Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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My dude... I’ve thought about smashing every single woman I began courting. I honestly don’t know how this is even possible. I’m assuming you’re attracted to this woman. The math isn’t adding up. Is this the same shorty you were asking about maintaining interest with on the last page?

yes :snoop:
 

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did i mess up brehs, chick asked if I'm sexually interested in her and i said i haven't thought about it
Probably that kinda seems like rejection and it takes a secure person to see that you were probably just being honest
 

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did i mess up brehs, chick asked if I'm sexually interested in her and i said i haven't thought about it

Contrary to some other posts, don't think all is lost here. Women always want what they can't have (or what they think they can't have) it becomes a challenge for them. Every nikka in her phonebook has probably tried to smash yet here you are saying you hadn't thought about your sexual interest in her

Not that I would have said that. I'm always trying to fukk and I'm open about that objective but what you've done (albeit unintentionally!!) is actually a more powerful move IMO
 

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I been pulling some bad hoes lately but my text game is atrocious, I be trying to set shyt up off top but it ain’t been working, I ain’t discouraged or nothing just be wondering where I fukked up
 

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The pettiness of my girlfriend gets underneath my skin sometimes when thinks I'm trying to be unnecessarily difficult when really I'm just trying to help her out.

We got into a tiff earlier today, because she received some cash for her birthday and wanted to use it towards her credit card bill. So she asked me if I would venmo her the money she had and she would just give me the money. I told her, I don't mind, but I don't necessarily want those big bills what's the problem with you just going to an ATM/Bank and depositing the cash in your account there. :ld:

She said she wasn't sure that her bank would allow her to do that since it's a regional bank from Texas. I told her she should go try it out just for future reference, because ultimately either I'm going to the ATM to deposit the money or you are and it is YOUR money. :ld:

I'm at work right now and she was off today. :martin:

So she goes unnecessary irrational mode, talking about if you didn't want to help me just say you don't blah blah blah, I'll go if you find me a bank (we living in fukking Downtown Los Angeles :rudy:) blah blah blah.

So she goes to the bank and says she has to do a money order that cost all of $1, as to indicate this was a huge barrier for her. So to diffuse the situation I just said I'll venmo you the money and tell her it probably would make sense for her to switch from a regional bank when she's not even living in the region. :dame:

She comments under my venmo, "I win."

She isn't like this a lot, but anytime she gets the "thought" that I might not be doing everything in my power to help her, she completely goes irrational and thinks I'm trying to lecture her when really I'm just trying to put her on shyt a grown adult should already know without the assistance of her boyfriend. :martin:
I don't think is grounds to terminate my contract we're almost 2 years into, but shyt like this. :dame:
 

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The pettiness of my girlfriend gets underneath my skin sometimes when thinks I'm trying to be unnecessarily difficult when really I'm just trying to help her out.

We got into a tiff earlier today, because she received some cash for her birthday and wanted to use it towards her credit card bill. So she asked me if I would venmo her the money she had and she would just give me the money. I told her, I don't mind, but I don't necessarily want those big bills what's the problem with you just going to an ATM/Bank and depositing the cash in your account there. :ld:

She said she wasn't sure that her bank would allow her to do that since it's a regional bank from Texas. I told her she should go try it out just for future reference, because ultimately either I'm going to the ATM to deposit the money or you are and it is YOUR money. :ld:

I'm at work right now and she was off today. :martin:

So she goes unnecessary irrational mode, talking about if you didn't want to help me just say you don't blah blah blah, I'll go if you find me a bank (we living in fukking Downtown Los Angeles :rudy:) blah blah blah.

So she goes to the bank and says she has to do a money order that cost all of $1, as to indicate this was a huge barrier for her. So to diffuse the situation I just said I'll venmo you the money and tell her it probably would make sense for her to switch from a regional bank when she's not even living in the region. :dame:

She comments under my venmo, "I win."

She isn't like this a lot, but anytime she gets the "thought" that I might not be doing everything in my power to help her, she completely goes irrational and thinks I'm trying to lecture her when really I'm just trying to put her on shyt a grown adult should already know without the assistance of her boyfriend. :martin:
I don't think is grounds to terminate my contract we're almost 2 years into, but shyt like this. :dame:

man up before its too late for you.
 

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The pettiness of my girlfriend gets underneath my skin sometimes when thinks I'm trying to be unnecessarily difficult when really I'm just trying to help her out.

We got into a tiff earlier today, because she received some cash for her birthday and wanted to use it towards her credit card bill. So she asked me if I would venmo her the money she had and she would just give me the money. I told her, I don't mind, but I don't necessarily want those big bills what's the problem with you just going to an ATM/Bank and depositing the cash in your account there. :ld:

She said she wasn't sure that her bank would allow her to do that since it's a regional bank from Texas. I told her she should go try it out just for future reference, because ultimately either I'm going to the ATM to deposit the money or you are and it is YOUR money. :ld:

I'm at work right now and she was off today. :martin:

So she goes unnecessary irrational mode, talking about if you didn't want to help me just say you don't blah blah blah, I'll go if you find me a bank (we living in fukking Downtown Los Angeles :rudy:) blah blah blah.

So she goes to the bank and says she has to do a money order that cost all of $1, as to indicate this was a huge barrier for her. So to diffuse the situation I just said I'll venmo you the money and tell her it probably would make sense for her to switch from a regional bank when she's not even living in the region. :dame:

She comments under my venmo, "I win."

She isn't like this a lot, but anytime she gets the "thought" that I might not be doing everything in my power to help her, she completely goes irrational and thinks I'm trying to lecture her when really I'm just trying to put her on shyt a grown adult should already know without the assistance of her boyfriend. :martin:
I don't think is grounds to terminate my contract we're almost 2 years into, but shyt like this. :dame:

I went thru this...

There is no helping her

Run...

Simply tell her you are done and leave..

Trust me on this
 

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Get money and girls will buy you things. Not that you would ever need it, but it feels good to have chicks volunteer to take the tab, cop you a pair of kicks or a watch, simple shyt. Makes you feel how they feel damn near 24/7.

It's like the rich, who have the money to pay for the shyt they want but companies and brands still give it to em for free for advertising purposes.

In my mind it's like the shorties tryna stay attached whether y'all go sour or not, you having some shyt you know they bought so they feel like you won't forget them. :manny:
 

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Re-read what you posted. Lol.

The crazy part is you gave her multiple solutions, she knew they were right but she brushed them off just to keep the argument going. Then when she finally wore you down, she threw it in your face.

2 years is a long time, but it's nothing compared to a life of unhappiness
 

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breh dont feel too bad. lucky for u, u have this forum to help ya.
but ya, women live for that arguing sh1t. ur job is easy. if u think u r being reasonable and shes being ridiculous, say little and leave her alone to argue with herself. she'll feel stupid eventually and crawl back trying to save face.
 

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I don't think is grounds to terminate my contract we're almost 2 years into, but shyt like this. :dame:

Breh I'd seriously think about terminating it now for your own sanity.

Think of that whole event as a small easily solvable problem. What's she going to do when a real problem pops up?
 
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