Outgrowing the Friendship

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My oldest friend and my cousin
got hooked on buttons (heroin)
back in the day and they still
fukk around so i never give them
enough rope to let them destroy
the love and friendships.
The rest of my crew are bosses
that travel,own shyt and throw
lavish parties.
My Cousin and day one homie
will say shyt like ( i cant kick it with The Great Boski??)
( hook me up with one of them benz whippin hoes )
It Hurts to see them die inside when i tell them.
( i'm responsible for your actions around my crew
and youre not worth that )
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That’s where I’m at with cuz

He likes to use me because I guess I add another level he might have on his own. But the feeling is most definitely not mutual with me. I can bring him around certain social circles, or certain groups of friends.

The rest of us are doing our thing making decent money looking to make more and for these entire seven months of the new year, he has just been hitting me with a barrage of L’s he’s personally taking. And I’m like my Niigga, you have got to look in the mirror and take some accountability for how your life is turning out.
 
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That’s where I’m at with cuz

He likes to use me because I guess I add another level he might have on his own. But the feeling is most definitely not mutual with me. I can bring him around certain social circles, or certain groups of friends.

The rest of us are doing our thing making decent money looking to make more and for these entire seven months of the new year, he has just been hitting me with a barrage of L’s he’s personally taking. And I’m like my Niigga, you have got to look in the mirror and take some accountability for how your life is turning out.

Keep him away from the go getter
circle man.
leave him in the drink,game watching
and talking shyt.
He's a degenerate bum.
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eh. i don't cut friends off unless they're doing me dirty personally and don't take responsibility. everybody got their own journey. i been fukked up before, thankful people were patient with me. that's your man's from the playground tho??

fair weather friend babble
yeah.. sound a little fairweather to me as well. and i hate agreeing with this bird. :lolbron:
 

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It’s wild cuz whenever the homie hits me these days it’s more of the :what::martin::snoop: vibes.


Dude been crashing out all year…

Separated from his wife but still fuucking her.

But cries that she only uses him for diick, and food.

Recently had an investigation at work opened up because he smashed a foster mom ( a white lady )
And he works for the county…

White lady’s husband pulled up to his house with their kids and confronted him about it which set off the whole shiit…

Gets cleared form that shoot only to tell me last Thursday we drove another coworker home and they fuucked around a little bit.

Now this Saturday he’s telling me I’m rolling with him I guess to be on some wingman shyt for this other chick he knows, and this chicks got an only fans…:lolbron:


My dude is on some beyond thirsty shiit and any advice I offer him he’s turned it down. It’s to the point where I don’t wanna hear anything from dude cuz he’s just always negative and is always on some woe is me type shiit.


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t’s crazy he’s really trying to see this OF girl. Cuz literally all you gotta do is subscribe and see her bust it open. The truth of the matter is dude is still living like an early 20 year old and he’s pushing 40. It’s draining breh’s…

I think I’ve known dude 20 years but I’m down to kill all that because of you’re not improving yourself and situation or putting me on to new shyt. What’s the point…
That’s your out
Tell him that you giving him advice and he turns it down and does bullshyt and then got the nerve to cry like a bytch when he got himself in that situation.
Tell him that he needs to shut the fukk up about his problems especially when you gave him advice and he refused it leading to his bullshyt and that you not finna want to hear his shyt :manny:
He can always go cry about his shyt to someone else but you not with the bullshyt he on
 

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Let that man crash out. Then be a good friend tell him… “I tried to warn your dumb ass.”

:manny:
This is really all you can do OP. Stop going along with his hijinks and state how you really feel. He can take it or leave it but in your heart you will habe your integrity and feel like a real one
 

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Is he still using coke with all the other stuff he got going on? :picard:

Man I wouldn’t doubt it. But can’t say for sure…:yeshrug:

He stays in San Diego and I’m in Santa Monica. His wife is the one that got him on to that shiit…

And her fat ass had several mini strokes at the beginning of last year…
 

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Honestly, unless you're leaving things out none of this sounds too bad or like it really impacts your life in anyway and you sound like someone who just has a hard time saying no, handling disagreements and you may be too emotionally invested in his life and aren't really built for that kick it with someone who's on a downswing life.

Just stick with hanging out with people who are only on the upswing and only want to hang out with you when you're on a upswing.

This is only my anonymous observation on a public message board with next to no background beyond what's provided. It's probably a lot of details I'm missing.
 
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