‘Over 30, dating in LA is awful’

[Krisrunner2049]

Stop. It's about the chicks who hoe themselves out and go for a 10 hour real estate course/nursing cert. It's the well known fall back plan for thots with limited options.

Y’all never gonna find your perfect dime Claire Huxtable 26 year old virgin with her own guap, whip, and house. Settle for the Walmart manager with fupa and a 401k

 

[LV Koopa]

Y’all never gonna find your perfect dime Claire Huxtable 26 year old virgin with her own guap, whip, and house. Settle for the Walmart manager with fupa and a 401k

I'm not looking for one. I'm enjoying the bachelor lifestyle. Now put ketchup in the bag and stick your head back in that drive through window loser

 

[Deafheaven]

not even close

art with that soft shyt lol

my personal fave dm band



opeth coo too tho

 

[Firefly]

Most of the guys she's looking for probably moved to Vegas or ATL already

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Why is this thread so long? What about this is so fascinating? Is it because she is an attractive 30+ woman who is complaining about finding a man? Is it because she most likely dates white men? Or is it because of the comments she made about heterosexual bm? Or all of the above. I do have a friend who lives in LA. She’s very light skinned though, and she’s has a boyfriend, he’s Latino. She’s 32. I’m wondering if this girl is seeking a WM that is of the same caliber of the WM her white friends are marrying. If so, that could be the challenge—in a place like LA, I’d bet that the most desirable high paid white guys are mostly settling down with the tan slender big boob white women. If she’s not a top model like a Jasmine Tookes, it’s going to be a little harder to have that access to that type of wm, I’d imagine.

I have heard that LA isn’t the best place for serious relationships if your a darker or ambiguous looking bw. But I imagine it’s even harder when it comes to trying to get the type of wm she wants (that her friends are marrying) to settle down with her. She’d probably be better off living in the east coast/mid Atlantic region to get the type of WM she’s looking for.

But I can understand why she doesn’t want to move just for that-especially if she likes it out there. I’m sure she’ll eventually find some white guy to settle down with. She technically still has the rest of her thirties to have a kid.

 

[Krisrunner2049]

I'm not looking for one. I'm enjoying the bachelor lifestyle. Now put ketchup in the bag and stick your head back in that drive through window loser

Got me confused with some other nikka. Maybe the one you fuxking since your fruit boot ass don’t like women anywizzay

 

[93 til]

Keep it a buck, she needs to self-evaluate. Physically, I find it hard to believe she can't find a man. Emotionally, I can see why she can't keep one. If she's on social media bashing brehs all day then I don't see how a dude wants to deal with that constant negative energy.

I don't see a black man wanting to deal with her because she seems like the type to surround herself with anything negative and project it onto other people. Then pass the blame when the relationship doesn't work. How is she gonna be able to locate a good black man if she is blinded with negative, anti-black man rhetoric?

On the flipside, I don't even see a white man taking her seriously either because she spends too much of her time and energy trying to drag black men. If she wants to swirl because she's just genuinely attracted is one thing, but to swirl as a form of get back attracts the wrong kind of energy. She wouldn't even be able to fully enjoy a relationship with Brad, Juan, Chen, Habib, etc. because she's so focused on what black men are doing or not doing.

In football, Bill Parcels used to say "you are what you're record says you are". In other words, let the outcome speak for themselves. He also said "Losers assemble in small groups and complain...winners assemble as a team and find ways to win". Not calling her a loser, but if her goal is to find a mate and have a healthy, committed, married relationship then she needs to adjust her approach because what she's been doing isn't working. I don't get people who say they want one thing, but their actions, environment, social media, etc. says otherwise. All these examples out here she should be taking notes from those who are successful in their relationship and apply what works into her approach rather than listen to those who only reinforce the negativity. Can't grow that way. Nobody can.

Can't do better if you don't know better.

 

[Wiseborn]

All of Cali is expensive as hell. I was in Silicon Valley recently and the prices on the homes didn't even have a sticker price, it just said LOL!

It's not a place where Blacks be winning unless you are an entertainer at a higher level.

What I hate about shows like Insecure is they made an average Black chick who can be cute when she ups herself pull nikkas like Lawrence, Nathan, and Daniel when in reality she would be fukking nikkas like Omar Gooding, Chris Tucker, and David Allen Grier in real life. Not saying those are ugly nikkas but that's her ballpark range unless it's an one night stand.

Women who love this show think there range is much higher, like they deserve a rich Nathan or they too good for a Lawrence when bytch, that's your level. A handsome tall IT nikka. It is what it is. Once you know your level, getting a man is easy. Her issue is, she don't know her level and as time goes by, her level just continues to drop as her value is steeply declining. Women like to think they are a diamond or Berkin when in reality, they just a Ford. It starts off good but at some point, you just gonna be leased and when you get a buyer, its gonna be smokey from the block or a balding white guy named Richard from Reading, California or some bullshyt like that with a negro fetish and he teach at the local middle school

Issa Rae is the perfect example of a "Ford" chick with a Caddilac glow up. Look at the Awkward Black Girl Issa Rae she was a couple pounds heavier and had a dude's haircut. She looked and even dressed like a stud. She cleaned herself up and ran and married her looksmatch instead of dating around and having to accept that balding white guy from Reading.


I watched an episdode of Whoreable Decisions and the co host Weezy wondered how her investment banker sidepiece would look at her because she got seeded up by a thug. The othe chick Mandi said not to worry because He gone take the p*ssy. That's generally true but the other side is when the wall comes that extra average nikka who normally couldn't even sniff the p*ssy well....She gone take the dikk.

 

[Wiseborn]

Keep it a buck, she needs to self-evaluate. Physically, I find it hard to believe she can't find a man. Emotionally, I can see why she can't keep one. If she's on social media bashing brehs all day then I don't see how a dude wants to deal with that constant negative energy.

I don't see a black man wanting to deal with her because she seems like the type to surround herself with anything negative and project it onto other people. Then pass the blame when the relationship doesn't work. How is she gonna be able to locate a good black man if she is blinded with negative, anti-black man rhetoric?

On the flipside, I don't even see a white man taking her seriously either because she spends too much of her time and energy trying to drag black men. If she wants to swirl because she's just genuinely attracted is one thing, but to swirl as a form of get back attracts the wrong kind of energy. She wouldn't even be able to fully enjoy a relationship with Brad, Juan, Chen, Habib, etc. because she's so focused on what black men are doing or not doing.

In football, Bill Parcels used to say "you are what you're record says you are". In other words, let the outcome speak for themselves. He also said "Losers assemble in small groups and complain...winners assemble as a team and find ways to win". Not calling her a loser, but if her goal is to find a mate and have a healthy, committed, married relationship then she needs to adjust her approach because what she's been doing isn't working. I don't get people who say they want one thing, but their actions, environment, social media, etc. says otherwise. All these examples out here she should be taking notes from those who are successful in their relationship and apply what works into her approach rather than listen to those who only reinforce the negativity. Can't grow that way. Nobody can.

Can't do better if you don't know better.

This is the biggest problem with swirlers and the main reason "brad" doesn't take them seriously. If they simply wenched in peace they'd be wifed if they looked good enough but bashing nikkas on line all the damn time. No one would want that.

 

[You Win Perfect]

Its cringy watching a grown adult crying over anything outside of a death of a family member, maybe thats just me

Edit:

This woman can definently get a good man, she needs to readjust who she wants though

every woman can get a "good man". they all have different definitions of what's good and after every man that they let run through them that definition changes.
thats why i don't engage in relationship babble with women.

 

[RareHunter]

Y’all never gonna find your perfect dime Claire Huxtable 26 year old virgin with her own guap, whip, and house. Settle for the Walmart manager with fupa and a 401k

I man doesn’t need a CEO wife. That’s not the purpose of marriage. This society is finished lol.

 

[Wiseborn]

Why is this thread so long? What about this is so fascinating? Is it because she is an attractive 30+ woman who is complaining about finding a man? Is it because she most likely dates white men? Or is it because of the comments she made about heterosexual bm? Or all of the above. I do have a friend who lives in LA. She’s very light skinned though, and she’s has a boyfriend, he’s Latino. She’s 32. I’m wondering if this girl is seeking a WM that is of the same caliber of the WM her white friends are marrying. If so, that could be the challenge—in a place like LA, I’d bet that the most desirable high paid white guys are mostly settling down with the tan slender big boob white women. If she’s not a top model like a Jasmine Tookes, it’s going to be a little harder to have that access to that type of wm, I’d imagine.

I have heard that LA isn’t the best place for serious relationships if your a darker or ambiguous looking bw. But I imagine it’s even harder when it comes to trying to get the type of wm she wants (that her friends are marrying) to settle down with her. She’d probably be better off living in the east coast/mid Atlantic region to get the type of WM she’s looking for.

But I can understand why she doesn’t want to move just for that-especially if she likes it out there. I’m sure she’ll eventually find some white guy to settle down with. She technically still has the rest of her thirties to have a kid.

It's mainly the bolded, Frankly I didn't even know she c00ning until then.

Again most dudes at the beginning wondered Why is she still single? until the shea butta babble reared it's ugly head.

 

[RareHunter]

Why is this thread so long? What about this is so fascinating? Is it because she is an attractive 30+ woman who is complaining about finding a man? Is it because she most likely dates white men? Or is it because of the comments she made about heterosexual bm? Or all of the above. I do have a friend who lives in LA. She’s very light skinned though, and she’s has a boyfriend, he’s Latino. She’s 32. I’m wondering if this girl is seeking a WM that is of the same caliber of the WM her white friends are marrying. If so, that could be the challenge—in a place like LA, I’d bet that the most desirable high paid white guys are mostly settling down with the tan slender big boob white women. If she’s not a top model like a Jasmine Tookes, it’s going to be a little harder to have that access to that type of wm, I’d imagine.

I have heard that LA isn’t the best place for serious relationships if your a darker or ambiguous looking bw. But I imagine it’s even harder when it comes to trying to get the type of wm she wants (that her friends are marrying) to settle down with her. She’d probably be better off living in the east coast/mid Atlantic region to get the type of WM she’s looking for.

But I can understand why she doesn’t want to move just for that-especially if she likes it out there. I’m sure she’ll eventually find some white guy to settle down with. She technically still has the rest of her thirties to have a kid.

How we live in a world where people are 32-40 with girlfriends and boyfriends? It’s remarkable what western indoctrination has done to the people. Y’all need to get right and repent and turn from this wicked life tbh.

 

[zerorequiem]

It's not the men it's her choices. Trying to blame us when you're probably looking for the same type of guy everyone else is. I don't really subscribe to the high value talk, but y'all can't go for the same men all the time.

Fine women out here acting like they don't have options.

 

[Mindfield333]

Why is this thread so long? What about this is so fascinating? Is it because she is an attractive 30+ woman who is complaining about finding a man? Is it because she most likely dates white men? Or is it because of the comments she made about heterosexual bm? Or all of the above. I do have a friend who lives in LA. She’s very light skinned though, and she’s has a boyfriend, he’s Latino. She’s 32. I’m wondering if this girl is seeking a WM that is of the same caliber of the WM her white friends are marrying. If so, that could be the challenge—in a place like LA, I’d bet that the most desirable high paid white guys are mostly settling down with the tan slender big boob white women. If she’s not a top model like a Jasmine Tookes, it’s going to be a little harder to have that access to that type of wm, I’d imagine.

I have heard that LA isn’t the best place for serious relationships if your a darker or ambiguous looking bw. But I imagine it’s even harder when it comes to trying to get the type of wm she wants (that her friends are marrying) to settle down with her. She’d probably be better off living in the east coast/mid Atlantic region to get the type of WM she’s looking for.

But I can understand why she doesn’t want to move just for that-especially if she likes it out there. I’m sure she’ll eventually find some white guy to settle down with. She technically still has the rest of her thirties to have a kid.

Bingo.

honestly a lot of brehs here do the same thing. Speaking on BW/BM knowing they got a Becky/Brad at home… which is fine… but it’s some convos they need to not be in. And just from some of her pics, I feel like her social circle is very white and her dating gripes are mostly about WM. She is in Cali after all.