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Dunno why today I feel down on myself about dating and shyt. It's sort of refreshing to know my issues aren't unique by any means though and good to talk to other men about it.
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It's OK. Worthwhile to use.
Dunno why today I feel down on myself about dating and shyt. It's sort of refreshing to know my issues aren't unique by any means though and good to talk to other men about it.
Vinny Lupton
Superstar
Helps to take a breather every now and then. From real life hoes, app hoes, etc. Bounce for a week and come bacc fresh 
Helps to take a breather every now and then. From real life hoes, app hoes, etc. Bounce for a week and come bacc fresh
Seems like shyt came to me all at once. I'm investing in crypto. The market is bearish and a very scary market right now. 401k is down, crazy market. I caught food poisoning last week and any time I get sick I get angry because I can't do shyt but sulk at home. Can't even work out. That's not to mention my last L in dating which in hindsight I don't even think it would have been sustainable nor do I think it was entirely in my control but it all pisses me off. The psychology of pretty much getting ignored. I'd much rather accept someone being up front to me than being a coward.
Life is good overall. I got friends who care about me, I'm able to to carry great conversations. Family loves and depend on me. I'm in a career that I enjoy, can make an impact, and my colleagues appreciate me. All good but shyt man sometimes you just wanna throw your hands in the air and be like WTF.
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
any of ya'll ever stop and ask yourself...if i was to ever get into a relationship/marriage, would i really and truly be free? The answer is no. why? because you have to almost always consider and take into account the other person's feelings/thoughts/opinions. A man almost always comes out of a marriage/relationship worst off then when he entered it....so is it really worth it in the end? Do you want to be a broken down, emasculated, made to cater to man? or would you rather be a indifferent, confident and masculine man who holds all the power, fukks multiple women and can drop a female at the slightest whiff of disrespect?
the minute any man gives up his independence or freedom for the sake of commitment or thought of, has lost. ESPECIALLY in this day in age.
the minute any man gives up his independence or freedom for the sake of commitment or thought of, has lost. ESPECIALLY in this day in age.
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
If you dont feel free & happy with your lady, you in the wrong relationship.any of ya'll ever stop and ask yourself...if i was to ever get into a relationship/marriage, would i really and truly be free? The answer is no. why? because you have to almost always consider and take into account the other person's feelings/thoughts/opinions. A man almost always comes out of a marriage/relationship worst off then when he entered it....so is it really worth it in the end? Do you want to be a broken down, emasculated, made to cater to man? or would you rather be a indifferent, confident and masculine man who holds all the power, fukks multiple women and can drop a female at the slightest whiff of disrespect?
the minute any man gives up his independence or freedom for the sake of commitment or thought of, has lost. ESPECIALLY in this day in age.
The end game of dating & the game, is finding a quality woman whose compatible with you. I feel brehs settle down with the wrong woman, for the wrong reasons. Brehs need to choose better
Fukk GMB, its #CBB (Choose Better Brehs)
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
you have a point. But still....can you go out everyday or do a certain thing because you want to or can....or would doing that at some point make you out to be selfish because you ain't considering what the other person may want/feel?
personally my goal is to find a chick to build with at some point. the meaningless sex bachelor shyt is cool but I realize once my game got tighter and i could begin to do that its simply not for me.
U dont need to be doing that everyday in the first place or every damn weekend if u got a female u want. Every so often that's coo and fine.
Mines goes out every so often briefly then stops for several months.
I'm free to do what the hell I want cuz I say so I dont let no one control me but at same time I'm mindful and respectful to her.
Right now I'm limited to things I can do cuz she in nursing school and I get that.
If anything she just annoys me with dumb shyt she does that makes no sense but not
worthy either. There is way worse shyt I seen and dealt with it's like a blimp on a radar too me.Having said that tho she gotta fix it regardless cuz it dont make it right cuz a constant of it can be a build of see ya ass later too
Otherwise I'm fine could it be way better marriage sure but marriage has its ups and downs its bout how to fix those issues to make it better and wanting too on both ends not just hers but mines
Either way I'll always be fine with her or without her is always my mindset with any women they need me I dont need them
So can we agree, and @TRUEST feel free to chime in here, is that calling a girl out on their behavior is a form of burning a bridge? Silence is strength. For example a woman ghosting, flaking, etc? I'm always the type who wants to call someone out or use my words as venom to make them feel a certain way. I don't do that any more though.
In relationships and break ups whether they broke up with me or I broke up with them they've ALWAYS come back. Ignoring them gave me power back. Not sure how that works in casual dating though.
Even more with someone you had sex with multiple times but it was casual. Thoughts?
In relationships and break ups whether they broke up with me or I broke up with them they've ALWAYS come back. Ignoring them gave me power back. Not sure how that works in casual dating though.
Even more with someone you had sex with multiple times but it was casual. Thoughts?
Rev Leon Lonnie Love
damned mine eyes, DAMNED mine eyes!!
Dont even have to think about such. I dont believe in holi matrimony, I know im never gonna get married and its something I never fantasized about at all. Both my parents never been married so and are both doing their own thing soany of ya'll ever stop and ask yourself...if i was to ever get into a relationship/marriage, would i really and truly be free? The answer is no. why? because you have to almost always consider and take into account the other person's feelings/thoughts/opinions. A man almost always comes out of a marriage/relationship worst off then when he entered it....so is it really worth it in the end? Do you want to be a broken down, emasculated, made to cater to man? or would you rather be a indifferent, confident and masculine man who holds all the power, fukks multiple women and can drop a female at the slightest whiff of disrespect?
the minute any man gives up his independence or freedom for the sake of commitment or thought of, has lost. ESPECIALLY in this day in age.
Vinny Lupton
Superstar
ayeHelps to take a breather every now and then. From real life hoes, app hoes, etc. Bounce for a week and come bacc fresh
to expand on my original jew-el
going away and coming bacc also lets you realize these hoes aint going nowhere and most of the time are in the exact same place you left em
Vinny Lupton
Superstar
give em both that sticc
drugxglory
Street Struck
Man! One of my former coworkers started liking this girl at our job, i told him she cool but i wouldnt date her, but he did anyway being 21/22 he dont know any better. A week later it doesnt work out & somehow he ends up getting fired
fukkin wit these broads
Dreamzeedream
Banned
Damn she went and told on him?Man! One of my former coworkers started liking this girl at our job, i told him she cool but i wouldnt date her, but he did anyway being 21/22 he dont know any better. A week later it doesnt work out & somehow he ends up getting fired
fukkin wit these broads