Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Rev Leon Lonnie Love

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@YBG613 your text game needs serious work.
well you might as well offer input then since you see something that I dont.



Something that is glaringly wrong with your texting is it def comes off as needy. instead after her to do something that day and moment ask her when she is free and if she gives you the run around bushes. Very few people regardless of how busy or not they are arent going to drop what they are doing for someone they do not have a deep connection to. the "when are you free" is non invasive, gets to the point, and generally garners more positive reactions than what youre doing. Personally I hate texting half the time because its not very interesting but having decent text game is important.

I thought that was exactly what im doing? Getting straight to the point and telling a bytch to come through. All this stealth texting game confuses me man :mindblown:
 

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Just found out I'm autistic (Not really confirmed but I'm pretty sure I am high functioning:blessed:). A few women I've dealt (who were comfortable enough to say it) with have always claimed that I am (And also bipolar) but I'm pretty sure now (i also had a teacher ask me before it became popular:patrice:) . I just have to work on the way I communicate (being a pot head also doesn't help). I was with someone for a while so my approach is a bit dated/out of touch. I think the main thing is caring for people, I have trouble with that but I did find a girl I didn't mind annoying :skip: but it didn't work out the way I wanted:skip:.


On second thought, the teacher thought I had ADD:skip:
 

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well you might as well offer input then since you see something that I dont.





I thought that was exactly what im doing? Getting straight to the point and telling a bytch to come through. All this stealth texting game confuses me man :mindblown:
Im not a fan of ya'll making it seem like we doing some manipulative shyt when saying to be simpler texting lol. its not stealth. its a vast different between

"hey, when are you free this week?"

and

"hey, what you doing later. you want to hang out?"

one shows you do want to get with her but its of no pressing concern. Indifference or at least looking indifferent is king. the other puts a timeframe on things, as in pressure and no chick likes to be pressured let alone from someone she not in love with. Its nothing stealth about it. I guarantee you will move through the flak much easier using the first sentence going forward. Until you've slept with girl multiple times and she has feelings for you you can't be hitting her up out of the blue unless she already chasing you.
 

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Im not a fan of ya'll making it seem like we doing some manipulative shyt when saying to be simpler texting lol. its not stealth. its a vast different between

"hey, when are you free this week?"

and

"hey, what you doing later. you want to hang out?"

one shows you do want to get with her but its of no pressing concern. Indifference or at least looking indifferent is king. the other puts a timeframe on things, as in pressure and no chick likes to be pressured let alone from someone she not in love with. Its nothing stealth about it. I guarantee you will move through the flak much easier using the first sentence going forward. Until you've slept with girl multiple times and she has feelings for you you can't be hitting her up out of the blue unless she already chasing you.
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Okay so I been on hoes heavy these past months Cuz I gotta start 2018 with a nice rooster:takedat: but any ways .... I was going inside probation office seen this lil white chick it look like she gave good top :win:so Iwas like hey and she smile and keep walking so I take my piss test come out and I'm talking to one of my boys ,I see her in her car she start playing music loud and driving off and I'm like blah blah let me get ur snap she's like nah she got a bf I said the typical shyt he won't mind blah blah she ended up giving it to me but she said fast af but I still caught it.... I ended dming this broad and she said I'm cute but she's in love with her bf who's white ... she acts like she loves her bf but she keeps the convo going for me to respond should I continue or just say fukk it the only reason I want her cuz I want a girl that gives good top and if she's in that probation office she gotta live close .... what should I do:jbhmm:
 

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Okay so I been on hoes heavy these past months Cuz I gotta start 2018 with a nice rooster:takedat: but any ways .... I was going inside probation office seen this lil white chick it look like she gave good top :win:so Iwas like hey and she smile and keep walking so I take my piss test come out and I'm talking to one of my boys ,I see her in her car she start playing music loud and driving off and I'm like blah blah let me get ur snap she's like nah she got a bf I said the typical shyt he won't mind blah blah she ended up giving it to me but she said fast af but I still caught it.... I ended dming this broad and she said I'm cute but she's in love with her bf who's white ... she acts like she loves her bf but she keeps the convo going for me to respond should I continue or just say fukk it the only reason I want her cuz I want a girl that gives good top and if she's in that probation office she gotta live close .... what should I do:jbhmm:
Woman + probation office = :camby:
 

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just received this, :hubie:


"I needed to take sometime out to think & reflect. Its possible that I might have jumped ship and given up on us prematurely.

Because of my past ive become too protective over myself and as you know you are the first guy I truly liked in 4 years and at the first sign of problems/doubts I instictively got scared & ran.

We do have a lot to learn about the other and need to learn to understand each other, but by giving up I didnt give us that opportunity.I would like for us to give ourselves another chance, I hope you feel the same?"


like i said yesterday back in my simp days, i'd be like no worries and hop right back in but those days are over!!!!
 

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just received this, :hubie:


"I needed to take sometime out to think & reflect. Its possible that I might have jumped ship and given up on us prematurely.

Because of my past ive become too protective over myself and as you know you are the first guy I truly liked in 4 years and at the first sign of problems/doubts I instictively got scared & ran.

We do have a lot to learn about the other and need to learn to understand each other, but by giving up I didnt give us that opportunity.I would like for us to give ourselves another chance, I hope you feel the same?"


like i said yesterday back in my simp days, i'd be like no worries and hop right back in but those days are over!!!!


man, fukk that... why is it that they always have to be in control of the situation..? Don't fall for it, let her bask in her ignorance of not recognizing that she is with a god.
 
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