True. Ive been charged it off Im just trying not to have it happen again. I usually get cheeks date one or two now. So I tried to see if slowing down would work better in me finding a actual down chick.
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True. Ive been charged it off Im just trying not to have it happen again. I usually get cheeks date one or two now. So I tried to see if slowing down would work better in me finding a actual down chick.
Funny how many of us are looking for a down ass girl. shyt is harder than finding women you just want to fukk I feel.
Big facts. Getting some ass isnt hard at this point. Getting ass from high quality chicks is a bit harder. And getting ass and actually really likong a high quality chick even harder. Specially in this age of instant gratification and simp ass nikkas diluting the playing field...
Hows the hinge app?
Caught another off of Tinder. 5'4", 135 lbs. Slim thick, pretty face perfect teeth. Speaks well with a twang. From Alabama, been in the A a month 
Has a 5 year old like me but 
Gonna see Black Panther (my 3x) on Wednesday and bowling/drinks after since it's her birthday which might mean a
for me.
Edit: I'm going on 32. She's turning 26
Has a 5 year old like me but Gonna see Black Panther (my 3x) on Wednesday and bowling/drinks after since it's her birthday which might mean a
for me.Edit: I'm going on 32. She's turning 26
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Dreamzeedream
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Chicks you work with are off limits.
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I went on two dates with this chick I was really feeling recently. two early coffee datesI've never had to seduce in the morning. Anyway it seemed we both dug each others vibe heavily. Shes busy with school and work so thats why I agreed to the morning things. after the second after we kissed and said our goodbyes or w/e I asked her if she was def only free during days. She said no and I said cool lets free up a night and ook for each other. Some shyt I've done dozens of times with success. She says she'd like that. two hours later I get a text saying she doesn't feel sexual chemistry/spark with me and I go okay I'm not about to try to change your mind you know yourself better than I do. If you change your mind hit me up. She said she was really attracted to me but no spark or whatever...I think she was just being nice. Anyway what should have I done here iyo. Did I move too fast on a chick who is busy, not fast enough and should have pushed for sex or escalation faster (I honestly had no idea how to do so with what I was given)? I was pissed about it yesterday but now I'm trying to find answers for such a thing to not happen again because I really enjoyed being around this chick. Effortless convo and I feel I put my conversationalist hat on here moreso than my seducer.
one of the many things ive learned with women is, never be too eager when talking or dealing with them. u admit u really liked this chick and it showed in how u interacted with her and that turned her off. i know its starting to sound so cliche but thats what it really boils down to. at the heart of everything, women like to feel like they've accomplished something by getting u to like them. like, they want to feel like they've worked to get ur affection. not all women are like this. but some are, if they have a set rigid image of what men should be.
in other words, u were too easy. and it was written all over ur face, and by the conversations you had with her and possibly by ur mannerisms.
i remember 2 distinct women telling me "this was too easy" when i got them back to the house, laying on my bed. i tried to get them naked and thats when they uttered that phrase.
i didnt know how to take that at all. "too easy"??? wtf does that mean? then it dawned on me. considering their perceived image of me (where i live, what i drive, how i look), i was too readily easy to seduce. the best way i can describe this is to tell you to imagine going up to ur favorite celebrity and kicking game to her. and within 5 minutes, shes entirely enamored by you, engulfed, immersed in thoughts of the naughtiest nature. wouldnt you think, "wow, that was easy".
so what did you do wrong here? cant really say u did anything wrong. except learn to identify logistics very early on.
if you're meeting a chick at say 10am, and she says she has to be somewhere else at 11am. when yall meet at 10am, it doesnt mean u keep talking with her up until the very minute she told u from the getgo she had to leave by.
if u already know its a coffee date and theres no way anything sexual can transpire given the situation of where yall at, then, keep the meeting to more than 15 minutes to 25 minutes.
and always leave on a high note. dont leave when yall run out of things to say. always be the one to end the date.
and never do more than one coffee date with a chick u havent fuccked yet. the first time, yeah its ok. and theres nothing wrong with it. by the second time, she should be agreeing to drinks.
ive had quite a number of chicks revealed to me they felt worried when i cut the date short. they said they thought they had said something to offend me or that they were just worried they did something i didnt like. so when i hit these women up to schedule another date, u can imagine they were eager to hop on it given the time they had spent doubting themselves.
yeah dates didn't even end on a low note. both were a few hours. but this makes sense. IDK how much I conveyed my eagerness. I'm generally not very excitable and I doubt that was one of the times I was. Either way second date she was like I'm poly so it losing a bit of luster but I willing to fukk with her on at least a cursory level. but then she hit me with that and that was that. I'll def have to remember that coffee date shyt. spending several hours at a coffee shop regardless of how good the convo is doesn't really build anything up more than initial attraction. shytty situation. I'm cool with taking lumps but I feel I just fumbled this shyt and it was kind of out of my hands at the say time as far as escalation.
Also I assume this is unrecoverable situation?
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Caught another off of Tinder. 5'4", 135 lbs. Slim thick, pretty face perfect teeth. Speaks well with a twang. From Alabama, been in the A a month
Gonna see Black Panther (my 3x) on Wednesday and bowling/drinks after since it's her birthday which might mean a
Edit: I'm going on 32. She's turning 26
A single father is a damn good mine too females I swear
I go to store with my kiddos and its usually a side ass comment they say that I can understand so the kids dont and I ain't even single and when I was it was same results
Your kids are so well behaved and beautiful just like their father u must be a good man a great catch or maybe ur searching for something
I be like thanks but I'm good
U sure
Yes hey u guys wanna go see mommy I say as the
ChiefKenji
Lord Cuts
Bro, just delete all info. Its not going to change. Be more unavailable to these women, thats why TRUEST said to be the first to cut the date short cause yall not in a good setting where yall can go crazy. If you cutted the coffee date short and planned the dinner afterwards, she might have came to your place cause your “busyness” spiked her interest
sounds about right. still sort of irritating there is always some retarded cog thrown into the machine I'm unaware of and catches me lacking. Im generally unavailable and only reply to texts so I guess I have to be even more "busy". Which is dumb imo but thats the game.
Your girl is absolutely trash for trying to lie to you Breh. I hope you call her out on that shyt and send her with a 1 way ticket to the bushes.So back I’m September/October, my girl went out to take pictures with this friend/photographer. I wasn’t totally cool with it to begin with bc it was a late night ordeal. She apparently met him at a bar where he was grabbing food and drinks before they went to the this outside spot where the “photos” were taken (shyts turned out wack af and look like they were just phone camera pics. So with it seeming fishy I check out dude IG story and there’s a boomerang video of her walking up some steps like
So I question her about it and she says it was a shot for a video he was working on (still never seen it) and that they were at a girlfriend of hers place. I told her nah that was foul and she needs to find a new photographer. She agreed and said ok if he makes me uncomfortable.
Fast forward to this week...she mentions that a DJ friend of hers is moving to NYC and wants her to promote his gigs. So she’s going out with him tomorrow night to this as a possible business opportunity. I asked her who is this DJ friend and all she gives me is DJ lemonade. I’m like well surely his momma ain’t name him that, he ain’t got a real name? She never told me and I guess expected me to ask explicitly. She doesn’t know thatI know it’s the same photog guy from before.
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damned mine eyes, DAMNED mine eyes!!
had a long day today. Feel like going out solo to the nearest bar and just hang there, drink a check out the scene for a few hours. All 3 of the hoes in my roster went home for the ester so im recruit someone new. Girl I was planning to smash this past weekend is still acting up so decided to ignore her till end of the week. Need someone to keep me busy for the time being. I'll settle for a 5, just to get my dikk wet 
Yeah I have before, eventually got a date out of it after a couple of phone conversations. Didn’t work out as I realized she was looking for me to chase and court her and I was giving her as much as she gave me.