Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

HARLEM AL

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So I gotta stay quiet and observe :stopitslime: I hate that shyt:stopitslime:
Leave her ass. You don’t need no explanation. She’s only going to make you madder.

I must express to my young brothers. Women will always think they could do better. This is not the case at all. As a man you’ll get better with age. Just stay in shape and better yourself. After 24 a women is wash up especially if she don’t keep herself in shape.
 

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Women been pissing me off so much lately :mjlol: I totally see why Patrice O' Neal felt the way he did before he went out.

But before I start my rant about the last few situations I have dealt with, I have to give notice to something.


Brehs don't EVER be mad at a female if she leaves you on read or refuses to go back to your crib.
We seen that thread about the tinder killer. nikka killed about 6 girls.
This is something that men rarely have to worry about and women have to consider at all times.
And you never think about the situation of having a few drinks and your like the only female around some dude you just met and his boys there too.
Those situations have to be uncomfortable

Just be careful with your actions brehs and just think sometimes how women feel. You might not be perverted or creepy or anything but you know the levels men can truly reach.

Also if you not her type you not her type. Don't be out here reading books or finding ways to trick her into getting with you.

Be yourself, respect women, stand your ground, and be a god damn man-- the result will be beautiful.

Now on to my rants :mjlit:
Be yourself? Even if you are in a drought
 

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His shyt use to be gold.

Now I listen to Dante Nero, some old Patrice, roger Alan Currie and AMS.

Sometimes you know the game but you need to be reminded to keep you on your toes.
cant believe yall overcomplicate dating to the point where you need to watch videos on it
 

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cant believe yall overcomplicate dating to the point where you need to watch videos on it

Most of whats being mentioned isn't beyond dating, its long term relationship tactic. Dating started complicated, its now made even more complicated with social media. As I mentioned before. Every thirsty dude is hitting the dms of every pair of swinging t*ts in a body con dress. Which makes women more vapid and blase to begin with. But its also made simple hookups easier, get on tinder and swipe away. Though some here have failed at tinder so the old school game can still apply.
 

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Most of whats being mentioned isn't beyond dating, its long term relationship tactic. Dating started complicated, its now made even more complicated with social media. As I mentioned before. Every thirsty dude is hitting the dms of every pair of swinging t*ts in a body con dress. Which makes women more vapid and blase to begin with. But its also made simple hookups easier, get on tinder and swipe away. Though some here have failed at tinder so the old school game can still apply.
dawg just talk to em and if they're interested, then they're interested

these "games" are meaningless and if u have TIME to play these "games", you have bigger problems than dating.
 

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I'm tryna have patience, but I wanna fukk as many women as I can while I'm young. I don't wanna be an old head going to clubs 7 nights a week, etc.

It's like I'm rushing to fukk more bytches so I can just chill when older and focus on more things.

I feel like I'm pressed for time because time flies so fast, so I wanna make sure I don't miss it.



I keep a simple method, a formula if you will. Time = Love/proximity or T=LP. You don't have to worry much about the math, simply that they're all interchangeable. If you love something, you'll spend the most time in its proximity. This is basically how that average looking fat fukk gets that 6 who works at the mall. Human beings are simple, they're lonely, its the human condition, spend enough time with anyone (even someone you consider out of your league) and they'll return the kindness with sex and or attention. The problem most men face, is that they want the quick pay off. Even in cold approach, no one is getting numbers 10 minutes in. It requires hours for the formula to work out.

Most men I talk to, want some; get p*ssy quick scheme, when in reality, they need lessons in mid-tier level patience. I would disagree however, you can trick plenty of women into being with you; gold diggers, high maintenance girls, etc. However it won't ever turn out good if you're looking for a long term thing. Manipulation is a major aspect in the game, however, this is only for one night stands/booty calls. I learned a long time ago, women have no "type", they have "accommodations".
 

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dawg just talk to em and if they're interested, then they're interested

these "games" are meaningless and if u have TIME to play these "games", you have bigger problems than dating.


You do know its been like this since women the 14th century right? Women playing cat and mouse, the term was created for a reason. Marquis De Sade talks about the "games" women play in his writing....


Again if you're looking for a long term relationship, "talk to em", you're still gonna be playing the game, whether you want to or not.


But if we're talking about going out every weekend and trying to get numbers, then you have to be well versed in said tactic. But lets not act like a woman has never given you a shyt tests or made you qualify. Feigning ignorance is reserved for women.
 

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I'm tryna have patience, but I wanna fukk as many women as I can while I'm young. I don't wanna be an old head going to clubs 7 nights a week, etc.

It's like I'm rushing to fukk more bytches so I can just chill when older and focus on more things.

I feel like I'm pressed for time because time flies so fast, so I wanna make sure I don't miss it.

I understand you completely. But when you're older you'll have no rest....the DLC that's waiting for you are girls that want father figures... :shaq:, no one told me about that DLC, and dear zeus, is it amazing. You'll have plenty of fun either way, patience just makes you look more important as time passes in any situation. Think about it this way. The average mouth breather, worries about time...a construct that is flimsy and based solely on mass agreement...be better, be beyond that. To you, time is something someone else uses to try and control you with, to you, your presence, gravitas, and personality is beyond time. Think of yourself like that and being impatient will seem like a joke.
 

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You wise muthafukka. That was good.
:patrice:

What's DLC?

I'm scared of getting old bruh
:lupe:

Is there a certain age you recommend to seed up a chick or settle down ? Or just fukk these hoes forever?

Do you go hard for younger women at your age ? Like going out a lot?




I understand you completely. But when you're older you'll have no rest....the DLC that's waiting for you are girls that want father figures... :shaq:, no one told me about that DLC, and dear zeus, is it amazing. You'll have plenty of fun either way, patience just makes you look more important as time passes in any situation. Think about it this way. The average mouth breather, worries about time...a construct that is flimsy and based solely on mass agreement...be better, be beyond that. To you, time is something someone else uses to try and control you with, to you, your presence, gravitas, and personality is beyond time. Think of yourself like that and being impatient will seem like a joke.
 

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They the same mfs hollering at grown ass men saying I graduate soon :camby:
Lol nah they was chasing after dudes they age(from what I seen). They probably between the ages of 18to21. But if they put doing cold approaches then theres no reason any of the coli brehs ain't out making moves
 

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You wise muthafukka. That was good.
:patrice:

What's DLC?

I'm scared of getting old bruh
:lupe:

Is there a certain age you recommend to seed up a chick or settle down ? Or just fukk these hoes forever?

Do you go hard for younger women at your age ? Like going out a lot?


The DLC being; younger(Legal of course) broads will cling to you like magnets as you get older, and older women will appreciate you not looking like every slob/thirsty dude. Its quite nice. I call it the "George Clooney expansion".

We all get old, but a good man ages like wine, women age like bread...keep that in your memory forever and it will invigorate your passion for women and even more important, for life.

Honestly, I can't tell you when to settle down, that's a personal subject that comes when you feel you've had your run of all those birds out there. But worry less about it. A good woman is a byproduct of a good life well lived, not a reward.

I'm in NY, so I'm always outside, however I don't bother with clubs anymore, the real secret (for my location at least) are the 24 hour deli's and 7 Eleven's close to said bars/clubs. Plenty will hover the area looking for coffee or late night snacks, its like shooting fish in a barrel.
 

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cant believe yall overcomplicate dating to the point where you need to watch videos on it
Most of their shyt is revolves around men bettering themselves. shyt isn’t about just dating.

Besides that if one of these young boys want to watch them let them watch. I wouldn’t want them to get into to something that could have been avoided. I really don’t see no problem with it. They still have to go out there and apply their knowledge.
 

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dawg just talk to em and if they're interested, then they're interested

these "games" are meaningless and if u have TIME to play these "games", you have bigger problems than dating.
You are in the game whether you believe it or not. Soon as you approach a bytch she’ll put you in different boxes. You either going to be the one she just fukks, the nikka that pays for food, or the one she sees as boyfriend material.

Whenever I see shyt like this I could tell who’s been out there and who hasn’t. This shyt ain’t the 90s. It’s different for this generation.
 

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Hmmmm never thought about the gas station and delis. You mind telling me your game to get a chick over your crib or hers?

I have an idea just curious on what you do.




The DLC being; younger(Legal of course) broads will cling to you like magnets as you get older, and older women will appreciate you not looking like every slob/thirsty dude. Its quite nice. I call it the "George Clooney expansion".

We all get old, but a good man ages like wine, women age like bread...keep that in your memory forever and it will invigorate your passion for women and even more important, for life.

Honestly, I can't tell you when to settle down, that's a personal subject that comes when you feel you've had your run of all those birds out there. But worry less about it. A good woman is a byproduct of a good life well lived, not a reward.

I'm in NY, so I'm always outside, however I don't bother with clubs anymore, the real secret (for my location at least) are the 24 hour deli's and 7 Eleven's close to said bars/clubs. Plenty will hover the area looking for coffee or late night snacks, its like shooting fish in a barrel.
 
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