Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Man...the devil working overtime I swear :snoop:

That short chick I told y'all about earlier came to work in this tight ass blue suit

Booty on extra bubble :whew:

This is work so I ain't tryna get caught up but she still pushing for all these after work meetups:francis:

Why does forbidden fruit always taste so much better :francis:
EAT IIIITTTTT
 

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EAT IIIITTTTT

Breh...it’s tempting but also risky. This is a proper corporate environment. I could get the axe if this circulates around. Plus you never wanna be that guy that couldn’t keep it in his pants. If this was retail or some “job” then I would’ve pounced since.

Ole girl could also just be the friendly type.

My boy at work was like set up a move for drinks and read her. If she DTF then you in. If not, you got plausible deniability that you made an approach.

Even still, once I’m in there it aint work anymore. If she were on a different team or department then its a different case.
 

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Breh...it’s tempting but also risky. This is a proper corporate environment. I could get the axe if this circulates around. Plus you never wanna be that guy that couldn’t keep it in his pants. If this was retail or some “job” then I would’ve pounced since.

Ole girl could also just be the friendly type.

My boy at work was like set up a move for drinks and read her. If she DTF then you in. If not, you got plausible deniability that you made an approach.

Even still, once I’m in there it aint work anymore. If she were on a different team or department then its a different case.

Don’t do it. So many other women out there. Stay strong.
 

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Breh...it’s tempting but also risky. This is a proper corporate environment. I could get the axe if this circulates around. Plus you never wanna be that guy that couldn’t keep it in his pants. If this was retail or some “job” then I would’ve pounced since.

Ole girl could also just be the friendly type.

My boy at work was like set up a move for drinks and read her. If she DTF then you in. If not, you got plausible deniability that you made an approach.

Even still, once I’m in there it aint work anymore. If she were on a different team or department then its a different case.
In that case. Keep the money first. It's not worth the risk
 

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Breh...it’s tempting but also risky. This is a proper corporate environment. I could get the axe if this circulates around. Plus you never wanna be that guy that couldn’t keep it in his pants. If this was retail or some “job” then I would’ve pounced since.

Ole girl could also just be the friendly type.

My boy at work was like set up a move for drinks and read her. If she DTF then you in. If not, you got plausible deniability that you made an approach.

Even still, once I’m in there it aint work anymore. If she were on a different team or department then its a different case.
In that case. Keep the money first. It's not worth the risk
 

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Breh...it’s tempting but also risky. This is a proper corporate environment. I could get the axe if this circulates around. Plus you never wanna be that guy that couldn’t keep it in his pants. If this was retail or some “job” then I would’ve pounced since.

Ole girl could also just be the friendly type.

My boy at work was like set up a move for drinks and read her. If she DTF then you in. If not, you got plausible deniability that you made an approach.

Even still, once I’m in there it aint work anymore. If she were on a different team or department then its a different case.

Im leaving my job not 100 because of this but it was a factor.

Even becoming friends with women at work will never happen again.

Theres no upside. Dont do it brehs.
 

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Yeah there are enough women outside of work to mess with.

Dealing with any chick especially in a corporate environment is a risk I would never make. Unless it's a serious relationship.

No doubt. But for some reason it's always the ones that are closest that look more enticing. She also told me she's messed around at work before :snoop:
 

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i spent my 20s chasing women on my romantical shyt and was hit with the Heisman constantly

i got to 30 and said fukk it....i dont do dates, i dont text and i really only might get at you on the weekends cause i prefer to be alone

and now i got options

go figure :ehh:
Opposite For Me, Looking Back I Got A Good Handful Of Girls I Could Have Cuffed But Didn't Because I Ain't Want A Relationship And I Let Females Know What It Was. It Seems The Older I Get The Less Wifable My Age Bracket Is So I Kinda Wannna Settle Down Now But I Ain't In A Rush.
 

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Breh...it’s tempting but also risky. This is a proper corporate environment. I could get the axe if this circulates around. Plus you never wanna be that guy that couldn’t keep it in his pants. If this was retail or some “job” then I would’ve pounced since.

Ole girl could also just be the friendly type.

My boy at work was like set up a move for drinks and read her. If she DTF then you in. If not, you got plausible deniability that you made an approach.

Even still, once I’m in there it aint work anymore. If she were on a different team or department then its a different case.

Don't risk it...it makes work 10x harder OP. Even in the case that you guys break it off well you'll still have to self-regulate a helluva to not let bad feelings foster.
 

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Never feel uncomfortable or worry what to say with women. Here's some tips to flip the game

1) Congruence. Congruence means to be apologetically yourself. Staying true to your thoughts, words and actions. Women care more about the EMOTION behind what you feeling instead of the words being said.
For example:

Cindy: "Buy me a drink"
Sam: "For what?"
Cindy: "I like you"
Sam: "Get your own drink"

Sam didn't buy Cindy the drink because he noticed that Cindy was looking for a comeup and he rejected the bait. Chicks know that most men want sex, so they'll make the men chase after them, lure them into paying $$$ (simps) or lure them for resources. When she feels that you are a CHALLENGE, the game drastically changes.

2.) Self esteem. Self Esteem is whether or not you feel good
Men are visual creates. They put women on a pedestal. They feel that "pretty" girls/bad bytches are unattainable and not good enough to get them. Instead, FEEL like you're THE MAN!
3.)
Non-neediness. Neediness is desperately getting a girl's approval and validation
Women hate neediness in a breh. Instead, feel comfortable within yourself; adopt an abundance mentality (take it or leave it) and not seeking validation.

There's also Machiavellian tactics that Women use to plot against men, I'll address in a future post.
 

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You dont wanna feed her cheeto's?

Nah she's not my type. Plus I've been at the company since March and I've smashed two chicks from the same department. :leostare:

There's no drama but word does get around and what happens is you end up being off limits to certain women once they find out. I learned the hard way women will mark their territory even if you have no intentions of fukking with them again.

There's a handful of fine women that work on my floor, that I wouldn't mind getting with. The last thing I want to do is be labeled as the guy that's just smashing everything.
 
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