Let's chop up some game. Some of you are interested in how to meet and bag women.
Things that I've learned....
The more elusive and mysterious you are to woman, the more coveted you are.
People can see reputation from a distance. They can only see character once they get to know you. This is why reputation is so important.
It's what I like to call the "It Factor".
The It Factor is the ability to walk into a room without saying a word and have women gravitate towards you. I'm sure some of you are wondering, how can I develop that "It Factor".
Before you can develop the "It Factor", you need to understand certain rules and make them reality.
1. Confidence trumps all
2. Women don't value looks the same way we do
3. It's not what is being said, but who says it
Once you understand these 3 concepts, and apply them to your every day interactions with women, you will notice a big difference in how women respond to you.
Think about confidence. When are you most confident?
You are most confident when you feel good about yourself. What are the things that make you feel good about yourself? For most of us it is dressing nice, smelling nice, having disposable income, happy in our careers, etc. You have to build your confidence in yourself. You can't exude what you don't have. Men who try too hard to meet women obviously don't have that confidence or "It Factor".
Remember that looks aren't priority for a woman. Of course women like attractive men and may give them initial preference, but at the end of the day, they fall in love with the man that they can make a connection with. Trying too hard is the worst thing that you can do. Learn how to be friendly and concise. Learn not to lust women. When you do this, it will be easier to connect to them because you won't feel pressured to impress them.
Have you ever noticed that women are more intrigued by the brother that doesn't press them? The bro that strikes up a casual conversation, gives her a compliment, and then goes about his way? It's true. Always be yourself, but be concise, especially when trying to bag a woman. If a woman feels attracted or connected to you, she won't turn you down if you ask for her number or to take her out (as long as you don't disrespect her in the process). Most women minds are made up within the first 15 minutes of talking to you, and that is more than enough time to lock and load. Hesitation is a no-no and is a sign of beta-male characteristics.
How difficult is to have a casual conversation with a female? It shouldn't be at all. And once you realize that you like her and there is a connection, you ask for the number.
Reputation is everything. It can dictate what you can and can't do. Reputation will allow me to say to a female "I know I just met you, but I'd like to take you home and get to know you better" and her actually comply, as opposed to somebody else saying the same exact thing and getting smacked in the face.
Always respect yourself, and treat others the way you would want to be treated, and make sure others treat you the way you want to be treated. Learn to limit the use of ho, b*tch, sl*t and any derogatory words towards women in your language.
And never ever simp..... Remember your goal is not to please a woman. Your goal is to effectively show a woman who you are, so that you won't ever have to encounter any discomfort while dealing with these woman because she fell for an image or your "representative"
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