Although it hasn't been quoted, but that's why I posted that video yesterday of this chick who thought she was so big and bad by kicking a guy in the nuts until he punched her through the glass. Men are just simply getting sick and tired of this disgusting behaviour.
I don't encourage laying hands on a woman, but since women generally crave attention (good or bad), then we need to just take it away from them. In your case - and I used to work in the bank in a ratched ass part of town over 10 years ago as a cashier, so I've been through your scenario MANY times - you had no choice but to interact with this 'lady', but the best thing you could have done in that case is simply not take the bait and remain professional. If it's a work colleague you have to deal with and they go against company etiquette, report them just as quick as they'd report you if it's the other way around.
In other cases outside of work, have nothing more to do with them. That's it. Don't get into any rah rah with them, because they feed off that. Having a monotone voice and expressionless poker face and walking away will hurt them more than any screaming or cussing will ever do.
If I'm dating a chick and she shows me up just ONCE in public, the relationship is over.
I've mentioned this ratched ass distant female cousin (who is actually a hoe who cheated on her long term boyfriend but that's another story) who got in my face back in June and the situation nearly got real ugly but I managed not to react the way I probably would have done even a few years ago. The family now knows I want nothing to do with this bytch ever again, nor do I wanna hear about her, even though her friend who was there tried calling me the following wanting to speak to me, I ignored that little bullshyt message.
I don't get into any flame wars with chicks who don't know how to act like decent, grown ass women. I'll delete their numbers and all traces of their existence on my part and that's it.
You have to walk away from these broads who act like this, because when you react, then YOU look bad. You may be fully justified, but we live in a feminist and super simp society where women can do no wrong in the eyes of many. I can't remember the name of that rapper whose girlfriend punched him in the face in the street and in front of the camera because of something he said in a freestyle. Nobody said anything about how it was wrong for her to punch him, all everybody did was get on some "ha ha he's a punk, that girl snuffed him", yet if he hit her back, it would have raised all types of hell.
What I say applies to relationships, on the job, in public, wherever. There has to be a penalty for that kind of behaviour no matter what the setting is. They want equality, fine. Let them suffer the consequences just as much as we would.
This. That is exactly what I did but you know how minutes and hours after something happened and you contemplate what would have been the result if you took a different course of action. I wondered to myself what would have happened if I took out her receipt and coupon that came out of the machine, and placed it on the conveyer belt for her to go down and get instead of handing it to her especially when her ungrateful ass did not say thank you. Not sure about you but the thing that gets me even more is when the women acting this way is a member of your own race...but that is another story.
But the thing is you can't and in the workplace its like you gotta be a simp because if your not you have to deal with the repurcussions in this matriarch society. They are wonderful to look at but its like when they open their mouth you wish you had only just looked at them because it ruined your image of them. My absolute biggest pet peeve is when women of all ages blame their child, grandson, neice or nephew,etc for their reason for acting so disrespectful to people like myself or any random stranger. When you sit back and think about it, it is absolutely one of the most idiotic explanations....What goes through their minds to even have a dumb excuse like that? Especially when there are other women with responsibilities who know how to act with class in public and not raise drama. This is why it kills me in our feminist society how we hear all this "SuperMom" nonsense about doing absolutely everything in the home and making it seem like nobody BUT them does anything. The sign at the top of half the registers say "Bag your own"...but towards the end of the store there are those registers that the cashier bags for you. IF you are going into a line that is "Bag your own" however why do you need the cashier to continue to sending the things down for you after you have payed already. You have one person on your left telling you to push the things down when there is a button and they know this....and the other person on the right asking you to move the things down.
"Men are like oak trees....Women are like maple trees" is one of the most appropriate quotes. These women really just are like children who have no sense or maturity on how to act or treat people. But you know they would be the VERY FIRST people to punish or beat their child's ass for acting disrespectful in public whether to a stranger or to a teacher. But then you wonder who they learned it from....could have been that VERY SAME mother. Don't get me wrong the father is the backbone of every family, and we all know the statistifcs already on most criminals having single mothers....but even as a society we always say it is because of the lack of a father which is TRUE....but you look at the fact that MEN AND WOMEN who have single mothers...not just one gender are messed up in someway psychologically ....This "lack of independence" that this older generation loves to refer to in regards to "this generation" not to sound like I am placing the blame, but you don't think this supposed attitude is due to how these women RAISED this current generation? And how they could have inadvertedly caused them to be this way?
These same "SuperMoms" mention NOTHING about how they treated the cashier, bank taller, baker,etc when in Public or when they are a random civilian getting facetime on Television. All of that goes out the window. They don't talk about the things THEY did wrong when in public, but they instead preach about the million responsibilities they have.
I mentioned the Chris Matthews example because if you watch his show from time to time on MSNBC he is one of the GUILTIES parties when it comes to this....You get these female guests and he just disgustingly butters them up in multiple ways "Women do this better....Women multitask better then men(he must have said this at least 20 times) ,etc " . We all know he has a reputation for being annoying and interrupting people every second but I'm sure he would just say its "hardball". But if you ever notice, he is more aggressive towards the men than the women.