Check this out. The one game women love to play is called crack the walnut. Your essence is the core of the walnut. The shell is your resistance to allowing others to change your principles and core beliefs.
Once a woman is able to get to your core and consume it, you will soon be discarded, for you are now worthless and useless in her eyes. Who keeps around walnut shells after the core has been devoured?
If you allow a woman to crack your shell and devour your core... in other words if you allow a woman to pass your resistance and to change your essence and inner nature, you lose.
Now to bring this example home, every time you meet a woman, she will be cool and friendly, but the more you deal with her, the more you will notice she will start trying to throw tests at you and do things to either emasculate you or to pry control from you. In essence, women love dealing with men who they feel they need to change, but end up being unable to change. If they went for men they claimed they wanted in the first place, it wouldn't be the nice guys, the responsible guys, etc., complaining about women, but rather it would be the players and thugs.
This is why it is so important to understand this game that women play. You will meet them, they will come to a point to where they will constantly attempt to change you, manipulate you or to wrestle control from you. If you give in, which is what the simp mentality advocates-- changing and catering in order to please the woman-- you will be quickly discarded. However, if your shell is tough and resilient, and you withstand her arguments, manipulation attempts, and the such, there is a high likelihood that she will stick with you should you choose to keep her around. Women stick with men that they attempt to change but can't. It keeps things interesting for them as well as demonstrating the solidity of your character. No one wants to be led by the one who allows the followers to lead, nor does one want to be led by one who is constantly shifting directions and demonstrates a lack of principles. So do not allow a woman to change you despite the resistance you get from her. The only time you change for her is if the issue is indeed valid and you are showing a huge error that needs correcting or otherwise it will cause problems for you down the line. For example, if you are an alcoholic and she is attempting to get you to stop the drinking to avoid destroying yourself, then that is fine. On the other hand if you are constantly shifting your opinions to match hers and altering your plans and decisions to whatever she wants to do, that is a no-go.
Once a woman is able to get to your core and consume it, you will soon be discarded, for you are now worthless and useless in her eyes. Who keeps around walnut shells after the core has been devoured?
If you allow a woman to crack your shell and devour your core... in other words if you allow a woman to pass your resistance and to change your essence and inner nature, you lose.
Now to bring this example home, every time you meet a woman, she will be cool and friendly, but the more you deal with her, the more you will notice she will start trying to throw tests at you and do things to either emasculate you or to pry control from you. In essence, women love dealing with men who they feel they need to change, but end up being unable to change. If they went for men they claimed they wanted in the first place, it wouldn't be the nice guys, the responsible guys, etc., complaining about women, but rather it would be the players and thugs.
This is why it is so important to understand this game that women play. You will meet them, they will come to a point to where they will constantly attempt to change you, manipulate you or to wrestle control from you. If you give in, which is what the simp mentality advocates-- changing and catering in order to please the woman-- you will be quickly discarded. However, if your shell is tough and resilient, and you withstand her arguments, manipulation attempts, and the such, there is a high likelihood that she will stick with you should you choose to keep her around. Women stick with men that they attempt to change but can't. It keeps things interesting for them as well as demonstrating the solidity of your character. No one wants to be led by the one who allows the followers to lead, nor does one want to be led by one who is constantly shifting directions and demonstrates a lack of principles. So do not allow a woman to change you despite the resistance you get from her. The only time you change for her is if the issue is indeed valid and you are showing a huge error that needs correcting or otherwise it will cause problems for you down the line. For example, if you are an alcoholic and she is attempting to get you to stop the drinking to avoid destroying yourself, then that is fine. On the other hand if you are constantly shifting your opinions to match hers and altering your plans and decisions to whatever she wants to do, that is a no-go.
I aint eam know dis thread existed. Feel like i just walked in on a therapy session. lol
