‘Over 30, dating in LA is awful’

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I really do believe that more black women have fallen into the belief that black men aint shyt than I realized. They deep down in their souls believe that they have the power to change and in their mind IMPROVE the household by replacing the black man with zaddy while not realizing that the problem is with her. Then when zaddy aint wifing her up either, they feel some type of way. Truth be told, I don't have no sympathy whatsoever to black women who turned their backs on black men. If zaddy enslaves them to be tied up and called n-words until their blue in the face and cold in the toes, it wouldn't bother me in the slightest. That's the consequences for being a sellout.

I've never seen THIS many beautiful women THIS single ever before in my 37 years on this earth. Let alone openly complaining about it. I don't know how or what to pinpoint this to, but I do get the feeling there is a paradigm shift going on in the dating game that's brand new to me.

Whatever the case, I took myself out the game a couple years ago and recently started to dip my toes back in. What I've learned so far is that you have to be unapologetically ruthless about cutting women off who will waste your type and spare them no sympathy when they ask for an explanation as to why.

Similar to what @TradePascalSiakam said eariler, I am pretty apathetic towards a woman's sob story because I already know that it's usually some one-sided BS. :unimpressed:

I've never thought this way before, but if any man who wants to entertain seriously dating a single mother, I highly advise to reach out to the baby daddy if you can and get his side of the story. If he a real one he'll give you the 100 on what the deal is and you can proceed from there. If she doesn't have any kids, men need to have a reference check like on a job applications and see if she's a good candidate for hire. Contact her past two or three boyfriends and see what they come back and say.

Because you can't trust what a woman says as they are perfect angels that have never done anything wrong in their life :beli:
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Y’all brehs better diversify and stop paying these 304s any mind
:mjpls:


when it comes to the idea of dese 304's.
what should we recognize as red flags.
what do you mean by 304's.
do you mean the area code is beaugoise and detached or sumfin else.


drop game suh.







art barr




not even close



yup yousa goofie
complete black disconnect.

plus you not refer'n me to shyt about opeth suh...
when opeth sucks to tool.

period.

death is incoherent gwar fake rebel yell wannabe shyt that only system of a down does right as a rock band white boi bite.
where death sucks too.

all that opeth shyt is way after sabbath black sabbath as a lone record.
in the little bit of gwar fake bullshyt too. that it is too incoherent and vague rogue paganism gon awry that no black dude should be listening to besides the first forgettable spin to the trash receptiple or the dana owens.


when it comes to sabbath...


shyt i feel mj listened to sabbath black sabbath as an influence for beat it.
just like mj referred queen to release another one bite's the dust later on.
that is how more essential any sabbath is to this genre.
 
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art with that soft shyt lol

my personal fave dm band



opeth coo too tho



stop.

they commercial as all fukk and astra and tool is all you need as far as rock moving forward in its misappropriation.


all that death metal shyt some bullshyt to astra first two records.
plus tool kills all shyt that came after them outside of astra.


after tool and astra.
there is no real need for a black man to be listening to rock.

if you suicidal.

go listen to big long now by nirvana.

follow it up with some pearl jam black.

you should be gucci in time to heal and recover.


all that other loud gwar bullshyt outside of sod. is a no go.
most of that rock shyt in metal is pagan shyt through and through.
if i need the universe explained in numbers on some math shyt i can go grab lateralus.

yet if i need that hard shyt. to explain the universe in rock.

this is it.


one record..you good.





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stop.

they commercial as all fukk and astra and tool is all you need as far as rock moving forward in its misappropriation.


all that death metal shyt some bullshyt to astra first two records.
plus tool kills all shyt that came after them outside of astra.


after tool and astra.
there is no real need for a black man to be listening to rock.

if you suicidal.

go listen to big long now by nirvana.

follow it up with some pearl jam black.

you should be gucci in time to heal and recover.


all that other loud gwar bullshyt outside of sod. is a no go.
most of that rock shyt in metal is pagan shyt through and through.
if i need the universe explained in numbers on some math shyt i can go grab lateralus.

yet if i need that hard shyt. to explain the universe in rock.

this is it.


one record..you good.





art barr



Lol u cAll a actual DM band commercial and then posting pearl jam and sabbath songs. You got it chief:russ:
 

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Why is this thread so long? What about this is so fascinating? Is it because she is an attractive 30+ woman who is complaining about finding a man? Is it because she most likely dates white men? Or is it because of the comments she made about heterosexual bm? Or all of the above. I do have a friend who lives in LA. She’s very light skinned though, and she’s has a boyfriend, he’s Latino. She’s 32. I’m wondering if this girl is seeking a WM that is of the same caliber of the WM her white friends are marrying. If so, that could be the challenge—in a place like LA, I’d bet that the most desirable high paid white guys are mostly settling down with the tan slender big boob white women. If she’s not a top model like a Jasmine Tookes, it’s going to be a little harder to have that access to that type of wm, I’d imagine.

I have heard that LA isn’t the best place for serious relationships if your a darker or ambiguous looking bw. But I imagine it’s even harder when it comes to trying to get the type of wm she wants (that her friends are marrying) to settle down with her. She’d probably be better off living in the east coast/mid Atlantic region to get the type of WM she’s looking for.

But I can understand why she doesn’t want to move just for that-especially if she likes it out there. I’m sure she’ll eventually find some white guy to settle down with. She technically still has the rest of her thirties to have a kid.


in like only the last hunid years one black person in quincy jones in all his esteem.
married a top flight white counter part in ms lipton.
how does someone think they are gonna fly as a complete nobody.
all the way to la and replicate that sort of success.
which i guess is all a get rich starter marriage divorce bag work.
to the female and subsequent likeminded females.
who view themselves as being portrayed in the original link of the discussion.


Lol u cAll a actual DM band commercial and then posting pearl jam and sabbath songs. You got it chief:russ:


death metal is a pagan lie.

all that rock shyt is a lumped up misappropriated lie.
it is snob audiophile based genre at best and even in that.
it is always flawed because it is not and will never be the originator.


if you black buying into the genre labeled lie all the way.
of white people made rock.
yousa gon in the head fool.
when black people made soul and blues.
plus rocknroll...which was misappropriated by them to be just rock.

you better take their little barely four gigs of all time good music on breh.


i am black.

also...my actual selections in sabbath lead to crate diggin.
your records do not lead to any culture based avenue used in line with diggin in a crate whatsoever.

i give their little record props in a pop audiophile sect.

plus their little misappropriated props in the whole disconnected tether. to re-tether the black lost person in the venue.
yet i am always gonna call rock for what it is and the shyt is clearly audiophile misappropriated material.
which has no real draw any longer, as it has reached its misappropriated time on the rainbow to asgard they wanna pagan fly to.

the shyt dead.


if you out here listening to that gwar faceass shyt as your main thing.
like your general genre.

plus you black.

you are lost.

if you so poppin listening to that shyt.
then why your reviews have not made you a legend like me.


it is because you reviewing a cultureless misappropriated work.
that should have never been in the first place.
if you black basing yo life wholely and soully on white misappropriated commercialized rock music. you lauced't......

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I never see Black women in NY struggling to find a man :sas2: what's going on in Cali for this to even be an issue...

This is like maybe the 4th or 5th time a woman from Calif. crying cause she can't find a man :dwillhuh:
She's not struggling to find a man breh
She's just not pulling the men she wants
 

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im 40ish and my girl is 30ish .we have a girlfriend thats 22 in college. these women want to get married and have kids a week after you meet them and most men aint with that. theres plenty women in so many different social circles. these black women want the 6 figure, house owner with a foreign. half the time they have kids , the others racing the clock and a lot of the time just bring a big headache to the table. these women deserve the best but they are kidding themselves with the expectations they project on others. this can be applied to all women but dynamics differ
 

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Bingo.

honestly a lot of brehs here do the same thing. Speaking on BW/BM knowing they got a Becky/Brad at home… which is fine… but it’s some convos they need to not be in. And just from some of her pics, I feel like her social circle is very white and her dating gripes are mostly about WM. She is in Cali after all.
It's a combination of what CaramelBarbie described. But what you stated is exactly it.

Beautiful DSBW crying about not being married and finding a (white) man and being jealous of her white circle getting rings.
But the key ingredient to making it explode was seeing that even though she seems to date WM, she has a bunch of tweets and vids shytting on BM.
All the makings of a multi page thread.
 

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I haven't read the whole thread but I couldn't care less for these whining chicks.

I'm pretty sure she's passed on more (black) men than she could ever count for the most bullshyt reasons and plays games. No doubt there's something about her personality dudes can't stand neither.
 
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