Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Malik1time

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On my way to a double date:hhh:
God i hate double dates so much:scust: forced humor and trynna chop it up with the other couple:scust:
Luckily my girl and i know the the other girl(my girl and the other girl are best friends):ehh: i just dont know the guy:francis:
 

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The problem with people like you that give advice is that, you’re dispensing your advice from a point of pride. You’re not thinking ahead or taking into account actual human practicalities.

It’s easy to say “don’t ever be afraid to lose a chick” but that is a very meaningless, useless piece of advise. It’s like saying to someone whos’s about to get shot to never be afraid of pain or death. How about advicing him to put on a bulllet proof vest? Or avoiding the situation in the first place?

Dude is in a very hard place and he obviously likes the girl. If he does not create a backup plan for himself, that girl will be able to persuade him into believing all types of fuccksh1t . If dude has more than 1 chick he likes equally it would be very easy to muscle up the courage to not put up with any type of disrespect from a chick. saying “never be afraid” of xyz is just about one of the top dumbest things u can say to someone in his position.

Use your brain next time u wish to challenge me, of all people

So your saying hold on to a chick who blatantly is disrespecting him? Lose all sense of pride and self respect? That the thought of "you're not a real hustler if you lose it all and can't get it all back", is actually false? :ohhh:...

:hhh:

He can like the girl all he wants but it shouldn't be at the expense of his self respect . Chances are he sharing that girl.

Challenge you? Get off your high horse breh, ol deric jaxn ass advice giving nikka
 

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i got 2 questions just randomly

1. Is it wrong for a woman to not be more open minded in bed if she your chick? if she not willing to try something new, whose at fault?

2. How you feel about a chick holding a grudge in a relationship?


1. Chick is entitled to feel a certain way if it makes her uncomfortable. It's a psychological thing, or maybe the fact that she is not submitting to that level to her man.

2. Again, that's a mind thing... in my experience, a woman that hold grudges like the fever will make you go insane. I try to avoid these types
 

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1. Chick is entitled to feel a certain way if it makes her uncomfortable. It's a psychological thing, or maybe the fact that she is not submitting to that level to her man.

2. Again, that's a mind thing... in my experience, a woman that hold grudges like the fever will make you go insane. I try to avoid these types

Good point, if any breh has halfway decent game and goes out two nights a week staying with a problematic girl isn't worthwhile.
 

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Good point, if any breh has halfway decent game and goes out two nights a week staying with a problematic girl isn't worthwhile.


that and think of this - both yall are over an argument and its time to move... you have, but she hasn't and she brings whatever the issue up again, and again... shyt sucks
 

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1. I always thought that there is always 1 (or more) specific guy(s) who is(are) able to do ANYTHING with the same woman who is rejecting that “new thing” you want to try and thus shes not 100% attracted to you, lol

Ya there is from personal experience it either u got it or u just dont with that person but that 1 guy exceeds all and can do all with her
 

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So back I’m September/October, my girl went out to take pictures with this friend/photographer. I wasn’t totally cool with it to begin with bc it was a late night ordeal. She apparently met him at a bar where he was grabbing food and drinks before they went to the this outside spot where the “photos” were taken (shyts turned out wack af and look like they were just phone camera pics. So with it seeming fishy I check out dude IG story and there’s a boomerang video of her walking up some steps like
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So I question her about it and she says it was a shot for a video he was working on (still never seen it) and that they were at a girlfriend of hers place. I told her nah that was foul and she needs to find a new photographer. She agreed and said ok if he makes me uncomfortable.
Fast forward to this week...she mentions that a DJ friend of hers is moving to NYC and wants her to promote his gigs. So she’s going out with him tomorrow night to this as a possible business opportunity. I asked her who is this DJ friend and all she gives me is DJ lemonade. I’m like well surely his momma ain’t name him that, he ain’t got a real name? She never told me and I guess expected me to ask explicitly. She doesn’t know thatI know it’s the same photog guy from before.

Send her to tha bushes ASAP.

She being sneaky and mad disrespectful
 

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So back I’m September/October, my girl went out to take pictures with this friend/photographer. I wasn’t totally cool with it to begin with bc it was a late night ordeal. She apparently met him at a bar where he was grabbing food and drinks before they went to the this outside spot where the “photos” were taken (shyts turned out wack af and look like they were just phone camera pics. So with it seeming fishy I check out dude IG story and there’s a boomerang video of her walking up some steps like
FluffyMintyIcterinewarbler-max-1mb.gif

So I question her about it and she says it was a shot for a video he was working on (still never seen it) and that they were at a girlfriend of hers place. I told her nah that was foul and she needs to find a new photographer. She agreed and said ok if he makes me uncomfortable.
Fast forward to this week...she mentions that a DJ friend of hers is moving to NYC and wants her to promote his gigs. So she’s going out with him tomorrow night to this as a possible business opportunity. I asked her who is this DJ friend and all she gives me is DJ lemonade. I’m like well surely his momma ain’t name him that, he ain’t got a real name? She never told me and I guess expected me to ask explicitly. She doesn’t know thatI know it’s the same photog guy from before.
smash one more time


Delete all her info

Smash a new chick ASAP

In that order, It’s over breh
 

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I posted in here before a while back about some shyt with a girl.

Those feelings are gone after I realized how cold, difficult, and complicated she is. That's something I'm not down with and her bad qualities along with accepting my feelings made me see her more as only a friend and not someone I'd date.

I feel better after realizing all this and that they're going away, but man, I need to put myself out there.

I party a lot with my roommates because one of them dates a DJ and we usually DJ for a frat and others down here. The parties are good, but every time they try and set me up with a girl, my ass gets too wasted or I'm too afraid to do anything cause I still have self-image issues.

I realize I have to put myself out there and really just give less of a fukk, be confident. But man, I gotta fix that.
 

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go deeper into this. :ohhh:
Women will suck and fuvk a guy they are 100% attracted to who doesnt even need to say a word to them and try to satisfy him anyway possible. If she is even 99% attracted to him, she can still reject shyt, flake etc etc. Thats how i see it.

Lotta women claiming they anal virgins whiles their ex done drilled them the tengen toppa gurenn lagann way but rejecting you.
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+ you shouldnt have to beg a woman what position you want to have sex in.
 

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So back I’m September/October, my girl went out to take pictures with this friend/photographer. I wasn’t totally cool with it to begin with bc it was a late night ordeal. She apparently met him at a bar where he was grabbing food and drinks before they went to the this outside spot where the “photos” were taken (shyts turned out wack af and look like they were just phone camera pics. So with it seeming fishy I check out dude IG story and there’s a boomerang video of her walking up some steps like
FluffyMintyIcterinewarbler-max-1mb.gif

So I question her about it and she says it was a shot for a video he was working on (still never seen it) and that they were at a girlfriend of hers place. I told her nah that was foul and she needs to find a new photographer. She agreed and said ok if he makes me uncomfortable.
Fast forward to this week...she mentions that a DJ friend of hers is moving to NYC and wants her to promote his gigs. So she’s going out with him tomorrow night to this as a possible business opportunity. I asked her who is this DJ friend and all she gives me is DJ lemonade. I’m like well surely his momma ain’t name him that, he ain’t got a real name? She never told me and I guess expected me to ask explicitly. She doesn’t know thatI know it’s the same photog guy from before.
Bushes
 

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I’ve confronted her before about taking pictures on his bed even before that.

Also when I confronted her about him back then she was saying something like he’s not her friend and just a photographer. And how he’s not to be trusted business wise because he’ll use people in his crew help and when they get paid he takes all of the cut.

I’m not sure if she’s cheating per say, but I do think she’s trying to just be around a certain scene from time to time or maybe seeking some type of clout. But if we had an agreement to not deal with dude this is pretty disrespectful.

She quit her govt job I’m December. She has no history in the business of promotion and said the pics were just for fun. Meanwhile I’m a guy who’s near future holds 6 figure annual earnings, so I feel like I do provide some stability in that regard.

Damn breh...

You may have said the key word to your issue..

Stability...

These women in the current era despise stability:ld:
 
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