Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[ball15life]

I’m 30


Anyone in here a silimar age..?

What age women do you go for...

I feel like women my age & up are too serious and looking to move too quickly with relationship

Then the younger 22-24 are kind of annoying but always the easiest to crack but most of them I couldn’t see myself dating at all..

I'm 31

I've always had a thing where I couldn't seriously date someone younger than my little sister (she's 26) but now that she's older I don't care as much. Ideally it would be 26-32 I guess.

I say I want someone my age but like @Playa_Wit_A_Passport said a lot of them are trying to hit fast forward on life. I don't blame them, but that's not me. I want a mix of maturity and expectations of taking stuff slow.

My ex was 28 and it was straight.

Honestly every girl is a case by case basis. Def not going lower than 25 though haha

 

[Silkk]

I can't stand wanting a bytch so bad, getting the number only not to get a text back. So fukking aggravating.

Man a majority of the ones I meet, I be fukking up somewhere along the line I know

95% of these broads already be having nikkas

Run them phone numbers and get the hoe fax or just play backup if you cool with it

 

[True Blue Moon]

yo, me and my baby mama havent talked for weeks at all

should i get her something for Mother's Day even if i hate her guts?

so far, i'm not

Whether you get her something or not, you should definitely do something to show her you appreciate her. Regardless of what's between y'all, she gave you a kid so don't let hating her guts get in the way of making sure she's good -- even if it's just to empower her as a mom.

 

[Vinny Lupton]

the sexual energy outchea when the weather is nice is
if you aint been outside today you LAUCE

 

[Lord Bison]

This is the first time this has happened to me as an adult and it's throwing me off.

This girl I've been hanging out with over the past couple of months told me she was confused about her feelings for me after I made a move on her. I've known her for years just from being in the same industry but we didn't really become close until recently when she moved back to my city.

She's taken me out of drinks for my birthday and I even took her to brunch and dinner but the relationship never really progressed for some reason. Recently I tried to make a move on her after she came by yesterday and it she said she doesn't know if she wants me as a platonic friend or views me romantically. She said sometimes she feels one way and sometimes the other. Don't really know how to take it. I feel like I'd feel better about it if she just told me she views me as a friend and then I can just move accordingly but how do you even take it when you ask a girl does she just want to me my friend and she says no but she's confused.....and needs to think.

I spent most of my 20s smashing joints with no strings attached even taking a chick out on multiple dates without having smashed is pretty new to me. She actually seemed like the type of girl I'd date seriously but after this I'm kinda sour on the situation. I'm not sure if she viewed me as a platonic friend and she's just trying to let me down easy......or she's actually confused but it's strange. I guess the only thing I can do is just fall back.

You're on a one way ticket to the friendzone breh. The only way out of it is to refuse her offer for "friendship".

What I would recommend in your situation is to let her know that you see her more than just a friend. "If you don't see the same with me, that's okay we can remain friends"

If she gives you any answer other than a yes, politely accept the rejection and ghost her ass. When I say ghost her ass, I mean no contact whatsoever. No answering text messages, phone calls, liking pics or anything.

If she wants to be "friends" then keep her as a friend on social media and let her see you with another chick who appreciates what you have to offer. Any time that you spend with this chick after that is time wasted on your part. That time could be better spent on a chick that's willing to go all in with you.

 

[360dagod]

This is the first time this has happened to me as an adult and it's throwing me off.

This girl I've been hanging out with over the past couple of months told me she was confused about her feelings for me after I made a move on her. I've known her for years just from being in the same industry but we didn't really become close until recently when she moved back to my city.

She's taken me out of drinks for my birthday and I even took her to brunch and dinner but the relationship never really progressed for some reason. Recently I tried to make a move on her after she came by yesterday and it she said she doesn't know if she wants me as a platonic friend or views me romantically. She said sometimes she feels one way and sometimes the other. Don't really know how to take it. I feel like I'd feel better about it if she just told me she views me as a friend and then I can just move accordingly but how do you even take it when you ask a girl does she just want to me my friend and she says no but she's confused.....and needs to think.

I spent most of my 20s smashing joints with no strings attached even taking a chick out on multiple dates without having smashed is pretty new to me. She actually seemed like the type of girl I'd date seriously but after this I'm kinda sour on the situation. I'm not sure if she viewed me as a platonic friend and she's just trying to let me down easy......or she's actually confused but it's strange. I guess the only thing I can do is just fall back.

shyt...if she sees you as a friend, and can help you get a bag, keep her around

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

shyt...if she sees you as a friend, and can help you get a bag, keep her around

You're on a one way ticket to the friendzone breh. The only way out of it is to refuse her offer for "friendship".

What I would recommend in your situation is to let her know that you see her more than just a friend. "If you don't see the same with me, that's okay we can remain friends"

If she gives you any answer other than a yes, politely accept the rejection and ghost her ass. When I say ghost her ass, I mean no contact whatsoever. No answering text messages, phone calls, liking pics or anything.

If she wants to be "friends" then keep her as a friend on social media and let her see you with another chick who appreciates what you have to offer. Any time that you spend with this chick after that is time wasted on your part. That time could be better spent on a chick that's willing to go all in with you.

Actually thought about it.....

It just doesn't benefit me to date a chick like this. I had a whimsical girlfriend in my early 20s who's emotions changed like the wind and that kinda changed my view on relationships.
A big reason why I spent most of my 20s just smashing joints. It was just a lot easier than focusing on my career as a dj and keeping it light and having fun with women.

I'm getting similar vibes. One of my worst fears is a dating a chick who just isn't stable or consistent in her feelings or who might be settling for me. I'm better off dating a girl who I know actually likes me and is excited to be around me as opposed to trying to convince a chick otherwise.

I'm just going to fall back and not contact her again. I'm actually cool with being friends (especially given we're in the same industry) but I can't be the guy who's basically dating a chick (which is really what I've been doing) & yet still in the friend zone.

 

[Lord Bison]

Actually thought about it.....

It just doesn't benefit me to date a chick like this. I had a whimsical girlfriend in my early 20s who's emotions changed like the wind and that kinda changed my view on relationships.
A big reason why I spent most of my 20s just smashing joints. It was just a lot easier than focusing on my career as a dj and keeping it light and having fun with women.

I'm getting similar vibes. One of my worst fears is a dating a chick who just isn't stable or consistent in her feelings or who might be settling for me. I'm better off dating a girl who I know actually likes me and is excited to be around me as opposed to trying to convince a chick otherwise.

I'm just going to fall back and not contact her again. I'm actually cool with being friends (especially given we're in the same industry) but I can't be the guy who's basically dating a chick (which is really what I've been doing) & yet still in the friend zone.

Before you fall all the way back, shoot that full court shot so that way you can bounce with no regrets. You never know, it might go in


I actually got out of the friendzone once by doing this. It took about a year but the minute she seen me on facebook with another chick, all the confessions came out. It sounds like to me if you're ever seen on social media with another badd chick, she'll bite. But for me I kind of lost respect for ol girl for me having to do all this just so we can date.

But the puzzy was good tho. She couldn't have any kids so I nutted raw with no regrets

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Before you fall all the way back, shoot that full court shot so that way you can bounce with no regrets. You never know, it might go in


I actually got out of the friendzone once by doing this. It took about a year but the minute she seen me on facebook with another chick, all the confessions came out. It sounds like to me if you're ever seen on social media with another badd chick, she'll bite. But for me I kind of lost respect for ol girl for me having to do all this just so we can date.

But the puzzy was good tho. She couldn't have any kids so I nutted raw with no regrets

Honestly, I think she knows how I feel now. I made a move and that's when she told me she wasn't sure how she feels about me. At this point I just gotta fall back. I'd be shocked if she doesn't hit me back to chill or talk at some point but right now I feel like I've done all I can do without looking desperate. If she doesn't hit me back then I know she wasn't feeling me at all.

 

[Youseenmywork]

I reached a point and I don't know but I like it. Not that I'm a a$$hole or anything of that nature but just a point where I just say whatever is on my mind or do whatever I want. If I don't feel like talking to a woman on the phone I just tell her I don't feel like talking on the phone now, back in the day id just be on it until she said she had to go. I used to get angry or whatever in the past when I stopped talking to a chick and then she popped back up with some bs excuse.


Now I'm , I had two women this week can't even tell the last time I talked to them message me on whats app nice display pic, I said thanks and we went back and forth convo don't care why they fell off the face of the world. Even went out with this chick to see avengers and she told me after she felt a type of way that I didn't pay for her movie ticket and popcorn. I told her I know how she feels I also felt a type of way that she didn't offer to pay for my movie ticket and popcorn. Guess whose contacting me every day to hang out

One of the girls i was canoodling and cavorting with last year during christmas she got me a gift so I got her one a e gift card a small amount to amazon, today she e-mailed me back the gift I would have got pissed back in the day all I did is say thanks and used to help me buy a carry on luggage I had my eye on.


These women ain't elevating my stress or whatever anymore, literally nothing they can do , i still have a few simp remnants from my simping days but it feels to be in control.

I believe I'm getting there as well. Who I am in solitude when it's just me is who I am with women now. Men are the light women are vessels without male light they are useless vessels. All men need to do is value themselves and put themselves first as well as don't give away attention for free.

 

[Jimmy from Linkedin]

Hope some brothers in relationships, and or women can help me out.

I've figured out that I am a generally light dude, happy-go-lucky positivity(Leo) type. That doesn't mean I'm not serious or whatever, just always looking towards the brighter things. Generally realistically-optimist I'd say. My woman isn't so much. We are definitely different in this regard. Her life hasn't been as easy as mine which certainly contributes, but I am definitely at a loss for words when she starts describing things. I have suppressed my ability to try and solve her problems, "...damn, foreal?.... That's messed up..." those sorts of things only go so far. She is right where she says I don't know how to help her when she is down. (How do you help someone up when they are down so often???? The thing of living by example then can be perceived as a "you aren't there for me because you aren't here with me"??

She is extremely smart also which allows her to see through my attempts at consolation. Like I said, I am generally at a loss because our standing moods are very different, but philosophically/ideologically we see the same which is definitely rare! I have definitely in the past listened to try to solve, but I'm feeling trapped between a rock and a hard place because I can't just be silent-while-listening. Also on the other hand I also feel like the advice and stuff that I have is rejected, (Taurus/Stubborn/Flatbush type energy) and so why should I contribute. It also feels against the archetypical man thing to ask her for what strategies I can use to help her up (because it feels like 1. I should know 2. weakness?)

This is a lot to unpack, I'll definitely elaborate, reps to those who can constructively contribute. Thanks. I'll take PM's and stuff to not clog up the thread.

 

[Silkk]

I love when bytches give me a reason to stop giving a fukk. I kind of be looking for shyt now

You was posed to be send me nudes days ago but didn't

Read, but no reply

Taking days to text back but you on IG

 

[MollyGalaga]

So far okcupid >>> tinder

 

[Silkk]

So far okcupid >>> tinder

How much it costs?

 

[John Reena]

Hope some brothers in relationships, and or women can help me out.

I've figured out that I am a generally light dude, happy-go-lucky positivity(Leo) type. That doesn't mean I'm not serious or whatever, just always looking towards the brighter things. Generally realistically-optimist I'd say. My woman isn't so much. We are definitely different in this regard. Her life hasn't been as easy as mine which certainly contributes, but I am definitely at a loss for words when she starts describing things. I have suppressed my ability to try and solve her problems, "...damn, foreal?.... That's messed up..." those sorts of things only go so far. She is right where she says I don't know how to help her when she is down. (How do you help someone up when they are down so often???? The thing of living by example then can be perceived as a "you aren't there for me because you aren't here with me"??

She is extremely smart also which allows her to see through my attempts at consolation. Like I said, I am generally at a loss because our standing moods are very different, but philosophically/ideologically we see the same which is definitely rare! I have definitely in the past listened to try to solve, but I'm feeling trapped between a rock and a hard place because I can't just be silent-while-listening. Also on the other hand I also feel like the advice and stuff that I have is rejected, (Taurus/Stubborn/Flatbush type energy) and so why should I contribute. It also feels against the archetypical man thing to ask her for what strategies I can use to help her up (because it feels like 1. I should know 2. weakness?)

This is a lot to unpack, I'll definitely elaborate, reps to those who can constructively contribute. Thanks. I'll take PM's and stuff to not clog up the thread.

Man, that’s one of them “fork in the road” situations you and ya woman run into. Do I put up with something about her that’s a deal breaker or do I just put my head down n go along wit it? Its up to you in da end