You can start by ending the white supremacy of your mind. That means stop getting on TV with this kumbayah ridiculousness every time an act of terror occurs.
That means stop thinking your job is to tip toe around white emotions because you are afraid. Wtf are you afraid of? The very fact that you are black and breathing is enough to agitate them. So what is the point of acting like a coward? They will be agitated either way, and they will deal with it.
No one is advocating being violent and attacking. The point is to stand up for yourself. But you can't do that until you cleanse your mind. If you can't even stand up for basic justice and the right to have human emotions, how the hell are you going to build a community, build businesses, and all this other stuff? People are out of order. If you can't even VERBALLY stand up for yourself, how will you stand up for yourself after you've built a community and fools come to tear it down?
I own land. I homeschool my my kids and I believe in unity, so save all that for someone else. What I don't believe in is supporting foolishness under the guise of "unity".
As I said, chattel slavery ended when blacks started rising up. This information is verifiable. But keep believing what master taught you while rest of us will be ending the white supremacist colonization of our minds.
It's easy not being a coward when there isn't a gun point at your head.
Its easy to say what you gonna do and what your not gonna do when its not happening directly to you.
I was watching the Medgar Evers documentary and he basically knew he was going to get murdered and prepared his children for bombs and attacks on his house. They prepared for these children to act according to survive in the south even though their parents were actively fighting. Same thing with MLK and Malcolm X and many other people in the south.
Emmit Till's mother gave him a speech before his summer trip down south on how to act and he just whistled at white women and it got him killed.
Or how about to today where you know black mothers tell there sons how to act around the police so they won't get killed.
Im not saying acting like this is right but i'm ask you all to put in perspective the gravity of fighting a system that is 400 years old.
This is why the last thing i'm worried about is whether the family says i forgive you or not.
I'm more worried as to why a black senator who fought against police brutality is being targeted.
This is not going to be handed to you. Our Ancestors fought tirelessly and even then it was not given to them.
I mean there should be death certificates though. 
