Want some advice from some of the old heads. Bear in mind a nikkas early 30s & I've had MORE than my fair share of pu$$y let's just say that. But someone a few pages back said "she's the only girl I've fukked who I actually want to stick around after the event"
That sh1t resonated with me as I'm in a similar predicament. Broad I've been smashing since the new year, got me in my feelings. On paper there's more red flags than a group of matadors could wave, but there's a spark. And not gonna front I've simped a bit cos it feels different but I think I'm good cos she's into a nikka too. I do sometimes think y'all nikkas confuse simping for charm but that's for another post...
Which brings me to the question. That whole "make sure you never love her more than she loves you"...how can you ever validate that?! It's such a clinical comment and we're dealing with feelings, emotions, PEOPLE. And I'm gonna play devil's advocate with yall, are we not here to find someone we wanna spend the rest of our lives with? How can we even possibly begin to entertain that notion if we play games and hold back? Plus, isn't holding back eventually going to be one of the things a broad leaves you for in the end anyway because she's gonna sense a lack of commitment, so as a suggestion isn't that counter-productive?
And lastly, that whole "keep a few chick's on deck" just in case sh1t sours. Nikkas in relationships can still keep wifey sweet whilst keeping the line open to other broads. No awkward tx message alerts, no awkward calls from "stacey" when you're together etc. How the fukk y'all manage that?!??
I agree with charm and simping being confused or just being nice to a extent.
Nothing wrong buying flowers or a card for your girl. But I don't break the bank for her either.
For a date thats subjective when u first meet them. Complimenting a female ain't simping but excessive of it is and is down right annoying.
Opening the car door for her isn't simping either its just being nice.
As far as make sure she loves u more than her comment. Its said in here to protect brehs cuz no matter what she can change and drop u like a dime outta the blue and it devastates u more when u love her more than she loves u. Having said that any relationship is a gamble or a chance and u want to give ur best to her and doesnt matter what u believe cuz ur feelings can make u love someone more than u love her whether u want too or not cuz that shyt right that comes outta the blue and u wont see it coming and once u do your like
After realizing that sure u can fix it and it will take time but u gotta ask yourself is it worth it? Does she deserve me doing that too her
I've only experienced that once and it was great feeling till I realized she wasn't shyt or a possibility and had to reprogram myself to be safe and make sure and I was right she wasn't even then it scarred me so bad I wasn't the same anymore. If I love somebody more than me so be it not like I forced it but once I get that bad vibe reprogram happens asap to cover my basis
Keeping a few chics on deck is more so for single brehs when shyt goes south with ur main and u have other options already lined up.
Now if in relationship which I dont recommend or agree it ain't that damn hard with these new apps, burner phone, diff email acct etc... but that's too much work and ain't even worth it especially after that nut clarity
Overall it's just advice to protect brehs as best as possible we want brehs to meet a good woman and give their all if she is good woman but in reality u never will know it's a game of chance no matter who u are always best to be prepared and aware tho
but real quick I was like 
get off me turn off)
Has a 5 year old like me but
for me.
We're hitting it off like crazy. She notices other girls looking at me and goes in the for the kiss. 
"I know you talking to other women lol jk"