Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I say whats in my mind to women. :yeshrug:. That “Lol okay” shyt comes off as passive aggressive. They know thats not all you want to say.

Plus, yall try n say “lol okay” then run on here hoping the chick text you. So yall be confusing yourselves trying to look cool instead of actually speakin ya mind like an adult:yeshrug:
Naw I usually follow that with a deleted number. If I really dont care I respond as such, they dont need an explanation. Its diffrent strokes though
 

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if there's one thing to remember to ask yourself is..."does she even know i got a dikk?" :dame:

meaning...is the interaction between yall similar to how you would be if you took your auntie out to lunch after church.

if so...re-calibrate my nikka. lol

shes a girl...she agreed to come out and look cute for YOU.

dont just tell her perfume smells nice, lean in and smell her neck and whisper in her ear telling her some fly shyt.

she hits the gym? dont just tell her she got nice legs, rub her thigh muscles while telling her those squats are doing her right. and fukkin look her in the eyes while youre doing this.

when she laughs, grab her hand gently and tell her she got a cute ass laugh and how sexy it is.

but you gotta BUILD up to that point...so you small chunk it. hug her when you first meet, maybe a kiss on the cheek too. quick tug at her elbow. touch her knee to further accentuate the point youre trying to make in the convo. she got a necklace? grab that shyt, grazing her chest and talk about it. she got tatts? trace your fingertips over the shyt and ask her what it means. you say something funny, teasing her, grab her shoulder and squeeze a little. she says something you like, wrap your arm around her and pull her in for a slight hug.

if you saw my game, you probably would say that shyt was corny. :camby:"this nikka giving her daps and high fives and all types of lame shyt. gtfoh" lol i touch her like shes the little bratty ass girl i sat next to in fourth grade. lol

but all these little things warm her up over time. women are like a volume knob. adjust the knob right and you and go from a tap on the knee to touching her p*ssy through her jeans right there at the bar. or even more lol

each touch should be a progression. tapping, touching, rubbing, holding, groping.

if you see her tense up tho...fall back for a little. two steps forward and one step back. baby step the shyt.

bc you if you somehow get her back to the crib and you aint touched the broad, when you make your move, shes gonna be like wtf are you doing?!

you do this shyt right and next thing you know shell be touching you and she'll starting asking "so what time do you work in the morning?" or "how far away from here do you stay?" :shaq:


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Should have a date coming up soon, gotta keep this in mind
 

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We on the same page when it comes to outlook on women iinteraction. I say how I feel and avoid playing games and shyt, but I cant help feel like I came off desperate on the text convo I posted. Im in my mid-late 20s in grad school now far removed from the life of an undergrad student. Alot of bad advise is posted here BUT there are some good points made on the daily.

Link your post. I hope youve smashed tho before I read it:usure:.

Alotta posts in here are about what to do BEFORE brehs smash. Not many posts about after the 20th time yall done fukked lol.

You cant speak ALLL of ya mind to a chick before yall smash a good 10+ times imo.

Dudes forget women are human. You cant be some fake cold, heartless cat. You whind up burning bridges for for all sorts of wild sex shyt, gifts, food, 3sums. Then, when a weekend comes, have no access to guranteed p*ssy :blessed:
 

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from reading your posts, you came off as one of the few who understand women and how how dating works. but that text is an embarrassment. im not sure why you would give a damn if a chick you barely even liked wants to bush you. u aint gotta send them paragraphs to let them know ur not the one who is sprung. a girl will know u dont care for her when she says "lets break up" and your response is as simple as "no worries, sweetheart. good luck and enjoy yourself :smile:". this will screw her up mentally. and matter of fact, when u text back ur response, it should be shorter than the message she sent you, even if by just one word.

if she shows that text to anyone, its clear u liked her more than ur letting on. otherwise, why type all that sh1t
Understanding women and how dating works....I would say I have about a 70-80% chance of having said understanding. I just never really had anyone to give me any type of game growing up (asides from a few homies, but even THEY were learning)....what's the basic premise?
 

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Lol young chick Ive been smashin for a couple months tried to make it out as if I was catchin feelins. I been bustly wit other hoes and work so she blown I aint been over to blow her back out. This chick send me random nudes all the time and this past weekend drank a whole bottle and started sending me long ass texts about shyt lol.

This chick had no ass or titties. Face aint even that good. She just a young freak that I met on tinder who I smash in her dorm.

I blame you simp nikkas for bytches overvaluing themsleves:stopitslime:

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Im crying from this:laff:


All that double text and logical explaining could've been summarized in a couple words. "okay cool, nice knowing you. take care" and then keep it pushing.

You came off as if you had to drive your point home that you didn't have any feelings towards this chick. When the truth is she bruised your ego and you felt the need to reply back. Also the reason why you trying to win an e-debate over @TRUEST speaks volumes that as much as you do understand women and the game, you hate taking L's.

You don't double text chicks that you "don't care about" if she bushes you. The way to act like you don't care is to simply don't care. Just take the L breh and call up the next chick on the roster.
 

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from reading your posts, you came off as one of the few who understand women and how how dating works. but that text is an embarrassment. im not sure why you would give a damn if a chick you barely even liked wants to bush you. u aint gotta send them paragraphs to let them know ur not the one who is sprung. a girl will know u dont care for her when she says "lets break up" and your response is as simple as "no worries, sweetheart. good luck and enjoy yourself :smile:". this will screw her up mentally. and matter of fact, when u text back ur response, it should be shorter than the message she sent you, even if by just one word.

if she shows that text to anyone, its clear u liked her more than ur letting on. otherwise, why type all that sh1t
Your posts in this thread be multiple paragraphs about gibberish nikka FOH:comeon: miss me with all that. Keep that shyt for the nikkas who dont get p*ssy.:jawalrus:

You talking about screwing a chicks mind up with texts nshyt. nikka ima grown ass man, I speak whats on my mind to a chick instead of playing mind games like a teenager. Your posts come off for the nikkas that wanna get payback on chicks:mjlol:.Ole “she texted back 3 sentences. Lemme post 1 word to show her whos in charge” :pachaha:

Yall nikkas be trying so hard to not show ya resentment towards bytches in this thread yall forget to keep it a buck with em.

Yall keep tryna be that fake ass “mysterious” cornball to bytches to cover up the missin mouthpiece:manny:
lol i see both sides
 

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Good wholesome chicks always assume I’m the type to go after IG thot types. :jbhmm:
 

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Lol young chick Ive been smashin for a couple months tried to make it out as if I was catchin feelins. I been bustly wit other hoes and work so she blown I aint been over to blow her back out. This chick send me random nudes all the time and this past weekend drank a whole bottle and started sending me long ass texts about shyt lol.

This chick had no ass or titties. Face aint even that good. She just a young freak that I met on tinder who I smash in her dorm.

I blame you simp nikkas for bytches overvaluing themsleves:stopitslime:

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Im crying from this:laff:
you took an L here, but I understand what you were thinking in your head
 
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Your posts in this thread be multiple paragraphs about gibberish nikka FOH:comeon: miss me with all that. Keep that shyt for the nikkas who dont get p*ssy.:jawalrus:

You talking about screwing a chicks mind up with texts nshyt. nikka ima grown ass man, I speak whats on my mind to a chick instead of playing mind games like a teenager. Your posts come off for the nikkas that wanna get payback on chicks:mjlol:.Ole “she texted back 3 sentences. Lemme post 1 word to show her whos in charge” :pachaha:

Yall nikkas be trying so hard to not show ya resentment towards bytches in this thread yall forget to keep it a buck with em.

Yall keep tryna be that fake ass “mysterious” cornball to bytches to cover up the missin mouthpiece:manny:

She is basically one year above being a teenager...her hormones are probably all fukked up and she is still trying to come into her own as a person..
From a logical standpoint, you make sense...
But your basically talking to air when it comes to these younger joints..
She just wants to argue and stir shyt up because her hormones are telling her to..
You weren't arguing with her, you were arguing with her hormones..
 

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brehs, I think I just got bushed :mjcry:

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just like that brehs. I wonder what could be the reason for her being so cold to a nikka after a great night. She was all up on me and I had her bent over that balcony for a few minutes :damn:. I wonder if her friends got into her ear or what? One of her friends (male) gave me a lift back to my place and kept asking me why I didnt close and leave with her and shyt. He seemed nosey about it so im wondering if he went back to her and tried to sabotage me :patrice:.

:wow: I had this feeling mayne. I was planning to creampie this chocolate thang before she leaves for home cause if she leaves now I'll only ever get to see her again next year in February!!!:bryan:. Even swallowed my pride and double texted to no avail :wowjb:
she just texted me this now after I decided to delete her contact :martin:. Yeah right, your phone stopped working and miraculously worked again when you boarded your plane :comeon:. She obviously has a nikka she's seeing and decided to prioritize him instead of coming over to get dikked down by me. I'll just text her "cool, enjoy your holidays" and keep it moving. On to the next one :camby:
 

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she just texted me this now after I decided to delete her contact :martin:. Yeah right, your phone stopped working and miraculously worked again when you boarded your plane :comeon:. She obviously has a nikka she's seeing and decided to prioritize him instead of coming over to get dikked down by me. I'll just text her "cool, enjoy your holidays" and keep it moving. On to the next one :camby:

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