PAWG asks where the real men at and stop being suckas and just go for it.
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Scustin Bieburr
Baby baybee baybee UUUGH
The problem is most people can't successfully appraise their own level of attractiveness. Men are losing their minds trying to figure out what they're doing wrong because (at least until the last 10-20 years) nobody told men point blank that the reason might be as simple as "you're short, fat, and ugly" you can have all the charisma in the world, but no woman is rushing to give George from Seinfeld the p*ssy when they know they can access a better looking man.
The clever lines that worked when their basketball playing friend went out won't work for the man built like a dwarf walrus. Women have a more distorted sense of their looks because the range of what men find attractive is so wide that a woman who looks like a shoe and has the personality of an agitated cat feels entitled to any and all men. One man's thick is another man's fat. One man's 'slim' is another man's 'shapeless'.
A PAWG with sage advice 
I can save her what's her name?
You have to have courage and the ability to speak convincingly to do that. Take that as you will.The bolded has happened to me before, and every single time for a minute before I went up to talk to her I asked myself
"Self, is there someone behind me acting a fool? Did a pimple only she can see pop out of my forehead? Why is she staring?"
I remember turning around a few times just to make sure it was me she was staring at
Imagine a dude staring at a woman and expecting her to come up to talk to him, AFTER he's been staring at her
Now on the other hand, a woman staring at you means you're in. It's a slam dunk at that point. But it is very rude and off putting. Can't just come up and say hi like we do?
Breh the bytch so musty, I had to clean my laptop screen.
Pawgset yall on yall own
Pawgset yall on yall own
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While I certainly don't agree with the whole not being in a position of power thing, that was a bit off the cuff and irrelevant to the Convo at hand; he is correct in saying that men do appreciate it.
But women kind of lack perspective on this. We really are no different to you in the sense that it's not so much that we don't like being approached, but it depends on who is doing the approaching. For example I guarantee you
that you would be disgusted and put off if a poor Rick Ross or a Steve urkel approached you, but you would have the exact opposite impression if a fine man approached you. Men are the same way.
We are indeed put off when women do the approaching, but the caveat is it has to be a woman we don't like. Much like with women, dudes do appreciate appreciate when an attractive woman does the approaching. From a male lens, I can't help but infer that you and your female friends were not the ideal type for the man you were approaching.
And this gets a bit more complicated when women conflate whether a man will sleep with you with whether you are his ideal type. Both kinds of women are viable from the man's approach perspective, however ; only the ideal woman is viable from the female approach.
Now I'll take a brief break from the male mind and venture into the female mindset. Unlike my previous Statement, i admit this part is conjecture, but it seems to me like women find it uncomfortable to learn whether they are the approached-man's ideal type or whether they are just another woman he would sleep with . And I propose that this is why women don't approach . Not a belief that we men don't like being approached, but a fear that men do not like that individual woman approaching...
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Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
Well she seems left handed.
Scustin Bieburr
Baby baybee baybee UUUGH
They aren't conditioned and prepared to handle rejection from men. You can say "we don't like it when unattractive women approach us!" Well that's the same thing as a woman saying that the difference between a creep and a man with game is his jawline, muscle tone, height and fashion sense. They're both approaching, but the good looking guy is bold and persistent whilst the ugly man is a creep harassing her.
Most people don't know if they're really that ugly. And it doesn't help when men tell each other "I saw a nikka who looked and smelled like a full diaper bag getting bytches. You just don't have confidence/game" they're blind to the fact that they themselves may be more attractive to women than the man they're advising and telling someone exceptions to a general rule that they've observed themselves is like telling someone that black people have it good in America because there are black millionaires and billionaires like Kanye, LeBron and Oprah.
Telling women that we like it only when the beautiful ones approach us isn't really useful if the woman doesn't know if you find her attractive. She's not a mind reader. I think this issue is a the heart of why men and women struggle with this stuff. At least with women their rejection anxiety is lower because they're expected to choose, whilst men are expected to shoulder all the risk that comes with approaching and being rejected. With men deciding they want to be approached that puts women in a position where THEY can experience rejection and the pain associated with it. Rather than accept that reality, they'd rather accept the ludicrous notion that a man will turn down a woman that he finds attractive because she approached him and expressed clear interest.
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Nah the sort of woman that asks men out is not the woman most men can handle. Let women play their role.
Women have no game, every time a woman has asked me out, she's done it awkwardly
nikka I was on here lurking for 2 secs. Read this shyt
And just threw my fukkin phone.
I guess Im in that 5% thenYou’re bringing up an issue that according to studies only occur about 5% of the time and accuse me of lacking balance or context?
I get that you dislike women especially because of your post in the Baptist Church, but you speaking as an authority on something you’ve done less than zero research on other than what’s fed to you by right wing MRA dudes is fukking comical.
Almost No One Is Falsely Accused of Rape
Why that “5 percent of rape allegations are false” figure is so misleading.www.thecut.com
“How common are false allegations of rape or sexual assault?
One commonly cited figure holds that 5 percent of rape allegations are found to be false, but that figure paints a very incomplete picture, says Belknap. Typically, this figure comes from studies done on college students, an estimated 95 percent of whom do not report their assaults to police. Overall, an estimated 8 to 10 percent of women are thought to report their rapes to the police, which means that — at the very highest — we can infer that 90 percent of rapes go unreported, says Belknap. Obviously, only those rapes that are reported in the first place can be considered falsely reported, so that 5 percent figure only applies to 10 percent (at most) of rapes that occur. This puts the actual false allegation figure closer to 0.5 percent.
Of course, these figures are estimates, and Belknap doesn’t doubt they’re imperfect — we can’t count what isn’t being counted. But her research suggests that, if anything, we underestimate the number of rapes that go unreported.”
Go touch some grass loser. Have a nice day, a lot of y’all lack to experience with women to ever even speak on the subject
Once again, making moves on women and not sexually assaulting them is very fukking easy
Been on this planet 30+ years and never been accused of rape once and neither have any of my boys. It’s very easy to do
