PAWG asks where the real men at and stop being suckas and just go for it.

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No ma’am men don’t want unattractive women approaching them. Yeah some dudes will think that probably because they don’t get approached often or if they do that’s usually what some of those women led with
Seems like you got an understanding of how it works here……so what was your previous username :mjpls:
I don’t have a previous name, I just pay attention to stupid, hypocritical shyt that is said on here.
 

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Sex is the easiest part

Letting them know just because you initiated sex don't mean I owe you something is when the post nut clarity come in
I can understand this. It’s the same as, just because I said hello to a man doesn’t mean I want to fukk. That was the point I was trying to get at. If a woman approaches a man, even with a hello, it’s automatically assumed she wants to fukk, that’s why women don’t like to approach. No one that has responded to me has acknowledged that. They keep saying if she’s attractive then she approach them and they won’t feel any way about it. If I see an attractive man, I’m not automatically thinking I want to fukk HIM if he approaches me. He might be a moron and have nothing going on upstairs, and that turns me off.
 

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Ya'll nikkas scared of your shadow. No chick is going to say you raped her for trying to kiss her after a date. Unless she says no and you keep going, like a rapist. smarten up.
Not even taking the chance. As long as Roxy Reynolds, Jada Fire and Donna Red videos are available for free viewing I'm not jeopardizing my freedom.

Extreme take but that's just me, seen this shyt happen too many times.
 

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While I certainly don't agree with the whole not being in a position of power thing, that was a bit off the cuff and irrelevant to the Convo at hand; he is correct in saying that men do appreciate it.





But women kind of lack perspective on this. We really are no different to you in the sense that it's not so much that we don't like being approached, but it depends on who is doing the approaching. For example I guarantee you
that you would be disgusted and put off if a poor Rick Ross or a Steve urkel approached you, but you would have the exact opposite impression if a fine man approached you. Men are the same way.


We are indeed put off when women do the approaching, but the caveat is it has to be a woman we don't like. Much like with women, dudes do appreciate appreciate when an attractive woman does the approaching. From a male lens, I can't help but infer that you and your female friends were not the ideal type for the man you were approaching.


And this gets a bit more complicated when women conflate whether a man will sleep with you with whether you are his ideal type. Both kinds of women are viable from the man's approach perspective, however ; only the ideal woman is viable from the female approach.








Now I'll take a brief break from the male mind and venture into the female mindset. Unlike my previous Statement, i admit this part is conjecture, but it seems to me like women find it uncomfortable to learn whether they are the approached-man's ideal type or whether they are just another woman he would sleep with . And I propose that this is why women don't approach . Not a belief that we men don't like being approached, but a fear that men do not like that individual woman approaching...
This made me laugh. I can assure you, I have no problem with men. I wish what you said was true in that regard. You actually made my day with this one , and if my ego was bruised I would post a pic. But you know what I just realized based on these responses to me: it’s not that you guys don’t like being approached, it’s that you guys categorize it as a woman automatically wants to fukk you if they do. THAT’S what makes women hesitant to approach. Shyt, I just learned something from this. Thanks Coli! Disclaimer: there are indeed some women where that is their intention, but more often than not, she’s not ready to jump in bed with you at that very moment if she approached you.
 

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:ufdup: who you talking to nikka :stopitslime:

:ufdup: Thread platinum punk

:ufdup: One more and the most important don't you ever disrespect a PAWG GODDESS
 

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I can understand this. It’s the same as, just because I said hello to a man doesn’t mean I want to fukk. That was the point I was trying to get at. If a woman approaches a man, even with a hello, it’s automatically assumed she wants to fukk, that’s why women don’t like to approach. No one that has responded to me has acknowledged that. They keep saying if she’s attractive then she approach them and they won’t feel any way about it. If I see an attractive man, I’m not automatically thinking I want to fukk HIM if he approaches me. He might be a moron and have nothing going on upstairs, and that turns me off.

To be fair...

We kinda have to think like that...

To clarify what I'm saying..

It's going to always start off with a green light, but depending on variables it might be an all green light(post nut clarity types😟) or you might need to switch to yellow than red or a flat out stop to then maneuver again
 

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I knew you'd miss the point. If you want to claim that you can do precisely the same as men, then act like it.
Stop the excuses about men not liking women making the first move, primal instincts and other foolishness. It's nothing more than cowardice. Your previous quote sums up the following saying:

Women want the power of men, the privileges of women and the accountability of children.

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I can understand this. It’s the same as, just because I said hello to a man doesn’t mean I want to fukk. That was the point I was trying to get at. If a woman approaches a man, even with a hello, it’s automatically assumed she wants to fukk, that’s why women don’t like to approach. No one that has responded to me has acknowledged that. They keep saying if she’s attractive then she approach them and they won’t feel any way about it. If I see an attractive man, I’m not automatically thinking I want to fukk HIM if he approaches me. He might be a moron and have nothing going on upstairs, and that turns me off.

This made me laugh. I can assure you, I have no problem with men. I wish what you said was true in that regard. You actually made my day with this one , and if my ego was bruised I would post a pic. But you know what I just realized based on these responses to me: it’s not that you guys don’t like being approached, it’s that you guys categorize it as a woman automatically wants to fukk you if they do. THAT’S what makes women hesitant to approach. Shyt, I just learned something from this. Thanks Coli! Disclaimer: there are indeed some women where that is their intention, but more often than not, she’s not ready to jump in bed with you at that very moment if she approached you.
Of course an initiator of interaction between opposite sides is going to be seen as someone who wants to eventually fukk. Men at large do not think a friendly woman with decent conversation who leaves her number with him is trying to immediately hit the exit together and take him home.

You're saying a bunch of nothing to justify why you get to play a gender role when it benefits you.
 
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