Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Atlrocafella]

She said she wants someone to love her unconditionally, I told her nah I can’t do that, you’re not my child or my parents, I will hold you accountable for your decisions and you will have to deal with the consequences of your actions

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

 

[letti cook]

my out of town homieluvafren coming up this weekend

problem is, i met her through my homegirl, that we're both super close with

so, while im tryna smut her out at the crib...my homegirl jumping in making plans for shyt for us to do all got damn weekend

talkin bout drinking and getttng mexican food..gone have her all gassy and incoherent

i done quit porn, been working out, eating all healthy...im tryna give her werk..WERK!

 

[ChiefKenji]

Kinda a basic question but how much contact do you keep in contact with a girl you're seeing? This woman is in her mid 30s, doctor so I know she's busy.

She told me the next few weeks will be hard between work and travel but she will text when I can and she has called me on more than one occasion when she can't see me.

We've already had sex with each other too so I know she's interested...thing is I don't want her to LOSE interest during that time. I also don't want to text her too much either. Thoughts?

Be unavailable, even if are available. Let your unavailability peak her interest in you. Matterfact, try to ghost her and she will come running to you, no lie

 

[hostsamurai]

Missed out on getting at a“PAWG” at a place I no longer work at forgot to ask her IG she looks just like Ashley Benson the blonde chick from Pretty little Liars

Out of all the people I worked with sheshowed a lot of enthusiasm towards me unlike every one else

I built good Rapport with her but I didn’t know her age

Do I take an L here?



In fact didn’t get anyone who works there social media accounts

Yeah pretty much. You lacked the killer instinct at a critical moment. Just because you talk to a woman doesn't mean you're going home with her. And just because you get a girl's number does not make you a

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

 

[hostsamurai]

I know which supermarket she works at but I think it’s too late because the town is 30 mins away it would appear strange and stalker is if I went back right?

Spoiler

stopped working for another man tho

Yeah unless she's bad I don't think she's worth 30 minutes each way. But if you're young you may want to hit her up anyway and make it a killer instinct reference experience.

 

[ViShawn]

Be unavailable, even if are available. Let your unavailability peak her interest in you. Matterfact, try to ghost her and she will come running to you, no lie

Being slightly unavailable has made her text me more. Her giving me a good morning text with pics and stuff or asking "what are you doing" "how's your day?".

Still want to enough to let her know I'm into her ya know?

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

Yeah unless she's bad I don't think she's worth 30 minutes each way. But if you're young you may want to hit her up anyway and make it a killer instinct reference experience.

There is a big tourist attraction in that town with the caves I may bring a family member and say we just came to visit the site then go visit the store but I can’t guarantee her shifts since they shift swap at times

 

[hostsamurai]

There is a big tourist attraction in that town with the caves I may bring a family member and say we just came to visit the site then go visit the store but I can’t guarantee her shifts since they shift swap at times

Not bad, you're right if you went in the shop alone and asked for her number she would be more comfortable around you, but your value would decrease.

I always wonder how much of game is basic social engineering.

 

[Primetime]

Man I love my wife even tho we in rough patch but I know what the game like and I already told her I’m better as a single father than married cuz of how I do things alone.
I’m that dude that does everything in a relationship cuz I choose too not cuz I have too and I don’t mind it. It’s when I ask for simple shyt and u can’t do it I can’t fukking stand.
I’m older even more wiser I truly don’t have patience for women at all. It’s truly bad out there from I seen and heard thru friends and family that are single or even married.

I just know this sure their are good women but so little nowadays it’s insane and sad.

Sure u see these fine ass females with ass and t*ts but a breh wants more than that superficial shyt. Nobody want a damn trophy girl or wife. A breh wants a down to earth good as female that is down for him and always there for him while being loyal.

shyt wifey grounded right now I told her ass that shyt. Can say sorry all u want but said I hit a breaking point ur ass is gone as far as I’m concerned keep testing me if u want. Kids don’t make me stay she knows that. Not gonna get in details bout what it is but it wasn’t on some cheating shyt just dumb shyt that is being said that crosses the line too often catching up.

She either fix it or don’t I just know I’m gonna be just fine with or without her cuz of who I am kids will be too might be tough if it ever gets to that point but it’s all good.

I don’t need a woman can’t say the same for a woman needing me when they with me cuz it’s the same shyt new day I’ve told wifey and woman in the past. I’m gonna be alright but will u when I’m done with u is the question.

Bro, I've had more than a couple coworkers start off with that EXACT same line before confessing to me that if they could do it again they would not get married

So you saying that just stood out to me lol.

I'm 32 now and i do eventually want kids [more specifically, i want a son] but on the other hand, i have a lack of patience and tolerance when it comes to women doing shyt i don't like in relationships/in general.. meaning that i'm quit to cut off and KIM.

So even tho i've smashed my share of bad chicks, i look back at any one of them and realize i would've been miserable if i had been legally bounded to any one of them, past the initial honey moon phase. Sometimes i feel it'd be great to be married and have that family structure, then other times i be like, maaan i'm lucky i don't gotta deal with all the bullshyt ppl be tellin me about lol

 

[Primetime]

Like i had this tinder date last week, had drinks with her at this bar, we talked for about an hour or so, she came back to my place where i smashed. In her mind she thought we really connected, vibed, and couldn't wait to see me again that weekend.

In my mind i was thinking how the convo was dumb boring, how i don't care about her profession or care to hear her talk about it, how her schedule don't match with mine, how she got big t*ts but no ass whereas i like big t*ts with a big ass.. but i've been in enough dates and social situations where i'll carry a convo with all the proper cues, but for me it's still feigning interest like i'm really engaged and attentive.

Or i'll be laid up with the single mom i mentioned before who lives in my apartment complex and she always starts off wanting to complain about her baby's dad, or his parents, or the school that her daughter attends, etc and i'll give her the 15mins to vent before i let her know its time to hop on the dikk. But while she is venting, all i'm really thinking to myself is how miserable would i be if i actually had to listen to shyt like this for more than 15 mins once or twice a week

So finding that woman that i connect to, and that i vibe with, is few and far between it feels, and then once i do find that one.. being honest with myself about whether the little things that piss me off is me being immature or just legit red flags that should be instant bushes

 

[Vinny Lupton]

Like i had this tinder date last week, had drinks with her at this bar, we talked for about an hour or so, she came back to my place where i smashed. In her mind she thought we really connected, vibed, and couldn't wait to see me again that weekend.

expand on this creh I'm trying to improve my closing speed on tinder. not trying to see these broads too many times before closing

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Gotta have the right mind set when dealing with some of these women

 

[MikelArteta]

Like i had this tinder date last week, had drinks with her at this bar, we talked for about an hour or so, she came back to my place where i smashed. In her mind she thought we really connected, vibed, and couldn't wait to see me again that weekend.

In my mind i was thinking how the convo was dumb boring, how i don't care about her profession or care to hear her talk about it, how her schedule don't match with mine, how she got big t*ts but no ass whereas i like big t*ts with a big ass.. but i've been in enough dates and social situations where i'll carry a convo with all the proper cues, but for me it's still feigning interest like i'm really engaged and attentive.

Or i'll be laid up with the single mom i mentioned before who lives in my apartment complex and she always starts off wanting to complain about her baby's dad, or his parents, or the school that her daughter attends, etc and i'll give her the 15mins to vent before i let her know its time to hop on the dikk. But while she is venting, all i'm really thinking to myself is how miserable would i be if i actually had to listen to shyt like this for more than 15 mins once or twice a week

So finding that woman that i connect to, and that i vibe with, is few and far between it feels, and then once i do find that one.. being honest with myself about whether the little things that piss me off is me being immature or just legit red flags that should be instant bushes

yeah breh, ive been on so many dates the past 3 months , and I left the majority of them like i could give a damn if this chick never messaged me again