Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Wild self]

Brehs, I have a couple of questions. Only a few areas where I have to break the ice to speak on a chick. I know how to approach chicks in most areas, just places like the train or a bus stop is what I usually don't do. Anyone got advice how to make effective ice-breakers that don't sound like pick up lines?

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Approaching a new woman every day for a month, Day 16:

I decided to take the opportunity to do this while in the corniest of all places, the grocery store. I figured it couldn't hurt if it was such a tried and true place for pickup, so I gave it a try myself.

After putting some premium level food items in my cart (salmon, a couple bottles of red, special stir-fry vegetables), I decided to casually lurk around while pretending to look for something important. I wound up running into a really hot cougar while going down the magazine aisle. She was checking out some popular fiction novel that I read a review about, and decided to ask her about it, using it as an excuse to break the ice with her.

We began chatting pretty spiritedly pretty quickly. She was older and craving attention, and I myself was going through a major confidence boost while going through this process this month. I normally do pretty well with older women because they're a little easier for everyone to get involved with... but this was a little different because I've got a different demeanor since the first of this month.

It turns out that she is a divorcee who is recovering from what looked to be a really brutal divorce where her husband cheated on her with his secretary. I tried to look like I had as much genuine concern for her as I could. In all fairness, I did feel for her because getting cheated on by someone younger than you like that can really sting, but I tried to express it via body language and word choice as best I could.

I think that the food that I had in my cart made me look a little more sophisticated than the average 26 year old, which makes women feel more special when you talk to them. I guess the line of thought is, "Wow, if this smart and sophisticated guy is talking to me, I must be a top-shelf kind of girl!"

Anyway, I'm meeting her for wine in Little Italy next Tuesday. I'll let you guys know how it goes.

 

[Czerka]

Just broke up with my gf and can't sleep. Need some wisdom brehs

 

[Liquid]

Just broke up with my gf and can't sleep. Need some wisdom brehs

sounds like she broke up with you...

 

[Malta]

Just broke up with my gf and can't sleep. Need some wisdom brehs

How long were you together, and who broke up with who?

 

[Wild self]

my bad ya'll, i'm over here reminiscin...i'm remembering back in the day when women ain't have 10,000 piercings, all these tattoos, funky hair colors and wasn't just caked in make-up.

mane i used to be infatuated with them yellabones that had that look back in high school

this was the definition of fine when I was growing up

no tattoos... just fine, pure femininity. I feel sorry for ya'll youngn's LOL. ya'll got these broads in these huge frameless glasses with some '80s swag' rocking some ol homeless look... why all these women got to look in the camera now pouting their lips with a look on their face like they are confused?

Garcelle Beauvais

Mariah Carey

man how could i forget rachel from bet island styles?

women today don't have any form of elegance or humility. Straight ratchet ass drunkards scamming any and everything for the sake of $$$. And they call themselves hustlers

 

[Wild self]

Nothing with nursing but its gotten a bit too predictable that its the only answer you hear from girls and it always ends up being the bad ones. I guarantee if your at a whore house and the girl starts talking about herself she will mention studying to be a nurse.

Can you imagine how many ex whores are gonna be raising families in 15 to 20 years? I'm not even exaggerating now. I think this goes hand in hand with when Wild Self thinks simping is gonna be dead in the near future. I mean so many former whores in the nursing field gonna be raising families? And this increase in technology.

Expect a lot of these girls to start getting aired out and end up lonely. I'm not even joking right now.....watch the huge increase in divorces initiated by men in the next 20 years.

A shoutout . Good looks!

I said it before and I will say it again: simping is gonna die and any form of relationships are gonna die with it. When the men who are simps get tired of being tricked, laughed at, etc. he will lash out and literally form an organization to end simping and relationships. Its basically the 'Endgame' of American marriages and relationships. Marriages are going down 5% every year and will reach 0% by 2030. All I say is play the game, get ya passport game up, and travel, cause America may be inhabitable in the not-too-distant future.

its funny because ive been looking at t his situation and ive predicted basically the same thing. relationships are not going to be feasible on any large scale in the next 20 years. so thats a really huge segment of the female population that must end up alone.

i predicted a rise in lesbian relationships. this kind of scared me because its like.... it will create a giant culture shift in the country where all the men are on one side and all the women are basically on another. a country of men, and lesbians.

i know that sounds crazy but really think about it. women wont settle for being alone forever and they will take whatever they can get if thats what it comes down to ie lesbian relationships. thats just the nature of women, it doesnt matter who loves them as long as they can get what they want. but living in a country like that would be super weird just imagine what that would be like

Lesbian relationships are skyrocketing cause men don't know how to be men anymore! and who shamed masculinity? Feminists and society. Ask any chick why she went the other way and they all say the same thing: men don't act like men anymore. The feminists will dig their own graves so that they can see the rest of society suffer with them.

 

[Wild self]

The other day I was in the library in a private room by myself and this black girl comes in quietly and sits across and says "can i sit here..."

Thought for a second she wasn't a stereotypical loud mouth because of how she asked but then out of nowhere bytch opens up her laptop and starts talking to someone on skype loud as hell and as the day went on more and more people came in(most her friends) and she kept being loud.

Extroverted people say they dont get quiet people but at least we mind our own business. I dont get how can someone honestly talk about someone literally every single minute......not even exaggerating

How can someone talk so much every literal minute

Like shut up and go read a book or something. Always gotta be doing something every second like you said. I'm starting to think the minute a girl I am into says something like "Your so quiet or Why arey you so quiet"...thats my cue it ain't gonna work out(unless its just a fellow introverted girl saying that as a corny inside joke between us )

Blessing about being introverted is that you can observe from a far alot more and read people alot more easily. They assume your being quiet or your slow intellectually because your not responding but dont realize you probably no more about them than vice versa.

@662LetGo I seriously think introverted girls are rarer than introverted men. Do you realize how frustrating it is being around campus and seeing that 99 percent of the girls have no class and are basically cursing up a storm every second or saying some shyt in a hallway around classes like "Well im gonna relax this week.....and im also gonna have sex with my boyfriend!". Um thanks for saying that in the hallway. The way alot of extroverts talk(the attention whore type) is like they look for self validation. Its almost sad.

And then hearing ratchet girls in public talk about "hahhaaha I farted"

Women in America are encouraged to be divas and extroverted cause that is how they "hustle" . They cannot be wifed or even on any kind of date. They are also the most judgmental ones that curse and discriminate against anyone that they don't consider "cool" or "normal." If they are left unchecked, they gonna turn into some hate group, on some KKK type shyt that will persecute anyone that opposes them.

@CrossBones the funny thing is a lot of women love to pretend stripping is any better than hoeing. Let's be straight up........strippers are basically "closet hoes". Let's not beat around the bush.

And it is laughable at women saying things like "I did it as a means to support myself and earn money but you fukked that hooker because you were selfishly looking for pleasure....there is a difference!!!!"

It is hilarious sometimes how they convince themselves about their past. Going into a 15 page lauryn hill essay about everything.

How in the hell can you get angry at and basically shyt on a guy and talk about how he is a dog and all of this and leave out the fact to everyone that you were stripping/hoeing/"modeling" before you met him.

I figured that "modeling" is basically a gateway to career ho-ing around and going through life as easy as possible. But it all ends badly with 99% of the chicks, anyway. Social Media really done damage to our society. Maybe beyond repair.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Women in America are encouraged to be divas and extroverted cause that is how they "hustle" . They cannot be wifed or even on any kind of date. They are also the most judgmental ones that curse and discriminate against anyone that they don't consider "cool" or "normal." If they are left unchecked, they gonna turn into some hate group, on some KKK type shyt that will persecute anyone that opposes them.




I figured that "modeling" is basically a gateway to career ho-ing around and going through life as easy as possible. But it all ends badly with 99% of the chicks, anyway. Social Media really done damage to our society. Maybe beyond repair.

Found this gem on Facebook. I immediately think of it every time I'm told the words, "I'm a model!"

 

[Wild self]

Man people have no idea how beautiful the world is because they've been locked into their little gray cityscape matrix. There are unbelievable sites out there.

This is a real place:
Castle Neuschwanstein

Just knowing the beauty out there makes my soul rise.

For a second, I thought that I was looking at pics of a Legend of Zelda game, but like you said, they are real .

What a world we live in and how 95% of the people don't have the initiative to travel to those majestic places. SMH

 

[Prestige]

Does someone already have most of the gems in a saved document, if so can you post it up?

I want to print this thread, but that is going to take a while. Is there an app or a program I can use to view all the posts and copy?

 

[CASHAPP]

Women in America are encouraged to be divas and extroverted cause that is how they "hustle" . They cannot be wifed or even on any kind of date. They are also the most judgmental ones that curse and discriminate against anyone that they don't consider "cool" or "normal." If they are left unchecked, they gonna turn into some hate group, on some KKK type shyt that will persecute anyone that opposes them.


Look how weak they get after those "loud mouths" and start playing the victim role and in "danger" the first thing out their mouth is "Im calling the cops...." "Ill see you in court"

Once again

"Man is stronger.......woman is coward"----Bob Marley

I'm 20 I'm still young but I really need to find that type of woman I have been talking about the past couple of pages. The whole "opposites attract" is complete nonsense.

I figured that "modeling" is basically a gateway to career ho-ing around and going through life as easy as possible. But it all ends badly with 99% of the chicks, anyway. Social Media really done damage to our society. Maybe beyond repair.

Yeah some guys may think its cute but i would never risk getting into a relationship with a model. Even if it turns out she is not a ratchet hoe.......being in a relationship with a "MODEL" means the woman has a FAR HIGHER chance of being the high maintanence out of touch type that we are criticizing.


Of course there has always been "talk" about how Naomi Campbell has pretty much been a high class escort(not officially an escort in the sense that she has a website and all that stuff) for European/Russian elites

From april of this yearstory on NYpost)

Ekaterina and Vladimir Doronin will not be divorcing any time soon.

Despite reports that Ekaterina — the long-estranged wife of the Russian billionaire and property mogul — was finally ready to file for divorce and would name her hubby’s model girlfriend Naomi Campbell as a cause of their split, sources close to Ekaterina say that couldn’t be further from the truth.

“She has no plans to file for divorce in the near future,” a friend of Ekaterina told Page Six. “She hasn’t met with a lawyer as of yet. Vladimir takes very good care of her and her daughter [Katia, 15], and they both have very separate lives.”



Not sure if you have ever heard of that Exploretalent website but whenever I find or hear about a girl I know in some way having a page i try to avoid getting into a relationship with them.

I'm not saying that this introverted/artsy/humble types of woman can also not be poison in some way especially when it comes to hoeing, because any type is capable.


Also on alot of these escort websites, it really is sickening to see how a LARGE MAJORITY of them who are independent and have their own websites, almost always there is some "gift page" listing the types of gifts they like(jewelry,shoes,handbags,etc) when they are ALREADY getting an insane amount of pay that other people struggle to get. How about changing to that "gift section" to a section about charity donation. Yeah I know the charity argument in some cases can be annoying but in situations like this its ridiculous.

Victoria Cruz - Elite Female Companion

^Sexy hoe.....but seriously back on topic eh hem!! Look at those ridiculous demands. Go ahead charge as much as you want....but to then go and dedicate a page about gifts you like/want in addition when your already making a guy burn out hundreds from his pockets to fukk you

Also something else about cheating that I wanted to discuss. This goes for all of you guys. The NEXT TIME a woman you know whether through family, friends or a peer of yours spouts nonsense about men cheating more than woman......

Ask them something like ......."And who the fukk are men cheating with.....goats"?

And then follow up with asking them whether he planet has more men or women on it......


Now they are gonna get scared with the follow up



And finish by telling them by basic math that would tell you that its women who are cheating ALOT MORE than men

 

[kevm3]

Brehs, I have a couple of questions. Only a few areas where I have to break the ice to speak on a chick. I know how to approach chicks in most areas, just places like the train or a bus stop is what I usually don't do. Anyone got advice how to make effective ice-breakers that don't sound like pick up lines?

best way is to just get at her on some regular conversation tip. if you come out with all that trying to sound fly stuff, she might look at you weird.

 

[Malta]

To the 18-21 year olds, if I could go back to that age, this is what I would have done knowing what I know now.


- Save every last disposable dollar I had, splurge only when needed (clothes).
- Never bought the nice car with the depreciating value, took forever to sell and it didn't really bring any added joy to my life.
- Would have learned a second language in college, several at that, it expands your horizons and opens up new opportunities.
- Never would have had a girlfriend beyond a 1 year relationship from the ages of 21-25.
- Would've gotten the absolute cheapest apartment I could find, maybe even rented a damn single room in someones house.

Why would I have done all of this? Because by the time I reach 35-40, I would have been able to retire in another country with all the money I've saved. I would have been able to work a part time job in any number of "paradise" beach locations and simply live out the rest of my life however I wanted to. Whether that is Southeast Asia somewhere, or South America, I could have bought a condo or house outright.

Do you want to live to work, or do you want to simply live? Don't get caught up in the bullshyt material things, save your money, invest and stack as much money as you can so you don't have to work until you're 75 years old.

 

[Sinnerman]

Why are Americans in such a hurry to get married? At 24 years old people are already thinking of marriage, it's ridiculous to me. Take your time, build you career, travel the world, really figure out who you are before you even think of marriage. I'm not even saying one has to sleep around and all of that, but I just don't think people truly realize what marriage is. That's why divorce rates are so high.

Sorry for that rant y'all but I needed to get that off my chest

I mean goddamn I had 3 middle aged married white women hit on me this week, I feel bad for their husbands really

To the 18-21 year olds, if I could go back to that age, this is what I would have done knowing what I know now.


- Save every last disposable dollar I had, slurge only when needed (clothes).
- Never bought the nice car with the depreciating value, took forever to sell and it didn't really bring any added joy to my life.
- Would have learned a second language in college, several at that, it expands your horizons and opens up new opportunities.
- Never would have had a girlfriend beyond a 1 year relationship from the ages of 21-25.
- Would've gotten the absolute cheapest apartment I could find, maybe even rented a damn single room in someones house.

Why would I have done all of this? Because by the time I reach 35-40, I would have been able to retire in another country with all the money I've saved. I would have been able to work a part time job in any number of "paradise" beach locations and simply live out the rest of my life however I wanted to. Whether that is Southeast Asia somewhere, or South America, I could have bought a condo or house outright.

Do you want to live to work, or do you want to simply live? Don't get caught up in the bullshyt material things, save your money, invest and stack as much money as you can so you don't have to work until you're 75 years old.

I love getting advice like this