Pastor Marvin Winans refuses to bless the child of single mother

[Chris.B]

If single mothers were shun and frowned upon....the rate would drop overnight

 

[JBoy]

now that is just some petty shyt

 

[intruder]

If single mothers were shun and frowned upon....the rate would drop overnight

Arent they already shunned upon? And what about deadbeat fathers? How do we drop that rate?

 

[Chris.B]

Arent they already shunned upon? And what about deadbeat fathers? How do we drop that rate?

Question- Aren't they already shunned upon?

Answer-No, they are not

And what about deadbeat fathers? How do we drop that rate?

Answer-I have never seen a man pregnant before

 

[intruder]

Question- Aren't they already shunned upon?

Answer-No, they are not

And what about deadbeat fathers? How do we drop that rate?

Answer-I have never seen a man pregnant before

look up the definition of deadbeat dads

 

[Chris.B]

look up the definition of deadbeat dads

let's not pretend these women had no clue what these men were about before they fukked them.

One can argue they were attracted to the deadbeat/badboy persona.

Let's keep it 100

 

[No_bammer_weed]

i hope all these single mother haters were products of 2 parent households. cause if not, your mom is the same hoe, skank, harlot, bytch, irresponsible, disgrace to society that you complain about all the time. and you are the same b*stard, dumb ass, fakkit child that is destined for a life of misery, crime, and failure. but last time i checked, most of ya'll nikkas didn't grow up with a father at home. and some of you had step fathers who put food in your mouth and a roof over your head. and you wouldn't be shyt without dude. i know that some of ya'll are trolling, but some of you REALLY believe the shyt that you are typing everyday.

 

[GoPro]

The church is communal and the pastor is (or supposed to be) just be a messenger, not a judge

And if others of his congregation don't like it, they can too. There are plenty of other churches out there who would welcome her and her tithe.

Church does not belong to man. He would welcome his thieving ass relative though right?

He has free will and can bless anyone he so chooses. And I don't know that nikka nor who he would welcome.

The problem nowadays is that everybody feels everybody should accept everything. Nah.

 

[unit321]

Well, a baby blessing is a "nice" thing to do but there's nothing in the Bible about it, just like the Catholics have baby water baptisms, there's nothing in the Bible about that either.
Really, you want to bless your child, you raise them to become disciples of God. You don't need a blessing service to do that. No pastor or church can prevent God's blessings. Now with that said, the mother also needs to do her best to walk in the ways of the Lord.

 

[jwinfield]

So if I read this correctly, he didn't refuse to bless the child, he refused to do so publicly, in front of the whole congregation. I see no problem with this. She needs to accept the fact that she sinned and be accountable for that, I can't blame the pastor for not wanting to celebrate this sin in front of his congregation.

I, too, salute this pastor for standing on his values.

So 10 years from now when the kid wants to get baptized, he'll do it before the service in the sink in the pastor's bathroom so it won't be in front of the congregation

We're supposed to be cool with him going up there talking about Jesus says love everyone unconditionally, but then treat people differently based on who their mom is?

 

[Chris.B]

Well, a baby blessing is a "nice" thing to do but there's nothing in the Bible about it, just like the Catholics have baby water baptisms, there's nothing in the Bible about that either.
Really, you want to bless your child, you raise them to become disciples of God. You don't need a blessing service to do that. No pastor or church can prevent God's blessings. Now with that said, the mother also needs to do her best to walk in the ways of the Lord.

Baby blessing is another opportunity for preacher to get offering.

 

[intruder]

let's not pretend these women had no clue what these men were about before they fukked them.

One can argue they were attracted to the deadbeat/badboy persona.

Let's keep it 100

ThAts not always the case, doggy. And you know it.

Sure, some mofos will fukk anything that walks. Sure, some of these brawds be in heat and will fukk anything that pays them any attention. But let's not act like one is any better than the other.

Especially from that child's perpective. It didnt ask to be here. I freakin hate it when I hear about kids that have never met their dads because dude heard he got some chick pregnant and split. It enrages me that black men, not just american black men but black men across the world, do this and have the reputation for that shyt. Here in the United states it isnt as bad because for the most part these kids will still be cared for. Either by the mother or the state.
But take a little trip to many poor countries where these kids are left but both mothers and fathers to fend forthemselves in the streets. Here we have million dollar orphanages and a govenrment that can afford to fund them and feed these kids. But take a little stroll to countries like Columbia, Brazil, Costa Rica, Panama, Haiti where these kids are all over the street malnourished, uneducated and exposed to diseases and abuse of all kinds

Maann..... dude dont even get me started on this topic. Honestly bro, just like i said in the other thread I would be the worst dictator if I was in charge of a country. One of my things would be to would make child abandonment punishable by death.

 

[Houston911]

Go to black churches with pictures of white Jesus brehs

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

So 10 years from now when the kid wants to get baptized, he'll do it before the service in the sink in the pastor's bathroom so it won't be in front of the congregation

I suspect he wouldn't do that since that ceremony has absolutely nothing to do with his mom or guardian. A Baptist christening typically involves the parents and God Parents up there as a part of the ceremony getting blessed as well, a baptismal does not....it's just the people getting baptized.

We're supposed to be cool with him going up there talking about Jesus says love everyone unconditionally, but then treat people differently based on who their mom is?

Where did he say he doesn't love the child or the moms?

Your actions do shape how you're treated, tho. No way around that.

 

[Steve Piffler]

[quote="Chris.B, post: 5821586, member: 4382"]let's not pretend these women had no clue what these men were about before they fukked them.

One can argue they were attracted to the deadbeat/badboy persona.

Let's keep it 100[/quote]

that could go both ways breh. how many dudes (on this site especially) brag about fukking ratchet hoes or married cheating ass women or bytches with 4 kids. these hoes aint shyt either and dudes choose to ignore the obvious because her ass is status. these bytches are gonna make HORRIBLE mothers and dudes choose to put their dikk in them anyway. you might wear a condom and might not intend to get them pregnant, but accidents happen. and because these women are not wifey material, nikkas toss them in a nice fluffy bush for the next dude to deal with. then complain about them and their "b*stard children". the whole shyt is an unhealthy dynamic, but let's not act like it's just women that are at fault here. dudes become TRACKSTARS when it comes to raising a kid that they weren't ready for, especially if they were born to a woman that they are not interested in having a committed relationship with. lets be reality my nikkaz...