Smh... I'm going through this in reverse...Young girls for some reason think they ready..
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Smh... I'm going through this in reverse...Young girls for some reason think they ready..
Rev Leon Lonnie Love
damned mine eyes, DAMNED mine eyes!!
tell us more breh, what happened?
Aint it great though
Dreamzeedream
Banned
I just need two that got something going for their self
Since you’re my G from the House Music thread I’ll give you the full scoop. Mind you, I just came from an MBA happy hour in DC. My grammar may not be stellar.
Anyway:
-Met shawty like August at this little function/house party with mainly Nigerians. She was the only SA (South African) girl there so we connected easily, especially as I just came from Jozi like 3 months prior. We spent like an hour just talkin about South African and Nigerian culture, plus my experience in South Africa. We flirted that whole night and exchanged numbers. Cool.
-After some texting and video chatting the following week etc, we met up like a week later to watch a movie at the theathers. After the movie I was kissing on her and all. She was in to me. This was Friday.
-Following day, Saturday, I was meant to link up with her but couldn’t. We said next week instead.
-Following weekend, she came to my spot Friday night. We cuddled and all but nothing really popped off. Just listened to music, drank some wine, Amarula (like a South African Irish cream for those who don’t know) and chilled.
-The following Saturday (week later), I brought her to a cookout. We had a good time then headed back to my place. Tried to hit that night but she wasnt with it. I fell back then (actually posted about it here).
-Following day (Sunday) we chilled for a bit before I finallly smashed. All in all pretty good.
-Following weekend, I tried to link up with her before I went to Europe but our schedules got mixed. I was in Europe for a while before she went to Zim and SA (Zimbabwe and SA). Cool, No p. We’ll link when we get back. I should say, at this point she started responding a lil slower.
-I’m back in the US and she’s back in US as well (like 1.5 months since we first met). Wanted to check up how she was doing but she seemed to reply late etc. Add in, she got some other nikkas that she’s bundled up with on her WhatsApp updates (like SC stories). I know game when I see it so I just fall back. I already hit so its good.
-She hits me up last Saturday verbatim “you see my updates but can’t even say hey”. I’m a little confused because she was posted up with other nikkas. If she wants to have a roster, thats cool, but best believe I’m not gonna initiate contact.
-I tell her, theres a Nigerian Independence day Bar crawl in DC today, let’s go. I’ll come to your place then we can uber down at 6:30. She says cool.
- I get to her place that day around 6:45 and when I come to her house (she lives with her cousin) she’s about to get in the shower and some other nikka at the door as well. I call her and tell her I’m there.
-She comes to the door and sees me and this other dude (who she claims in her “best friend”) and gets mad flustered. She’s in a towel about to get in the shower. She ushers me in and introduces me to her “best friend” (a Nigerian as well, who I got acquainted to outside). We (all three of us) come in and she’s a little taken aback by me being at her house. She admitted to me she didn’t really expect me to be there. Cool. But she said since I was there, let’s plan the night.
-So I’m chiliing on her couch while she takes a shower. I’m on my phone and what not. Her best friend is outside smoking.
-She gets out of the shower then comes to me. Talks about how she was suprised by my appearance and how she didnt want me to see her place like that (house was a mess). I play it cool after which she straddles me (drops the towel and all).
-We get a little physical, nothing too crazy before she goes to change. She then goes with her friend to go pick up his sister. She mentions that she wants to spend the night with me and I should send her my location that night so she can reach me.
-I do so, but the following days she just BSs at which I just concluded ole girl just likes having nikkas in her orbit.
-It’s all good because at least I hit
. I’m not looking to cuff. I just wanna know where she stands and I can regulate accordingly.That's the problem, you shouldn't even care.Since you’re my G from the House Music thread I’ll give you the full scoop. Mind you, I just came from an MBA happy hour in DC. My grammar may not be stellar.
Anyway:
-Met shawty like August at this little function/house party with mainly Nigerians. She was the only SA (South African) girl there so we connected easily, especially as I just came from Jozi like 3 months prior. We spent like an hour just talkin about South African and Nigerian culture, plus my experience in South Africa. We flirted that whole night and exchanged numbers. Cool.
-After some texting and video chatting the following week etc, we met up like a week later to watch a movie at the theathers. After the movie I was kissing on her and all. She was in to me. This was Friday.
-Following day, Saturday, I was meant to link up with her but couldn’t. We said next week instead.
-Following weekend, she came to my spot Friday night. We cuddled and all but nothing really popped off. Just listened to music, drank some wine, Amarula (like a South African Irish cream for those who don’t know) and chilled.
-The following Saturday (week later), I brought her to a cookout. We had a good time then headed back to my place. Tried to hit that night but she wasnt with it. I fell back then (actually posted about it here).
-Following day (Sunday) we chilled for a bit before I finallly smashed. All in all pretty good.
-Following weekend, I tried to link up with her before I went to Europe but our schedules got mixed. I was in Europe for a while before she went to Zim and SA (Zimbabwe and SA). Cool, No p. We’ll link when we get back. I should say, at this point she started responding a lil slower.
-I’m back in the US and she’s back in US as well (like 1.5 months since we first met). Wanted to check up how she was doing but she seemed to reply late etc. Add in, she got some other nikkas that she’s bundled up with on her WhatsApp updates (like SC stories). I know game when I see it so I just fall back. I already hit so its good.
-She hits me up last Saturday verbatim “you see my updates but can’t even say hey”. I’m a little confused because she was posted up with other nikkas. If she wants to have a roster, thats cool, but best believe I’m not gonna initiate contact.
-I tell her, theres a Nigerian Independence day Bar crawl in DC today, let’s go. I’ll come to your place then we can uber down at 6:30. She says cool.
- I get to her place that day around 6:45 and when I come to her house (she lives with her cousin) she’s about to get in the shower and some other nikka at the door as well. I call her and tell her I’m there.
-She comes to the door and sees me and this other dude (who she claims in her “best friend”) and gets mad flustered. She’s in a towel about to get in the shower. She ushers me in and introduces me to her “best friend” (a Nigerian as well, who I got acquainted to outside). We (all three of us) come in and she’s a little taken aback by me being at her house. She admitted to me she didn’t really expect me to be there. Cool. But she said since I was there, let’s plan the night.
-So I’m chiliing on her couch while she takes a shower. I’m on my phone and what not. Her best friend is outside smoking.
-She gets out of the shower then comes to me. Talks about how she was suprised by my appearance and how she didnt want me to see her place like that (house was a mess). I play it cool after which she straddles me (drops the towel and all).
-We get a little physical, nothing too crazy before she goes to change. She then goes with her friend to go pick up his sister. She mentions that she wants to spend the night with me and I should send her my location that night so she can reach me.
-I do so, but the following days she just BSs at which I just concluded ole girl just likes having nikkas in her orbit.
-It’s all good because at least I hit
Hence me just falling back. At first I wanted her to be in a roster but now, ehhh. I just wanna lay low and stack some bread. In the process of switching jobs soon, so I don't need the extra drama.
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
This online thing sucks.Was gonna meet up with chick but she told me "I'm 5'4 but I'm not skinny" and she said she didn't work out etc....and she admitted to angle pics 
probably gonna quit app in day or two but man there isn't quality on these things
probably gonna quit app in day or two but man there isn't quality on these thingsVinny Lupton
Superstar
You should be able to tell when she's a possible fatty from the pics/angles, pleghboiThis online thing sucks.Was gonna meet up with chick but she told me "I'm 5'4 but I'm not skinny" and she said she didn't work out etc....and she admitted to angle pics
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
I'm new to this online thing bruh,I mean I see ya point.What I'm saying at least ol girl told me she was fat .
VertigoKnight
Veteran
Hmmm so my OG PAAG has been on my mind the last few days. Actually had a dream about her this past sunday.
Woke up this morning to a message from her out of the blue. Haven't seen this chick in person since early January. We've had very short text convos the last back in May but that was it.
She was like I've been thinking about you the past few months we should get coffee. Last time that happened late last year, I ended up at hers in her bed.
I'm going to be very cautious this time. But at least this time I'm actually single which tbh was the main factor to us stop seeing each other last time.
I've replied to her message, but just given her light details and see how she goes. I have my plate full already so don't need to chase her like before.
Woke up this morning to a message from her out of the blue. Haven't seen this chick in person since early January. We've had very short text convos the last back in May but that was it.
She was like I've been thinking about you the past few months we should get coffee. Last time that happened late last year, I ended up at hers in her bed.
I'm going to be very cautious this time. But at least this time I'm actually single which tbh was the main factor to us stop seeing each other last time.
I've replied to her message, but just given her light details and see how she goes. I have my plate full already so don't need to chase her like before.
Don’t usually post things in here like that but caught a couple new ones last weekend and probably got another new one this weekend. Funny how when I was ready to go dry for the winter the wetter things got, right?
Got another one coming over tomorrow night. Just here for the good times.
Got another one coming over tomorrow night. Just here for the good times.
VertigoKnight
Veteran
It always happens when you aren't looking. It's all about the energy.
I'm back on my primal confidence wave after a summer of half hearted attempts at recapturing it and the effects are astounding and the chicks are rolling in.