if there's one thing to remember to ask yourself is..."does she even know i got a dikk?"
meaning...is the interaction between yall similar to how you would be if you took your auntie out to lunch after church.
if so...re-calibrate my nikka. lol
shes a girl...she agreed to come out and look cute for YOU.
dont just tell her perfume smells nice, lean in and smell her neck and whisper in her ear telling her some fly shyt.
she hits the gym? dont just tell her she got nice legs, rub her thigh muscles while telling her those squats are doing her right. and fukkin look her in the eyes while youre doing this.
when she laughs, grab her hand gently and tell her she got a cute ass laugh and how sexy it is.
but you gotta BUILD up to that point...so you small chunk it. hug her when you first meet, maybe a kiss on the cheek too. quick tug at her elbow. touch her knee to further accentuate the point youre trying to make in the convo. she got a necklace? grab that shyt, grazing her chest and talk about it. she got tatts? trace your fingertips over the shyt and ask her what it means. you say something funny, teasing her, grab her shoulder and squeeze a little. she says something you like, wrap your arm around her and pull her in for a slight hug.
if you saw my game, you probably would say that shyt was corny.
"this nikka giving her daps and high fives and all types of lame shyt. gtfoh" lol i touch her like shes the little bratty ass girl i sat next to in fourth grade. lol
but all these little things warm her up over time. women are like a volume knob. adjust the knob right and you and go from a tap on the knee to touching her p*ssy through her jeans right there at the bar. or even more lol
each touch should be a progression. tapping, touching, rubbing, holding, groping.
if you see her tense up tho...fall back for a little. two steps forward and one step back. baby step the shyt.
bc you if you somehow get her back to the crib and you aint touched the broad, when you make your move, shes gonna be like wtf are you doing?!
you do this shyt right and next thing you know shell be touching you and she'll starting asking "so what time do you work in the morning?" or "how far away from here do you stay?"