Our Women...........

[Taadow]

what type of name is Taadow? I bet you're some skinny Somali totally detachsd from interpersonal relationships between opposite genders who come from the same race.

Nope - quite the opposite. I greatly respect black women, some I admire.
I (individually) treat them the way I would like them to treat me...and this is why I don't
refer to them in a sense that would denote that I own them.

Go fyck yourself.

No sir - i'm not gonna do that.

They are our other half.

I disagree, but hey you feel how you feel.

 

[HollowPoints2]

Nope - quite the opposite. I greatly respect black women, some I admire.
I (individually) treat them the way I would like them to treat me...and this is why I don't
refer to them in a sense that would denote that I own them.



No sir - i'm not gonna do that.



I disagree, but hey you feel how you feel.

Were you hurt by a black woman?

Did one disappoint you?

If not, then why are you fighting the notion that they are our other half?

In none politically correct terms, becauae of feminisim,the phrase "our women" is used to illustrate the partnership between two individuals of the opposite genders that SHARE the same race. When I use the phrase "our wimen", I don't literally mean they are our property.What I mean is that at the end of the day, they are our women,and it's our job to protect them mentally and physically whether you like it or not.

Again, now go fyck yourself.

 

[Taadow]

Were you hurt by a black woman?

Did one disappoint you?

If not then why are you fighting the notion that they are our other half?

Because that implies that without them we aren't whole.
I don't agree with that.
On the flip side, i'm sure many of them would say they don't need us to be whole either.

In none politically correct terms, becauae of feminisim,the phrase "our women" is used to illustrate the partnership between two individuals of the opposite genders that SHARE the same race. When I use the phrase "our wimen", I don't literally mean they are our property.What I mean is that,at the end of the day, they are our women,and it's our job to protect them mentally and physically whether you like it or not.

But it's not your "job" to protect them mentally and physically. If you choose to do it, that's great.

I used to feel like you do. My (Black) mother is who told me to get off that.

I was concerned about doing for my sisters, and my mother could see it was stressing me out.
I told her "but I have to look out for them, they're my family..."
Mama said "Boy - YOU are your family. What good would it do to work yourself to death
looking out for grown people? It's nice for you to want to be there for them, but ultimately they
have to carry their own load."

She was right.

 

[Killer Instinct]

OP as hell his thread is going belly up and starting to lash out.
Ol' Kevin McAllister ass nikka.

 

[LadySimone]

It's not that.

Unchallenging the mentality a good portion of black men have against black women will leave us with the status quo.Moreover, I want the financially established black men to understand why some black women they approach may have their guard up.

Not challenging this element or spokingout against it is counterproductive, or should we just ignore it and let things become worse?

I don't think black men will ever police each other. Many so called good "black men" like the idea of swimming in a pool full of ray rays and pookies because it inflates their value. They become arrogant and cocky.

But let them step out the hood and they become church mice.

you shouldn't risk your life for strangers in most cases. If it's a serious matter call the cops.

 

[HollowPoints2]

Because that implies that without them we aren't whole.
I don't agree with that.
On the flip side, i'm sure many of them would say they don't need us to be whole either.



But it's not your "job" to protect them mentally and physically. If you choose to do it, that's great.

I used to feel like you do. My (Black) mother is who told me to get off that.

I was concerned about doing for my sisters, and my mother could see it was stressing me out.
I told her "but I have to look out for them, they're my family..."
Mama said "Boy - YOU are your family. What good would it do to work yourself to death
looking out for grown people? It's nice for you to want to be there for them, but ultimately they
have to carry their own load."

She was right.

Them being our other half isn't meant to devalue the position of the man.Nor does it mean to put yourself on the line for all black people.It ONLY implies two things.

1.Without black wonen , we can't produce children in our own IMAGE.

2.Since they are our other half, there shouldn't be a problem connecting with them instead corrupting them...IE prostitution., drugs, fast life...ect.

When I say protect our women, I'm referring to setting standards or boundries on how we present our women to the world through the media we do control.

BTW, I have the same problems with one of my sisters, so I KNOW how and WHEN to let go.

I don't think black men will ever police each other. Many so called good "black men" like the idea of swimming in a pool full of ray rays and pookies because it inflates their value. They become arrogant and cocky.

But let them step out the good and they become church mice.

you shouldn't risk your life for strangers in most cases. If it's a serious matter call the cops.

Although you're right, I'm here to push against that mentally.

It has to start somwhere.

Instead of FOLLOWING the crowed, I do the right thing which is the opposite.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Janelle Monáe - Ghetto Woman (Lyrics):

 

[Yup]

I don't think black men will ever police each other. Many so called good "black men" like the idea of swimming in a pool full of ray rays and pookies because it inflates their value. They become arrogant and cocky.

But let them step out the good and they become church mice.

you shouldn't risk your life for strangers in most cases. If it's a serious matter call the cops.

This...scarcity inflates value. That's why i advocate bw to date interracially and not exclusively bm. Your eyes are opened to what is commonplace in other communities.
The arrogance is doubled with the presumption that they can choose to be with a bw or date other races with ease and bw can't and are forced to work with limited options.

@op bw need to work on themselves to make them better candidates for relationships. I don't believe bm are interested in doing what you are asking. So get with a likeminded bw or date out.

 

[Kitsch]

This...scarcity inflates value. That's why i advocate bw to date interracially and not exclusively bm. Your eyes are opened to what is commonplace in other communities.
The arrogance is doubled with the presumption that they can choose to be with a bw or date other races with ease and bw can't and are forced to work with limited options.

@op bw need to work on themselves to make them better candidates for relationships. I don't believe bm are interested in doing what you are asking. So get with a likeminded bw or date out.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

They're not "our" women, yo.
We don't own them.
They can do whatever they wanna do.

The sooner you realize that, the better off you'll be...

underrated advice.

 

[Yup]

They're not "our" women, yo.
We don't own them.
They can do whatever they wanna do.

The sooner you realize that, the better off you'll be...

I think more black men have this mindset than bw do. That's what hurts so many bw in the long run. Thinking that bm belong them and owe them loyalty.

I agree with your post and that is what i try to advocate to my sistas....bm arent your counterparts that you need watch for them. Watch for your damn self.

 

[PeridotPuss]

So I'm on a HIGH HORSE because I can pick up on the behavior patterns of a mentally damaged individual? No, that's just having enough social experience to be able to understand social pathologies, fukk boy.

If you can't identify a woman who's been damaged mentally from a previous relationship, then you are in a world of trouble.Or, maybe you're just being a dumb ass hole who's trying to go counter to my argument to score p*ssy points. Either way, you're a bytch ass niqqa who will let a dumb hoe play him because you aren't willing to use common sense or logic when a MENTALLY damaged hoe is in front of you.

In closing, you obviously didn't read the OP because my main point is that the damage to our women was caused by a certain element within the black community; therefore, in no way am I trying to attack women.None the less, you have your own agenda( to score p*ssy points) so go for it.

as a woman I gave you my point of view. Are you good?

 

[Ghanaian Armor]

Go outside DA RACE

FIXED

 

[Taadow]

Them being our other half isn't meant to devalue the position of the man.Nor does it mean to put yourself on the line for all black people.It ONLY implies two things.

1.Without black wonen , we can't produce children in our own IMAGE.

And? Do we really need to be having more children?
Even still, that would make a (one) Black woman your other half when y'all have a child.
...and she would still be able to do what she wants without you.

The only woman I would ever refer to as "my other half" would be my wife, if I ever married.

2.Since they are our other half, there shouldn't be a problem connecting with them instead corrupting them...IE prostitution., drugs, fast life...ect.

Why are those two positioned as polar opposites?
I mean, you can't "corrupt" anyone without "connecting with them"....

When I say protect our women, I'm referring to setting standards or boundries on how we present our women to the world through the media we do control.

That's sweet and everything, but what's to stop Black women from saying "fucc your standards, i'll do what I want"?

Case in point: what if you got bold enough to say something to the pimp at the fast food spot,
and ol' gurl told you "shut the fucc up, and mind ya business"?

BTW, I have the same problems with one of my sisters, so I KNOW how and WHEN to let go.

You'll have to forgive me if I don't completely believe you, because all I did was disagree with one of
your thoughts and I became a nicca who was told to go fvck himself twice. But whatever.

 

[Will Ross]

I don't think black men will ever police each other. Many so called good "black men" like the idea of swimming in a pool full of ray rays and pookies because it inflates their value. They become arrogant and cocky.

But let them step out the good and they become church mice.

you shouldn't risk your life for strangers in most cases. If it's a serious matter call the cops.

It's not a mans job to police other men.