Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I can't stand wanting a bytch so bad, getting the number only not to get a text back. So fukking aggravating. :damn:

that's why you talk to a bunch of chicks breh, none of these chicks are special there is always a hotter one with a better body, better attitude out there

Treat yourself like you're Alphabet(google) and calling/texting to offer the opportunity for a interview. You think if one applicant doesn't gt back they are like its so aggravating? Nah they have tons of options and are in control.

If a woman isn't giving you the time of day just delete and get on with your life, if she's really interestd in you she will pop back up. like I mentioned above two women I haven't talked to in ages (never even had their numbers saved) both messaged me, if a woman wants to be in your life nothing will stop her from reaching out to you

It's like if you have ten balloons and one flies away you're just gonna be :ehh:, now if you only have 1 balloon and that flies away you're gonna be :to:.

I'm not even bragging or boasting becaus I've had my famine times, but I'm talking to so much women at this moment that I don't even notice if carol or whatever hasn't replied back to my text message or if I haven't talked or hanged out with her in a week or so because there women who are actually replying and women who are actually making the time to hang out with the scarf
 

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Anyone in here a silimar age..?

What age women do you go for...

I feel like women my age & up are too serious and looking to move too quickly with relationship

Then the younger 22-24 are kind of annoying but always the easiest to crack but most of them I couldn’t see myself dating at all..
 

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Actually had two dates with the thai chick. Met her at lunch and then we went to the beach this evening. She did that thing that good looking women do of warning you they won't have makeup on and not to be shocked when you see them. I was like OK.

And as suspected this chick still looked fire without any on.

:takedat:

Feeling her vibe and scoped out her ass. was a bit windy for her to strip down to a bikini. But damn I want to nail this chick. I get the feeling she wants a up front FWB situation.

Set up a date for Saturday she suggested brunch or dinner. I said dinner as I know what that usually leads to. She wants me to choose a place to go to round my area. And wants to park her car near me so she can have a drink or two or three ha.
 

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Perusing Tinder and Bumble this evening and I'm seeing loads of chicks I've slept with popping back on with new profiles.

Yes summer is definitely here. :shaq::takedat:

I actually saw my OG Chinese chick has come out of her self imposed hibernation and was on Bumble. I haven't spoken to her in a while. I've actually dreamt of her a few times this past week and a half. And seeing her profile. I still have strong feelings for her. Partly why we stopped messing with each other early this year. Things were getting intensely heavy. And she got anxiety as she didn't know where she stood with me.

I have a feeling she's going to reach out and ask to see me. I know I'll be tempted to see her. I need closure with her. And man, she's so amazing not just to sleep with but a real potential wifey.

But meeting other women has me in two minds if something did happen with her. We'll see.
 

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Having been in Budapest for a few days I will say that there are SOME attractive women here but not as many as I thought I'd see or maybe I'm just not into their features. When I was in Vienna, Austria a few days ago I saw some stunners.

With that said I slept with a woman here last night :shaq:

I haven't traveled much outside of the US but I will say that out of European women Romanian women are gorgeous (had a really close friend from Romania and there are a few in Miami oddly enough) and French Canadian women.
 

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This is the first time this has happened to me as an adult and it's throwing me off.

This girl I've been hanging out with over the past couple of months told me she was confused about her feelings for me after I made a move on her. I've known her for years just from being in the same industry but we didn't really become close until recently when she moved back to my city.

She's taken me out of drinks for my birthday and I even took her to brunch and dinner but the relationship never really progressed for some reason. Recently I tried to make a move on her after she came by yesterday and it she said she doesn't know if she wants me as a platonic friend or views me romantically. She said sometimes she feels one way and sometimes the other. Don't really know how to take it. I feel like I'd feel better about it if she just told me she views me as a friend and then I can just move accordingly but how do you even take it when you ask a girl does she just want to me my friend and she says no but she's confused.....and needs to think.

I spent most of my 20s smashing joints with no strings attached even taking a chick out on multiple dates without having smashed is pretty new to me. She actually seemed like the type of girl I'd date seriously but after this I'm kinda sour on the situation. I'm not sure if she viewed me as a platonic friend and she's just trying to let me down easy......or she's actually confused but it's strange. I guess the only thing I can do is just fall back.
 
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Anyone in here a silimar age..?

What age women do you go for...

I feel like women my age & up are too serious and looking to move too quickly with relationship

Then the younger 22-24 are kind of annoying but always the easiest to crack but most of them I couldn’t see myself dating at all..

Im 31, my sweet spot is women in their mid 20s (24-27). They mature enough, some not jaded & without pressure to get married/have kids etc

Dated a 20 year old before, was very immature but sex was crazy, she loved experimenting & trying different things becuz sex was still new to her

Then dated a 28 year old, she was jaded as fukk from past relationships, her hang ups from past relationships affected us.

Currently dating a 25 year old, things are smooth so far, taking our time, no pressure to rush things etc.

However I still treat all women as individuals, If I meet a fly chilled 30 year old or 20 year old, Im down to see where things go
 
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This is the first time this has happened to me as an adult and it's throwing me off.

This girl I've been hanging out with over the past couple of months told me she was confused about her feelings for me after I made a move on her. I've known her for years just from being in the same industry but we didn't really become close until recently when she moved back to my city.

She's taken me out of drinks for my birthday and I even took her to brunch and dinner but the relationship never really progressed for some reason. Recently I tried to make a move on her after she came by yesterday and it she said she doesn't know if she wants me as a platonic friend or views me romantically. She said sometimes she feels one way and sometimes the other. Don't really know how to take it. I feel like I'd feel better about it if she just told me she views me as a friend and then I can just move accordingly but how do you even take it when you ask a girl does she just want to me my friend and she says no but she's confused.....and needs to think.

I spent most of my 20s smashing joints with no strings attached even taking a chick out on multiple dates without having smashed is pretty new to me. She actually seemed like the type of girl I'd date seriously but after this I'm kinda sour on the situation. I'm not sure if she viewed me as a platonic friend and she's just trying to let me down easy......or she's actually confused but it's strange. I guess the only thing I can do is just fall back.


Happens to everyone, as I say women want you to be confused because that's when you give them the benefit of the doubt. See right now you are in a state of confusion you haven't even dated this broad yet, and already she has the power deciding whether or not she should take it to the next level, while you wait around wondering what's happening.

I'm sure you have messed with women and right away you could tell they wanted you and you were right. A woman who is unsure ain't feeling you like that. Especially when you have been hanging around her for months.
 

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Anyone in here a silimar age..?

What age women do you go for...

I feel like women my age & up are too serious and looking to move too quickly with relationship

Then the younger 22-24 are kind of annoying but always the easiest to crack but most of them I couldn’t see myself dating at all..


I'm 32, I'll talk to any woman from 18-34
My prefer age is 24-26 though
 

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Anyone in here a silimar age..?

What age women do you go for...

I feel like women my age & up are too serious and looking to move too quickly with relationship

Then the younger 22-24 are kind of annoying but always the easiest to crack but most of them I couldn’t see myself dating at all..

Im 28 ..

Im knocking 18- bad milfs 48 ish


Younger are dumb...but better body

Older will do whatever u want
 

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Having been in Budapest for a few days I will say that there are SOME attractive women here but not as many as I thought I'd see or maybe I'm just not into their features. When I was in Vienna, Austria a few days ago I saw some stunners.

With that said I slept with a woman here last night :shaq:

I haven't traveled much outside of the US but I will say that out of European women Romanian women are gorgeous (had a really close friend from Romania and there are a few in Miami oddly enough) and French Canadian women.

u living the dream :wow:
 

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yo, me and my baby mama havent talked for weeks at all

should i get her something for Mother's Day even if i hate her guts?

so far, i'm not


I would she's still the mother of your child , even though you hate her guts the two of you share a child.

I don't have a baby mother but if I did even if I hated her I'd still try and be cordial and nice for peace
 

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:myman: it's an amazing feeling knowing you got options


Perusing Tinder and Bumble this evening and I'm seeing loads of chicks I've slept with popping back on with new profiles.

Yes summer is definitely here. :shaq::takedat:

I actually saw my OG Chinese chick has come out of her self imposed hibernation and was on Bumble. I haven't spoken to her in a while. I've actually dreamt of her a few times this past week and a half. And seeing her profile. I still have strong feelings for her. Partly why we stopped messing with each other early this year. Things were getting intensely heavy. And she got anxiety as she didn't know where she stood with me.

I have a feeling she's going to reach out and ask to see me. I know I'll be tempted to see her. I need closure with her. And man, she's so amazing not just to sleep with but a real potential wifey.

But meeting other women has me in two minds if something did happen with her. We'll see.
 
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