Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I was about to say before I read the whole thing, "help ya man's out".

You know how many nikkas know I be going through shyt and don't help to put me on?

I wish I had nikkas that could put me on good shyt.

It's all good tho, imma find a way myself.

i've always had that mentality too, when I eat I want my whole circle to eat

but man some dudes the advice goes in one ear and out the other

then when you start doing good, they say you changed smh.

I always encourage them though, I hope one day they realise I was just trying to help em

this isn't even strictly with women, but life itself.
 

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I was about to say before I read the whole thing, "help ya man's out".

You know how many nikkas know I be going through shyt and don't help to put me on?

I wish I had nikkas that could put me on good shyt.

It's all good tho, imma find a way myself.

i've always had that mentality too, when I eat I want my whole circle to eat

but man some dudes the advice goes in one ear and out the other

then when you start doing good, they say you changed smh.

I always encourage them though, I hope one day they realise I was just trying to help em

this isn't even strictly with women, but life itself.
I’m in a doctorate program and making moves. One of my home boys dropped out of college and doesn’t want to go out. I invite him to parties with me he refuses to come or some excuse. He has no other friends except me and my other homeboy. We try to tell him to get his shyt together and he is severely shy. We tried everything and he refuses to change. In all honesty he is a grown man at 28. Almost 30 and he is like this. I tell him to hit the gym and get a job to have some money in his pocket. We have been trying to help him for 10 years now and he is always back to the same bullshyt. In all it comes down to him to figure his self out of this mess he is in. I wish him the best but he refuses to change imma have to cut him off. At this point I’m focused on my career and purpose.
 

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Did some shyt happen to him? Sounds like he gave up on life.

I don't have any "friends" to help me, I got the fam support, but you need ya boys to go to the gym with, to bag bytches with.

I don't have anyone to really do that with, mad nikkas is fake.

So I have to do everything myself; gym, club, bar, etc. All dolo.

I have to get jobs dolo because no one wants to put me on, I even tried to have cacs put me on. Nada.

The sad thing about it is, when my boys moved, I only been to the club like 5 times in 2 years, you know how much p*ssy I missed?

I'm still very angry about it, I literally have to go to the club and bars dolo. I mean it's kinda cool because now I can go full hunting mode for one night stands, but I didn't realize how much time I wasted, I didn't even realize.

I have no male figures or peers to push me to do better, just myself.

shyt, didn't mean to rant.



I’m in a doctorate program and making moves. One of my home boys dropped out of college and doesn’t want to go out. I invite him to parties with me he refuses to come or some excuse. He has no other friends except me and my other homeboy. We try to tell him to get his shyt together and he is severely shy. We tried everything and he refuses to change. In all honesty he is a grown man at 28. Almost 30 and he is like this. I tell him to hit the gym and get a job to have some money in his pocket. We have been trying to help him for 10 years now and he is always back to the same bullshyt. In all it comes down to him to figure his self out of this mess he is in. I wish him the best but he refuses to change imma have to cut him off. At this point I’m focused on my career and purpose.
 

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Did some shyt happen to him? Sounds like he gave up on life.

I don't have any "friends" to help me, I got the fam support, but you need ya boys to go to the gym with, to bag bytches with.

I don't have anyone to really do that with, mad nikkas is fake.

So I have to do everything myself; gym, club, bar, etc. All dolo.

I have to get jobs dolo because no one wants to put me on, I even tried to have cacs put me on. Nada.

The sad thing about it is, when my boys moved, I only been to the club like 5 times in 2 years, you know how much p*ssy I missed?

I'm still very angry about it, I literally have to go to the club and bars dolo. I mean it's kinda cool because now I can go full hunting mode for one night stands, but I didn't realize how much time I wasted, I didn't even realize.

I have no male figures or peers to push me to do better, just myself.

shyt, didn't mean to rant.
He comes from a two parent home. He is Guyanese and lived a normal life. It’s just he was sheltered heavily when he was younger. Wasn’t allowed to go out and shyt. So he played video games all day. I think that is where is his social anxiety comes from. But it’s like damn we tried a lot of things with him but it’s like he can’t function without one of us there for him. For example if we got to a bar he doesn’t get a drink unless one of us goes first. It’s weird. Or when we signed up for the gym I did it first. He wanted us to go with him to sign up. It’s weird. And he flunked out of college before because he was so overly shy he couldn’t handle being there dolo or make new friends. He has a current falling out with one of our other boys cuz he wanted to see his transcript to see his grades. But he refused then said he flunked out of college again. Mind you the first time around he flunked out we worked hard for 2 and 1/2 years to get him back in school. At this current rate he is going to be a bum at 30. And we tried everything. Imma help him get a job but after that that’s it. He got to figure out his own life.
 

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Sounds like he has severe anxiety.


He comes from a two parent home. He is Guyanese and lived a normal life. It’s just he was sheltered heavily when he was younger. Wasn’t allowed to go out and shyt. So he played video games all day. I think that is where is his social anxiety comes from. But it’s like damn we tried a lot of things with him but it’s like he can’t function without one of us there for him. For example if we got to a bar he doesn’t get a drink unless one of us goes first. It’s weird. Or when we signed up for the gym I did it first. He wanted us to go with him to sign up. It’s weird. And he flunked out of college before because he was so overly shy he couldn’t handle being there dolo or make new friends. He has a current falling out with one of our other boys cuz he wanted to see his transcript to see his grades. But he refused then said he flunked out of college again. Mind you the first time around he flunked out we worked hard for 2 and 1/2 years to get him back in school. At this current rate he is going to be a bum at 30. And we tried everything. Imma help him get a job but after that that’s it. He got to figure out his own life.
 

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Was thinking of going out dolo to fukk some hoes, but got shyt that came up.

What's good with you?

And would you say tinder got worse or is it still good ? I'm hesitant because I don't have a good job and I know that it pops on your profile or they might ask.


what we getting into this weekend crehs :takedat:
 

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Was thinking of going out dolo to fukk some hoes, but got shyt that came up.

What's good with you?

And would you say tinder got worse or is it still good ? I'm hesitant because I don't have a good job and I know that it pops on your profile or they might ask.
What i gotta say about Tinder is life is what you make it. I fell back for like 4 months, deleted my account. I'm down like 25 lbs since January and told my boys everywhere we went to take good pics of me. Came bacc and I'm eating . I dont have my job in my profile. These hoes are more like us than they wanna admit. If they like what they see they gonna talk with you. After that it's on u
 

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Did some shyt happen to him? Sounds like he gave up on life.

I don't have any "friends" to help me, I got the fam support, but you need ya boys to go to the gym with, to bag bytches with.

I don't have anyone to really do that with, mad nikkas is fake.

So I have to do everything myself; gym, club, bar, etc. All dolo.

I have to get jobs dolo because no one wants to put me on, I even tried to have cacs put me on. Nada.

The sad thing about it is, when my boys moved, I only been to the club like 5 times in 2 years, you know how much p*ssy I missed?

I'm still very angry about it, I literally have to go to the club and bars dolo. I mean it's kinda cool because now I can go full hunting mode for one night stands, but I didn't realize how much time I wasted, I didn't even realize.

I have no male figures or peers to push me to do better, just myself.

shyt, didn't mean to rant.

My life story..no father figure is tough..:mjcry:

The potential payoff is greater when the dominos begin to fall...

Breaking outta that slump is the biggest challenge..your subconscious has been winning for a long time and your beginning the mental war to be in control again...

Women are the small barometer on the bigger scale...

You can talk your way into some very good social circles if you play ya cards right..
 

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that's solid g. sometimes you have to do what you have to. all I'll say is if your homie ever sees the light and comes to you, just be open to helping him then. I've cut off some people but am always open to helping if they come correct.

I’m in a doctorate program and making moves. One of my home boys dropped out of college and doesn’t want to go out. I invite him to parties with me he refuses to come or some excuse. He has no other friends except me and my other homeboy. We try to tell him to get his shyt together and he is severely shy. We tried everything and he refuses to change. In all honesty he is a grown man at 28. Almost 30 and he is like this. I tell him to hit the gym and get a job to have some money in his pocket. We have been trying to help him for 10 years now and he is always back to the same bullshyt. In all it comes down to him to figure his self out of this mess he is in. I wish him the best but he refuses to change imma have to cut him off. At this point I’m focused on my career and purpose.
 

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My nikka

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My life story..no father figure is tough..:mjcry:

The potential payoff is greater when the dominos begin to fall...

Breaking outta that slump is the biggest challenge..your subconscious has been winning for a long time and your beginning the mental war to be in control again...

Women are the small barometer on the bigger scale...

You can talk your way into some very good social circles if you play ya cards right..
 
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He comes from a two parent home. He is Guyanese and lived a normal life. It’s just he was sheltered heavily when he was younger. Wasn’t allowed to go out and shyt. So he played video games all day. I think that is where is his social anxiety comes from. But it’s like damn we tried a lot of things with him but it’s like he can’t function without one of us there for him. For example if we got to a bar he doesn’t get a drink unless one of us goes first. It’s weird. Or when we signed up for the gym I did it first. He wanted us to go with him to sign up. It’s weird. And he flunked out of college before because he was so overly shy he couldn’t handle being there dolo or make new friends. He has a current falling out with one of our other boys cuz he wanted to see his transcript to see his grades. But he refused then said he flunked out of college again. Mind you the first time around he flunked out we worked hard for 2 and 1/2 years to get him back in school. At this current rate he is going to be a bum at 30. And we tried everything. Imma help him get a job but after that that’s it. He got to figure out his own life.
He gotta learn how to stand on his kwn
 
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Did some shyt happen to him? Sounds like he gave up on life.

I don't have any "friends" to help me, I got the fam support, but you need ya boys to go to the gym with, to bag bytches with.

I don't have anyone to really do that with, mad nikkas is fake.

So I have to do everything myself; gym, club, bar, etc. All dolo.

I have to get jobs dolo because no one wants to put me on, I even tried to have cacs put me on. Nada.

The sad thing about it is, when my boys moved, I only been to the club like 5 times in 2 years, you know how much p*ssy I missed?

I'm still very angry about it, I literally have to go to the club and bars dolo. I mean it's kinda cool because now I can go full hunting mode for one night stands, but I didn't realize how much time I wasted, I didn't even realize.

I have no male figures or peers to push me to do better, just myself.

shyt, didn't mean to rant.
You don't have any cousins or brothers?
 
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