Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[twan83]

#facts

Man, i've been dating this italian chick for a few months (on and off - my first interracial thing, so i'm iffy on it)... regardless, she does nothing but cater to me. It's not like she is trying to make come up or anything; she's a registered nurse. Own place, own car, own things.

We are on and off again because its the first time i've ever dated a white woman and truthfully, it makes me uneasy. The looks and stares, plus sometimes I think and wonder that she cannot relate to what I go through. Truthfully brehs, I don't know if I should carry on with her. She treats me like a king, literally. She is from Italy, has the accent and everything, she's a permanent resident. Banging body to boot; fat ass pretty feet and a just a beautiful face.

I don't know what I'm going to do.

She Italian nice I was stationed in italy for 3 years
My ex is white so the staring thing is normal whether she white or not if its interracial it happens. Just dont give a fukk bout it. It's just u and her.
Breh it's simple a good woman is someone u keep regardless of her race. If she treats u good and makes u happy stick with it. Dont let anybody tell u otherwise. A good woman is hard to find dont let race be a factor y u cant be with one that fits ur needs.

 

[Apex]

this x 1000

i keep telling nikkas this. cold approach is where its at.

yeah its harder (initially) but the lane is WIDE open. girls are literally WAITING for dudes to approach them when theyre out...and nikkas still dont do it

you'd be surprised how receptive the breezies are in person as opposed to online.

that same 23 year old who swiped left on you on tinder is straight bout it if you bossed up and stepped to her walking out of starbucks.

what do you even say in cold approach

 

[BeeGoinCrazy]

what do you even say in cold approach

just be like oh hey excuse me miss you're looking great today or something like that, can't be forced tho it's gotta be smooth if that makes sense I met my now ex Mikayla by approaching her where she's originally from dudes don't really approach so when I did it she was like

 

[Coerezmoney2212]

The next time I see her im see what's what. The worse thing she can say is no. If she shoot me down Or I'm not feeling what she saying . Then cool,on to the next but at least the situation will be off my mind and I can stop over thinking

 

[mortuus est]

ex is coming around tomorrow to pick up her stuff and get "closure" so you know what that means brehs

 

[The Message]

what do you even say in cold approach

telling a chick...hey ur cute, what's good? that's okay but it puts a lotta them on the defensive and theyve heard that shyt a million times. BUT...that can work cuz like breh said...nikkas don't approach no more.

but for me....in the daytime, i compliment them about something thats unique to them...

if she has a sexy, confident walk, ill say something about that in a funny, teasing way. this one broad was strutting so hard, I stopped her and told her she looked like she was in a revlon commercial. she fukkin loved that shyt.

then I follow up with something like..."i was curious to see if ur as interesting as you look". i flirt and tease hard, but thats just my style

then from there i just keep it basic...heavy flirting mixed with small talk.

dont ask questions. make statements about what you notice about them. girls love to talk about themselves. instead of "what do you do for work?" say..."you look like ur a personal trainer" "you got a stylish vibe, you must work in fashion". shyt like that. keep it lighthearted and fun and if she's feelin you, shell take the reigns and wont be able to shut her mouth up lol

at the club tho...dumb all that shyt down. approach super bold, loud, super flirty and heavy on the physicality. and try to bring her home the same night.

your whole game should be centered around... bytch im better than you lol. yeah you're cute...but what else you got to offer? my shyt is flirty & sarcastic. like in 4th grade...i like the girl but i throw sand in her face and steal her milk. lol

over time youll develop ur own style.

couple key points:
it really doesnt matter how you open, as long as you get her attention
step to that bytch HARD!
strong sexual eye contact NOT
bold vocal tone
slick smile mixed with
lead the convo in your direction
and always ask yourself, does she know I have a dikk? flirt with the broad!!

don't be talking about the weather for ten minutes with the broad. you saw her and want to fukk her....always be escalating your convo towards that purpose.

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

ex is coming around tomorrow to pick up her stuff and get "closure" so you know what that means brehs

Means you dont have sex. But you gonna simp out and get the same piece of p*ssy you had before

 

[Solano707]

Means you dont have sex. But you gonna simp out and get the same piece of p*ssy you had before

...nah, nikka gonna play himself. Women do this on purpose - they want you to simp hard one last time and take away what little self-respect that you have before they leave you with blue balls.

 

[MollyGalaga]

why my weakness gotta be thick yellow bone women

This my 3rd one this week

 

[MollyGalaga]

Also im finna soon i can feel it

Idk if i can keep being HOHs

 

[YaFingerDealMe]

Do shyt right and they take it for granted, just about to go back to not caring

 

[International Playa]

Brehs need to position themselves to be at many social events as possible, it gives you more opportunities to meet women. It doesnt have to be a nightclub, it could be a cookout, fundraising event, marathon,concerts, sports event, festivals, speed dating, happy hour (good for meeting professional women) etc. You not gonna meet women in your house. GET OUT OFF YOUR HOUSE!!!

Only meet use online dating apps as a supplement dont rely on it, it gives you access to women you wouldnt meet in you real life.

@FireDwaneCasey can you recommend some free dating websites? I only have used POF, I need to expand to different sites

Do y'all stay cool with girls y'all fukked.... 4 me it's either we continue in a relationship or they cut off all communication

Always stay cool, they will invite you to parties/social events with more females & you can still get to fukk again whenever u go thru a dry spell.

 

[semicko82]

sooooo I was smashing this married chick.. all hell went loose the past couple of weeks. Her husband came up to the job (we both work at the same job). Dude bought a gun up there and she quit her job immediately. Luckily, I was off that day. Is it bad I sympathize with her husband?

 

[mortuus est]

...nah, nikka gonna play himself. Women do this on purpose - they want you to simp hard one last time and take away what little self-respect that you have before they leave you with blue balls.

Means you dont have sex. But you gonna simp out and get the same piece of p*ssy you had before

i wont be putting in work , if she gives me the vajay then so be it

 

[semicko82]

Also im finna soon i can feel it

Idk if i can keep being HOHs

has simping ever worked for you