Plus size model Ashley Graham on her interracial marriage with a black man.

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So dating your own race is dating yourself got it.:gucci:

All black people are reflections of one another on surface level. This skin color binds us. We all share the same collective unconscious.

Your significant other is a reflection of you. So how can another race woman/man be a reflection of black people. Only way it can work if you have self hatred because when you dating another race man/woman it allows you to escape who you are because you don't have to look within when dating another race.
 

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I think it was more the fact that her family's response shocked and surprised her and caught her off guard. For her to be that naive that that could happen is more mind boggling to me. I guess all those fairy tales about treating everyone the same and all that shyt was cool until you actually have to practice it. :mjpls:

I could see her taking him and leaving to drive around to collect her thoughts about what just happened pretty easy. :yeshrug:
Ill admit, in my younger years I dated a lot of Asian chicks and faced equal prejudice/racism like they were Caucasian. At the time I didn't know myself or have the world vision and experiences to understand it all.
She knew breh..
These girls know how their families feel about them dating black men. She wasn't naive on this topic as she wants to portray. Guaranteed her parents/grandparents would say little slick shyt here and there.
Plus I'm pretty sure classmates, etc expressed views on this subject but she just rocked with comments so she wouldn't be the odd girl out..
A lot of females play that naive role and spring you on their parents and then act like they didn't know the outcome of the first meeting.
But when you don't know yourself or you are trying to get something out the deal, nikkas will tap dance just to be in the presence of a mediocre chick just to keep getting the p*ssy on the regular..
I expect my woman to stand up for me and if you can't even do that or openly love me then we got a fukkin problem and at my age I'm liable to throw you in the bushes just off GP or a stupid comment.
My girl is Filipino and she has been a rider from jump. Never hid me and got at a cousins neck the first time I met them. She doesn't stand for the bullshyt when it comes to us.
To wrap this tangent up, this chick is not down for him. That "naive, white girl" shyt don't fly with me. Taking him for a ride is understandable to clear their heads but as soon as she got back to the crib, her big ass should have been on the phone getting at her grandma.. This story is on some magically negro, Bagger Vance shyt..
 

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To wrap this tangent up, this chick is not down for him. That "naive, white girl" shyt don't fly with me. Taking him for a ride is understandable to clear their heads but as soon as she got back to the crib, her big ass should have been on the phone getting at her grandma.. This story is on some magically negro, Bagger Vance shyt..

You could very well be right or be completely wrong. We'll find out.

They've been together for 7 years and before the fame, so we'll see if it lasts. Hopefully it does. They got married even though her fam didn't like his black ass. So :yeshrug:

I don't wanna cheer for cats downfall, but I'm with you in the fact that I wouldn't be surprised if it doesn't. That's most celebrity marriages, hell marriages period nowadays.
 

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You could very well be right or be completely wrong. We'll find out.

They've been together for 7 years and before the fame, so we'll see if it lasts. Hopefully it does. They got married even though her fam didn't like his black ass. So :yeshrug:

I don't wanna cheer for cats downfall, but I'm with you in the fact that I wouldn't be surprised if it doesn't. That's most celebrity marriages, hell marriages period nowadays.
I don't want anybody's relationship to fail but the writing is on the wall..
You can be with someone for years because you were conforming to their ideals not to rock the boat.
You can't enter any relationship (especially an interracial relationship) on the grounds they did..
That foundation is weak asf(no pun intended)..
She is hot in these streets right now and guaranteed she choosy..
But like you said we will see:yeshrug:
 

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You have no idea how naive white people are then.


Naive, stubborn, and high of white supremacy. I'm dumbfounded at some of the things they are oblivious too because they have no experience with it.

you doing the most in here trying to justify these devils. are you even black? some of ya'll got no dignity or self respect. shyt is disgusting
 

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you doing the most in here trying to justify these devils. are you even black? some of ya'll got no dignity or self respect. shyt is disgusting
Justify?

No

I'm telling you facts, your taking as justification. It was mind blowing that what I thought was blatantly obvious to me and other black people goes over a lot of there heads. They live in a different america than every other race of people. I aint making an excuse for anything, if you think that understanding that all people don't fall into a bucket of this or that means I have a lack of respect or dignity I don't know what to tell you.
 

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Justify?

No

I'm telling you facts, your taking as justification. It was mind blowing that what I thought was blatantly obvious to me and other black people goes over a lot of there heads. They live in a different america than every other race of people. I aint making an excuse for anything, if you think that understanding that all people don't fall into a bucket of this or that means I have a lack of respect or dignity I don't know what to tell you.

you're making excuses because you have severe low self esteem. do better
 
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