Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

ViShawn

Superstar
Supporter
Joined
Aug 26, 2015
Messages
14,864
Reputation
5,744
Daps
49,947
How do you guys not hold grudges in dating?

I'm still annoyed that I wasted over two months with one girl that wasn't into me. She wasted my time and in hindsight annoying to be around.

There's other women that I'm more into I can find. At 34 I can still pull younger women.

But my ego is still annoyed with this last chick..help me find inner peace brehs
 

Crayola Coyote

Superstar
Joined
Jul 20, 2015
Messages
27,120
Reputation
2,410
Daps
62,058
How do you guys not hold grudges in dating?

I'm still annoyed that I wasted over two months with one girl that wasn't into me. She wasted my time and in hindsight annoying to be around.

There's other women that I'm more into I can find. At 34 I can still pull younger women.

But my ego is still annoyed with this last chick..help me find inner peace brehs

I hold grudges on every chick that I delt with. I never let any pass women.
 

ViShawn

Superstar
Supporter
Joined
Aug 26, 2015
Messages
14,864
Reputation
5,744
Daps
49,947
I hold grudges on every chick that I delt with. I never let any pass women.

Ha yeah it's like a brooding grudge or something. I'm amicable in person to neutral / indifference.

I sorta want to tell this girl off and tell her just because she is in her 30s and has a biological clock doesn't mean she needs to waste mine. That's the kind way of saying it.

She likes some of my stuff now but I just ignore her. I want to tell her that she would probably be boring in bed too but it's not worth the effort lol
 

Mister_DoItNice

Leading The Regime
Joined
Dec 26, 2012
Messages
4,028
Reputation
717
Daps
13,308
Reppin
The Concrete Jungle
How do you guys not hold grudges in dating?

I'm still annoyed that I wasted over two months with one girl that wasn't into me. She wasted my time and in hindsight annoying to be around.

There's other women that I'm more into I can find. At 34 I can still pull younger women.

But my ego is still annoyed with this last chick..help me find inner peace brehs

The homie True Blue said a while back you gotta let your ego go in order to get to where you want to be. Sounds like that’s why you can’t let things go. You’re taking what transpired as an indictment against you when that may not even be the case. If a woman has a fukked up mental state you can’t do a damn thing about it. Understand some things will always be out of your control.

It took me a while to internalize this. Hell, I’m an air traffic controller so I’m used to being in control of most things on a day to day basis. It’s not easy but when you accept it. shyt just rolls right off like teflon coating.
 
Joined
Dec 19, 2012
Messages
4,972
Reputation
1,983
Daps
24,937
Reppin
NYC
This girl told me to my face she isn't going to text me back or answer my calls cause I ignored her for 2 days. She said she is being petty until she gets over it. How do you deal with a woman that says this? I don't like her like that but all women are bytches and gonna do this bullshyt no matter the race. How do you deal with a woman that is being petty?

You ignored da bytch then asked "how do you deal w/ a woman dat u ignored" while also saying you dont like her like that. You need to stop bullshytting yourself.

Also my fav Patrice O'Neal quote "you cant get mad at a bytch for doing some bytch shyt because it's what they do nikka" save ur anger and grudges bruh.
 

John Reena

Superstar
Joined
Jan 27, 2016
Messages
15,172
Reputation
-935
Daps
44,788
  1. How do you guys not hold grudges in dating?
I'm still annoyed that I wasted over two months with one girl that wasn't into me. She wasted my time and in hindsight annoying to be around.

There's other women that I'm more into I can find. At 34 I can still pull younger women.

But my ego is still annoyed with this last chick..help me find inner peace brehs

U just gotta realize women are goofy and just shrug off they nonsense. Plus, u think she all worried n stressing like u are about her? Hell nah. She gettin on with her life while u suffering.
 

John Reena

Superstar
Joined
Jan 27, 2016
Messages
15,172
Reputation
-935
Daps
44,788
Ha yeah it's like a brooding grudge or something. I'm amicable in person to neutral / indifference.

I sorta want to tell this girl off and tell her just because she is in her 30s and has a biological clock doesn't mean she needs to waste mine. That's the kind way of saying it.

She likes some of my stuff now but I just ignore her. I want to tell her that she would probably be boring in bed too but it's not worth the effort lol

Maaan, don't do that. Just leave that broad alone n block/unfollow.
 

pop

Banned
Joined
Jan 24, 2014
Messages
982
Reputation
-1,940
Daps
2,724
I'm not doing what I'm supposed to be doing at the pace it should be done. But changing states simply in hopes hoes won't find me invisible in the new state is silly :skip: I doubt any of the consistent posters in here was down on their luck with women and moved their whole lives JUST to alleviate that. Doing so is putting women on the pedestal we say over and over to take them off of.

But if you are invisible in one area, because of pre selection wouldn't going somewhere else alleviate that.
 

Rice'N Beckford

**King of ADOS**
Joined
Feb 2, 2015
Messages
6,170
Reputation
980
Daps
29,432
Reppin
DMV
This girl told me to my face she isn't going to text me back or answer my calls cause I ignored her for 2 days. She said she is being petty until she gets over it. How do you deal with a woman that says this? I don't like her like that but all women are bytches and gonna do this bullshyt no matter the race. How do you deal with a woman that is being petty?

You dont:ufdup:.

Seriously, you nikkas have to be under 20 dealin with this shyt. How these bytches tellin you what they about to do?
 

Shadow King

Quiet N***a Loud Choppa
Supporter
Joined
Oct 31, 2012
Messages
42,371
Reputation
3,375
Daps
85,636
Reppin
Hometown of Cherokee at Law
But if you are invisible in one area, because of pre selection wouldn't going somewhere else alleviate that.
Maybe, maybe not. And it depends why a man is or feels invisible. Certain traits, at least physically, will be less than desirable regardless. But my thing is, when the new city doesn't work for you, next is...a new new city?
 

Crayola Coyote

Superstar
Joined
Jul 20, 2015
Messages
27,120
Reputation
2,410
Daps
62,058
You dont:ufdup:.

Seriously, you nikkas have to be under 20 dealin with this shyt. How these bytches tellin you what they about to do?

She 24. I'm 27. I don't have time for it so I continue to ignore her. I have another chick that I'm taking out on a date that works the front at the club. Also she text me back today trippin. but I charge em to the game fast. Rather be alone then deal with a chick that is retarded. :ehh:
 

Crayola Coyote

Superstar
Joined
Jul 20, 2015
Messages
27,120
Reputation
2,410
Daps
62,058
You ignored da bytch then asked "how do you deal w/ a woman dat u ignored" while also saying you dont like her like that. You need to stop bullshytting yourself.

Also my fav Patrice O'Neal quote "you cant get mad at a bytch for doing some bytch shyt because it's what they do nikka" save ur anger and grudges bruh.

I don't gotta talk to her 24/7. I have a life of my own. shyt breh :hhh:
 

True Blue Moon

Superstar
Joined
May 2, 2012
Messages
11,657
Reputation
3,615
Daps
37,041
Reppin
VA. Living in the City of Angels
The homie True Blue said a while back you gotta let your ego go in order to get to where you want to be. Sounds like that’s why you can’t let things go. You’re taking what transpired as an indictment against you when that may not even be the case. If a woman has a fukked up mental state you can’t do a damn thing about it. Understand some things will always be out of your control.

It took me a while to internalize this. Hell, I’m an air traffic controller so I’m used to being in control of most things on a day to day basis. It’s not easy but when you accept it. shyt just rolls right off like teflon coating.
:salute:
 
Top