doing but she seemed to reply late etc. Add in, she got some other nikkas that she’s bundled up with on her WhatsApp updates (like SC stories). I know game when I see it so I just fall back. I already hit so its good.

-She hits me up last Saturday verbatim “you see my updates but can’t even say hey”. I’m a little confused because she was posted up with other nikkas. If she wants to have a roster, thats cool, but best believe I’m not gonna initiate contact.

-I tell her, theres a Nigerian Independence day Bar crawl in DC today, let’s go. I’ll come to your place then we can uber down at 6:30. She says cool.

- I get to her place that day around 6:45 and when I come to her house (she lives with her cousin) she’s about to get in the shower and some other nikka at the door as well. I call her and tell her I’m there.

-She comes to the door and sees me and this other dude (who she claims in her “best friend”) and gets mad flustered. She’s in a towel about to get in the shower. She ushers me in and introduces me to her “best friend” (a Nigerian as well, who I got acquainted to outside). We (all three of us) come in and she’s a little taken aback by me being at her house. She admitted to me she didn’t really expect me to be there. Cool. But she said since I was there, let’s plan the night.

-So I’m chiliing on her couch while she takes a shower. I’m on my phone and what not. Her best friend is outside smoking.

-She gets out of the shower then comes to me. Talks about how she was suprised by my appearance and how she didnt want me to see her place like that (house was a mess). I play it cool after which she straddles me (drops the towel and all).

-We get a little physical, nothing too crazy before she goes to change. She then goes with her friend to go pick up his sister. She mentions that she wants to spend the night with me and I should send her my location that night so she can reach me.

-I do so, but the following days she just BSs at which I just concluded ole girl just likes having nikkas in her orbit.

-It’s all good because at least I hit :yeshrug:. I’m not looking to cuff. I just wanna know where she stands and I can regulate accordingly.

if you already hit, I wouldn't worry too much about her. She obviously loves male attention just like 99% of these females. Always have back-up hoes to help u take your mind off a chick who's playing games. I know I learnt that the hard way :francis:
 

Silkk

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Might've found my starting QB :noah:

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Cant believe I took myself out the game & spent 4 months chasing one chick :snoop:
 
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