throw her in the bushesThe pettiness of my girlfriend gets underneath my skin sometimes when thinks I'm trying to be unnecessarily difficult when really I'm just trying to help her out.
We got into a tiff earlier today, because she received some cash for her birthday and wanted to use it towards her credit card bill. So she asked me if I would venmo her the money she had and she would just give me the money. I told her, I don't mind, but I don't necessarily want those big bills what's the problem with you just going to an ATM/Bank and depositing the cash in your account there.
She said she wasn't sure that her bank would allow her to do that since it's a regional bank from Texas. I told her she should go try it out just for future reference, because ultimately either I'm going to the ATM to deposit the money or you are and it is YOUR money.
I'm at work right now and she was off today.
So she goes unnecessary irrational mode, talking about if you didn't want to help me just say you don't blah blah blah, I'll go if you find me a bank (we living in fukking Downtown Los Angeles) blah blah blah.
So she goes to the bank and says she has to do a money order that cost all of $1, as to indicate this was a huge barrier for her. So to diffuse the situation I just said I'll venmo you the money and tell her it probably would make sense for her to switch from a regional bank when she's not even living in the region.
She comments under my venmo, "I win."
She isn't like this a lot, but anytime she gets the "thought" that I might not be doing everything in my power to help her, she completely goes irrational and thinks I'm trying to lecture her when really I'm just trying to put her on shyt a grown adult should already know without the assistance of her boyfriend.
I don't think is grounds to terminate my contract we're almost 2 years into, but shyt like this.
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VertigoKnight
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Have a date tonight with this Indian chick from Tanzania who grew up in Canada.
Her body is crazy and personality is fun, so far so good. She's sent me a few snaps, so no funny business with angles. And the chat has been risque but not too obvious.
With these dates now I'm just relaxed. Whatever happens, happens.
Her body is crazy and personality is fun, so far so good. She's sent me a few snaps, so no funny business with angles. And the chat has been risque but not too obvious.
With these dates now I'm just relaxed. Whatever happens, happens.
Vinny Lupton
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how long were you talking to her before setting this up
VertigoKnight
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Matched with her on Tinder last week wednesday night.
Yeah, I gotta throw her in the bushes. 
Damn, here we go again.
Damn, here we go again.
ApolloStark
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There are some posts I read in this thread that make me doubt whether nikkas have actually been in a relationship before. Homie's supposed to throw wifey to the bushes after TWO YEARS because she acted petty. because b1tches never act petty, right? that's what b1tches do i dont give a fukk who she is, that's what they're PROGRAMMED TO DO. just like we're programmed to wanna fukk as many b1tches as humanly possible, they're programmed to act like spoilt princesses from time to time it's just about how you handle those moments...
That "I won" retort is a clear indication that you dropped the ball. you should have stuck to your guns and told her that you were not going to do it. with women everything is about setting your stool out from day 1 and this sh1t won't happen that often. it still will from time to time because, guess what, SHE'S A WOMAN AND THAT'S WHAT THEY'RE PROGRAMMED TO DO (reinforcing just in case that point hasn't resonated)
on the flipside, if you set a precedent from day 1 that you WILL concede and give in when she's throwing a tantrum, then this sh1t will happen more and more frequently
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I don't think that her pettiness is the problem, its her KNOWING WHAT SHE'S DOING that's a problem. You're absolutely right, women are programmed to be princesses, so they're going to do certain things to get their way. But when she's claiming victory, that's a whole new game. At that point she's not "wifey", she's made herself (or at least acknowledged to herself) that the two of them are in competition. As ANY adult in this world knows, the outside world couldn't give a fukk about you any less than it already does, so having to compete outside AND at home isn't worth it. Her throwing a tantrum INTENTIONALLY, that's a big proverbial slap. She sealed the deal with those two little words.
Bigblackted4
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Yeah bro my girl always teases me saying I love tling her no, but it keeps her grounded. She knows I’ll do anything for her that’s reasonable but I say shyt like if I don’t want to, you know u won’t do it.
VertigoKnight
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Not all chicks are as petty as that. There are certain thing women can and will get petty about. Stuff like what she was doing is annoying fukkery of the highest order.
And two years is nothing in the grand scale of things. I was in a relationship for 13 years I know most of the fukked up things a woman can try and do.
I also know that these early indicators are signs of when times aren't as good that kind of pettiness can ramp up into more dangerous stuff that can push a brehs sanity.
But you're right laying the law down early can work. But homeboys chick sounds like the sort of woman who you slowly grow to despise.
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ApolloStark
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Yep, that's why I put that point towards the end of my post, when I said that her saying that was a clear indication he dropped the ball because he didn't handle the tantrum like a real one. but I wouldn't necessarily say that's not wifey. we're humans, we sometimes do stupid sh1t it's not a reason to end a relationship. if it becomes a regular occurrence, take stock and reassess...
that girl is showing unwifeable characteristics. if she's that unreasonable / irrational / illogical over something so small, when they encounter more difficult situations, she will make his life a living hell. notice i said "will". not "may" or "could". a growling dog with a stiff tail is more likely to bite than a dog with an excited tail and a eager look.Yep, that's why I put that point towards the end of my post, when I said that her saying that was a clear indication he dropped the ball because he didn't handle the tantrum like a real one. but I wouldn't necessarily say that's not wifey. we're humans, we sometimes do stupid sh1t it's not a reason to end a relationship. if it becomes a regular occurrence, take stock and reassess...
i also sense she's lazy. that type of laziness and attitude are detrimental to the progress or growth of a successful relationship.
FukYaFeelings
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lemme give yall a quick gem. I posted on here few years ago like a sad nikka.
With the right bytch u wont have issues. YOull ahve standard relationship issues but not no shyt u post on here about.
be patient and wait on it.
With the right bytch u wont have issues. YOull ahve standard relationship issues but not no shyt u post on here about.
be patient and wait on it.
Dreamzeedream
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If you see something you want. You better get on her because the next dude won't hesitate if/when he get his shot