Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Although it hasn't been quoted, but that's why I posted that video yesterday of this chick who thought she was so big and bad by kicking a guy in the nuts until he punched her through the glass. Men are just simply getting sick and tired of this disgusting behaviour.

I don't encourage laying hands on a woman, but since women generally crave attention (good or bad), then we need to just take it away from them. In your case - and I used to work in the bank in a ratched ass part of town over 10 years ago as a cashier, so I've been through your scenario MANY times - you had no choice but to interact with this 'lady', but the best thing you could have done in that case is simply not take the bait and remain professional. If it's a work colleague you have to deal with and they go against company etiquette, report them just as quick as they'd report you if it's the other way around.

In other cases outside of work, have nothing more to do with them. That's it. Don't get into any rah rah with them, because they feed off that. Having a monotone voice and expressionless poker face and walking away will hurt them more than any screaming or cussing will ever do.

If I'm dating a chick and she shows me up just ONCE in public, the relationship is over.

I've mentioned this ratched ass distant female cousin (who is actually a hoe who cheated on her long term boyfriend but that's another story) who got in my face back in June and the situation nearly got real ugly but I managed not to react the way I probably would have done even a few years ago. The family now knows I want nothing to do with this bytch ever again, nor do I wanna hear about her, even though her friend who was there tried calling me the following wanting to speak to me, I ignored that little bullshyt message.

I don't get into any flame wars with chicks who don't know how to act like decent, grown ass women. I'll delete their numbers and all traces of their existence on my part and that's it.

You have to walk away from these broads who act like this, because when you react, then YOU look bad. You may be fully justified, but we live in a feminist and super simp society where women can do no wrong in the eyes of many. I can't remember the name of that rapper whose girlfriend punched him in the face in the street and in front of the camera because of something he said in a freestyle. Nobody said anything about how it was wrong for her to punch him, all everybody did was get on some "ha ha he's a punk, that girl snuffed him", yet if he hit her back, it would have raised all types of hell.

What I say applies to relationships, on the job, in public, wherever. There has to be a penalty for that kind of behaviour no matter what the setting is. They want equality, fine. Let them suffer the consequences just as much as we would.

This. That is exactly what I did but you know how minutes and hours after something happened and you contemplate what would have been the result if you took a different course of action. I wondered to myself what would have happened if I took out her receipt and coupon that came out of the machine, and placed it on the conveyer belt for her to go down and get instead of handing it to her especially when her ungrateful ass did not say thank you. Not sure about you but the thing that gets me even more is when the women acting this way is a member of your own race...but that is another story.

But the thing is you can't and in the workplace its like you gotta be a simp because if your not you have to deal with the repurcussions in this matriarch society. They are wonderful to look at but its like when they open their mouth you wish you had only just looked at them because it ruined your image of them. My absolute biggest pet peeve is when women of all ages blame their child, grandson, neice or nephew,etc for their reason for acting so disrespectful to people like myself or any random stranger. When you sit back and think about it, it is absolutely one of the most idiotic explanations....What goes through their minds to even have a dumb excuse like that? Especially when there are other women with responsibilities who know how to act with class in public and not raise drama. This is why it kills me in our feminist society how we hear all this "SuperMom" nonsense about doing absolutely everything in the home and making it seem like nobody BUT them does anything. The sign at the top of half the registers say "Bag your own"...but towards the end of the store there are those registers that the cashier bags for you. IF you are going into a line that is "Bag your own" however why do you need the cashier to continue to sending the things down for you after you have payed already. You have one person on your left telling you to push the things down when there is a button and they know this....and the other person on the right asking you to move the things down.

"Men are like oak trees....Women are like maple trees" is one of the most appropriate quotes. These women really just are like children who have no sense or maturity on how to act or treat people. But you know they would be the VERY FIRST people to punish or beat their child's ass for acting disrespectful in public whether to a stranger or to a teacher. But then you wonder who they learned it from....could have been that VERY SAME mother. Don't get me wrong the father is the backbone of every family, and we all know the statistifcs already on most criminals having single mothers....but even as a society we always say it is because of the lack of a father which is TRUE....but you look at the fact that MEN AND WOMEN who have single mothers...not just one gender are messed up in someway psychologically ....This "lack of independence" that this older generation loves to refer to in regards to "this generation" not to sound like I am placing the blame, but you don't think this supposed attitude is due to how these women RAISED this current generation? And how they could have inadvertedly caused them to be this way?


These same "SuperMoms" mention NOTHING about how they treated the cashier, bank taller, baker,etc when in Public or when they are a random civilian getting facetime on Television. All of that goes out the window. They don't talk about the things THEY did wrong when in public, but they instead preach about the million responsibilities they have.

I mentioned the Chris Matthews example because if you watch his show from time to time on MSNBC he is one of the GUILTIES parties when it comes to this....You get these female guests and he just disgustingly butters them up in multiple ways "Women do this better....Women multitask better then men(he must have said this at least 20 times) ,etc " . We all know he has a reputation for being annoying and interrupting people every second but I'm sure he would just say its "hardball". But if you ever notice, he is more aggressive towards the men than the women.
 

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Update on my situation:

I spoke to my girl last night about everything and she tried to flip everything on me. Saying things like "I've found out that you're not willing to compromise for me. Not even a little bit."

I won't lie, I was getting heated and I literally just gave up there on the spot. I told that I really wanna be with her but I'm too young to deal with this stress and bullshyt. I said to her that I'm done and that she probably won't hear from me but I'm not gonna do stuff like delete her number and block her on whatsapp.

She then tried to turn it on me again saying things like "See, this is what I get for going against my gut feeling and getting with a younger guy." I swear these girls are selfish and/or irrational. I had to tell her about herself and I told her that she's the only reason this is happening because I've done nothing wrong...and she agreed with me :upsetfavre:

The she said that she knew our relationship wasn't gonna last because I said I would struggle to stand by her if I knew she was killer. (I know I could have just humoured her and lied but we ain't Bonnie & Clyde, she can miss me with that shyt :pachaha:)

I slept it off and I feel a bit weird. Hopefully a good workout will make me feel better.

Dash her to the bushes, bruv. :camby:

I could even understand if you guys were in your 30s, but you have your whole life ahead of you, so WTF is she chatting about? :heh: "I know it feels right" lol. Ten years ago, some of the shyt I did cos it "felt right" were things I later regretted.

Yeah it probably "feels right" to her because Denise and Charlene down the road are throwing little birthday parties for their kids and she wants what they've got. Don't let her railroad and coerce you into something as serious as having kids you're not ready for, because it ain't like buying a new car at Glyn Hopkin, this is a lifetime ting. She don't sound all that mature anyway, stomping her foot like some five year old whose mother won't buy her a happy meal lol. You don't want someone like that in your life for 18 years and over, because trust me it won't end there. Let her be some next man's headache.
 

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You got some women who even blame their own kids for their? :huh: LOL their really gone.

What I do hate to see is women harshly speaking to their little children for simply being children. It's almost like they have a point to prove. These are the same women who are using vulgar language and scrapping in public right in the vicinity of theirs and other people's children with no sense of class and dignity whatsoever. You can watch any fight video to see that. Back in the day, if something was about to go down the mother would at least tell their kids to go in the other room, now they just don't care. Yet they expect these same kids to behave like little angels?? :snoop:
 

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Quick one. Work with her.

Told i liked her got her to go see a movie (this took bout 3 months, red flag 1)

Everything went good and she said we will do this again. Hasnt happened since.

Flirting happens alot etc etc etc

Her friend starts working under me and tells me its obvious i like her (never met the friend before last week). and i dont spread my business.

Then she texts me that people are teasing her that I like her and im a kind person and she likes me as a friend.

bytch, you coulda BEEN said this and at least had the decency to tell me to my face. That= disrespect. :camby:
My first response was why couldn't she tell me to my face. So; I never replied to the text and deleted her number. Bushes. :camby:

fukk that shyt :banderas: Lil bytch. I will not tolerate that type of disrespect.
 

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Dash her to the bushes, bruv. :camby:

I could even understand if you guys were in your 30s, but you have your whole life ahead of you, so WTF is she chatting about? :heh: "I know it feels right" lol. Ten years ago, some of the shyt I did cos it "felt right" were things I later regretted.

Yeah it probably "feels right" to her because Denise and Charlene down the road are throwing little birthday parties for their kids and she wants what they've got. Don't let her railroad and coerce you into something as serious as having kids you're not ready for, because it ain't like buying a new car at Glyn Hopkin, this is a lifetime ting. She don't sound all that mature anyway, stomping her foot like some five year old whose mother won't buy her a happy meal lol. You don't want someone like that in your life for 18 years and over, because trust me it won't end there. Let her be some next man's headache.

It's madness. I can't even deal with this right now 'cause I'm in my last year of uni and my state of mind is totally fukked up right now. All I've done today is work out in the morning and then sleep all day. I need to get myself together because my productivity has flown out the window right now.
 

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It's madness. I can't even deal with this right now 'cause I'm in my last year of uni and my state of mind is totally fukked up right now. All I've done today is work out in the morning and then sleep all day. I need to get myself together because my productivity has flown out the window right now.

Rocky relationships can have you feeling like you're in the Twilight Zone sometimes, I've been there.

Just look at it as a lucky escape, cos trust me you'll look back in the near future and realise this could have been a whoooole lot worse. The fact you're in uni and she's bringing all this emotional blackmail and pressure shows she's not a forward thinker and is just plain selfish. She acts like a 16 year old. Life is too short to deal with shyt like that. Cry on someone's shoulder if you have to, but in the meantime focus on your studies.
 
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how do yall brehs feel about being roommates with a chick that you're not dating

she's fine as shyt too :lupe:
 

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You ever see those women out with a little child whether their own child, a grandson or grandaughter, neice or nephew,etc.......and they throw a tantrum when the child does something as small as walking 2 steps? I remember one time in this Burger King this women who looked like a grandmother kept going too hard for no reason when the little boy she was with was moving in a little in his seat. The little guy wasn't even being loud or cursing or anything like that to warrant a response....I noticed alot of them do this.

@Turbulent :salute: going to try to learn to handle people like her. Your right though I have had @sshole male customers before its just that we know the ratio is extremely lopsided lets be honest. If you were to ask female cashiers what gender if they had the chance to deal with on one given day if they had the chance 9 out of 10 would say men.

You remember the Jay z line "You dont buy me Reeboks no more,throwing tamptrums on the floor". Thats some women.Those will be the women if you was to argue in their face they would start throwing things.Just like a child who is mad.I always said this.Your weakness or flaw as a child GROWS in you and doesnt change with age. Those women who threw tamptrums did it towards their fathers to get what they want,so of course they will do it towards you.
 

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how do yall brehs feel about being roommates with a chick that you're not dating

she's fine as shyt too :lupe:

Dont do it.She will be bringing men over which would make you jealous.She will try to get out of rent.She may be fne,but looks can deceive you.She knows she is beautful and will put you thru alot of stuff.... Alot of drama so proceed with caution
 

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i do wanna fukk :whoa: but at the same time its not like i need to fukk.. i got other chicks :manny:

might i add she also my plug :snoop:

hmm doesnt sound like itd be too bad. the crib would be kind of hot depending on how she moves. hopefully yall dont get raided
 

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Dont do it.She will be bringing men over which would make you jealous.She will try to get out of rent.She may be fne,but looks can deceive you.She knows she is beautful and will put you thru alot of stuff.... Alot of drama so proceed with caution

i feel you. i keep that in my head. but i legit know this chick too, and she aint a fukk nikka like that :manny: ill probably do 6 months anyway. i think i can co-exist with a chick in the crib.
 
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