Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

It's always annoying to hear that "so where are we going with this" talk from a chick you're messing with. Buuuut, I'm also learning that if you never get that talk, she only sees you as a fling.

I met this older woman(she's 31, I'm 25) at an outdoor concert back on July 4. Extremely laid-back and just had an overall chill vibe about her. she let me hit it after the third date. from there we entered something that I guess wasn't quite a relationship, but def had more depth than jumpoff territory. like we still went out to places together and I genuinely enjoyed her company even when we weren't having sex.

that whole time I was wondering when the inevitable, "so where are we going with this?" question would come, but it never came, which was cool with me. but I'm not even gonna front, I started to see her as someone I could possibly build something with. she was extremely chill, never dramatic, very smart, no kids and was just a cool person to be around. so while I wasn't gonna straight up ask her "will you be my girlfriend," I was ready to act more "boyfriendish" in my actions(take her out on more formal dates, call her more often, etc). but just as I was about to do that, she starting to ignore my calls and was always "busy" when I tried to make plans.

I was legit cuz she never gave me any signs she was angry at me. but when I told my boy about the situation he was like, "she just saw you as a fling, especially with you being so much younger, the fact that ya'll were fukkin and she never asked for any type of commitment confirmed that, she had her fun now she's just talking to someone new."

i was kind of at first cuz she is cool as hell(which is hard for me to find these days) but in the end I had to and keep it moving. if she never got emotional or tried pressuring me into anything serious then she just didn't see me as a potential boyfriend. it's just crazy how it seems like the jumpoffs have the perfect personalities while the girls who actually want relationships are annoying as fukk. if I find someone who combines the two, then I'll know it's someone special

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[MikelArteta]

I got advice from this female that I should ask for feedback from women that flaked on me or we just didn't hit if off. YAY or NAY?

never listen to a dvice form a female on how to deal or talk to a female

 

[semicko82]

never listen to a dvice form a female on how to deal or talk to a female

LOL ok I gotcha

 

[Turbulent]

never listen to a dvice form a female on how to deal or talk to a female

unless she,s a lesbian (and even then thread with caution...)

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Reading Twan83 post makes you realize there is still hope. Im not saying all women is bad but he seems to be in the % of success stories.You hear so many horror stories tha twe dont hear no success stories.

 

[MikelArteta]

Reading Twan83 post makes you realize there is still hope. Im not saying all women is bad but he seems to be in the % of success stories.You hear so many horror stories tha twe dont hear no success stories.

someone wins the lotto every week even though the odds are astronomical.

 

[XtheMagnificent]

i honestly dont have a timeline cuz i aint ur man and u aint my girl. so if i call u and its only gonna be once that day im out having fun elsewhere whether its with another female or my boy.

what i look like checking my phone waiting on you
if she feeling you enough she will call or text u within 24 hrs no matter what unless its an emergency then i could see why she wouldnt

a female thats highly interested in you will make it well known believe that

thats y when ur single u should have a damn team with depth in doing that ur phone will always be active and so will u till u decide too cut it down too like 3 reliable females and go from there is what i do

im telling u got dumbass dudes out here waiting by their phone wondering when will she call or text me why hasnt she then they end up blowing up her phone looking stupid while she out there having fun and u aint cuz u all sad when u dont have a reason cuz she aint ur girl and u aint her man

 

[MikelArteta]

you dont even have to have an array of women at your disposal, just KNOWING and being CONFIDENT you can have an array of womat your disposal is good enough.

I';m not even saying I'm all that because I'm not. But in this day and age all it takes is creating a pof account throwing like 3 pictures up, sending out a message to like 15-20 broads a few will bite set up a date and voila.

 

[re'up]

The friend of mine that had his girl move out...situation is spiraling, and he is serious denial, she took the couch, and is moving into her friends new place for 'the rest of the semester", and to 'have the college experience', and then they'll move back in together, meanwhile they are still a couple....My boy still talking about MARRYING her, I had a long talk that I don't think got through to him, said 'You have to be willingly to let her go and live her life, she's 22, it's not ever fair or reasonable to expect her to give up years of her life for you, let her go be a young women, think about what you are asking, and how old/inexperienced you probably make her feel'...falling in love with younger women can be disastrous, everyone saw this coming for years. dudes house is like something out of a romantic comedy, no furniture in the front room lol it's sad...

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

hmm if u want u could do it this way just ask her too kick it with you aka chill
when i wasnt sure bout a female if she was giving me mixed signals no flat out answer or i felt playing games
i did this

me:hey im gonna see this movie wanna see it and chill out
her: u asking me out on a date
me: no i just was inviting you for a movie heard was good wouldnt mind the company but i can go alone too no biggie too me
her: oh ok sure lets go

after the movie
her: ya that was a good movie i had fun we should do this again but go on a date this time
me: ya thats coo

or i did this too the one who gave mixed signals on purpose
her: ya that was a good movie i had fun we should do this again but go on a date this time
me: give me ur number and i'll let you know when im free
next day she calls
her: i was wondering if ur busy tonite or tomorrow so we can do something
me: yea but i'll let you know
her:
3 days later
me: if ur down im free this day
her: ya
( then after the date she wanna give it up cuz of lack of attention those few days )

i do the same
making chicks who like you wait and stay cancellin on appt

so the next time they get a chance to see
they make sure they give the puss..just so that they u stay with them

 

[twan83]

i do the same
making chicks who like you wait and stay cancellin on appt

so the next time they get a chance to see
they make sure they give the puss..just so that they u stay with them

honestly im an a$$hole if i know a female is playing games and do that shyt on purpose and playing with people feelings
i will hit it and quit on purpose no matter what and i have done it with no remorse

cant stand females like that i know this one situation where this female was playing games with a friend of mines he never had sex but really liked her but she would do that friendzone thing with him which im like ok thats fine but y make false hope

she would be half naked messing with him then say well thanks for coming over and making me feel better bout myself and a dude be arriving on her front door step waiting and he was like who is he. she literally told him my friend with benefits and he goes what am i too i am here for u when u need me u call me over cry on my shoulder and even tease me a lil so what am i too u do u like me

she literally said ur just a guy that i like playing with cuz u make me smile i cant date a guy like you

once i heard that shyt i made it a mission too make her pay i know it aint right but man he was a good dude and didnt deserve that and he was like if she just would say were just friends i would of been oh ok but she would say always tell me i really care for u so well see and give me false hope

in the long run she got hers cuz he called me one day saying she called me sobbing talking bout he she was all in love and some guy just hit it and never called back and she cant take it

hey its nothing something i encourage and sure i was wrong for that but i was like fukk it cant stand females like that playing people's emotion on purpose and if i can return the favor i will

 

[Kartel13]

Man, I use to mess with this one broad a few years ago. I was 30 and shorty was 20. But this woman was built like stallion. I ended up losing touch with her because I had a lot on my plate. Anywho, ran into on FB last year and noticed she had a BF. Just so happen to peep her profile a few months ago and saw she was single. Sent her a friend request because FB wants to charge you to send her a PM and bytch never accepted.

But got damn is this woman thick

Ah well, it's just p*ssy. Would have been nice though. Just speaking my mind.

 

[RealAssanova]

honestly im an @sshole if i know a female is playing games and do that shyt on purpose and playing with people feelings
i will hit it and quit on purpose no matter what and i have done it with no remorse

cant stand females like that i know this one situation where this female was playing games with a friend of mines he never had sex but really liked her but she would do that friendzone thing with him which im like ok thats fine but y make false hope

she would be half naked messing with him then say well thanks for coming over and making me feel better bout myself and a dude be arriving on her front door step waiting and he was like who is he. she literally told him my friend with benefits and he goes what am i too i am here for u when u need me u call me over cry on my shoulder and even tease me a lil so what am i too u do u like me

she literally said ur just a guy that i like playing with cuz u make me smile i cant date a guy like you

once i heard that shyt i made it a mission too make her pay i know it aint right but man he was a good dude and didnt deserve that and he was like if she just would say were just friends i would of been oh ok but she would say always tell me i really care for u so well see and give me false hope

in the long run she got hers cuz he called me one day saying she called me sobbing talking bout he she was all in love and some guy just hit it and never called back and she cant take it

hey its nothing something i encourage and sure i was wrong for that but i was like fukk it cant stand females like that playing people's emotion on purpose and if i can return the favor i will

this is dicey situation, generally speaking. I have been in your shoes except that i didn't kno the girl(s) nor fuked em'. Some n!ggaz out there are really, REALLY desperate for snatch, so in the hopes of trying to get some, they will sacrifice their dignity and self-respect. Some do it unknowingly and some do it purposefully. In any case, they phaggots. Yes women dat take advantage of dudes like this are b!tches, but women are fuked up specimens. Its a vicious cycle...good guy gets burned by a girl ---> turns into an azzhole ---> burns a good girl ---> good girl turns into a b!tch.

What i do is, i go in with a certain intention. Hidden or not, i have a clear objective. If it ain't met, i move on. No room for emotions, mind games, or any other bullshyt. Remember, its called 'game'. Errthang you do/say is to get dat W and dat's what erry n!gga should do WITHOUT compromising his dignity, self-respect or morals.

 

[twan83]

this is dicey situation, generally speaking. I have been in your shoes except that i didn't kno the girl(s) nor fuked em'. Some n!ggaz out there are really, REALLY desperate for snatch, so in the hopes of trying to get some, they will sacrifice their dignity and self-respect. Some do it unknowingly and some do it purposefully. In any case, they phaggots. Yes women dat take advantage of dudes like this are b!tches, but women are fuked up specimens. Its a vicious cycle...good guy gets burned by a girl ---> turns into an azzhole ---> burns a good girl ---> good girl turns into a b!tch.

What i do is, i go in with a certain intention. Hidden or not, i have a clear objective. If it ain't met, i move on. No room for emotions, mind games, or any other bullshyt. Remember, its called 'game'. Errthang you do/say is to get dat W and dat's what erry n!gga should do WITHOUT compromising his dignity, self-respect or morals.

ya it is a dicey situation nor do i recommend doing what i did but i was like fukk it not saying its right though
what i bolded is so damn true too

 

[Rocket Scientist]

someone wins the lotto every week even though the odds are astronomical.

Good point but Anybody can win the lottery,but not many successfully keeps the fortune.