Our Women...........

[Taharqa]

I just want a woman that's dark as coal..


I'm going find her, fam


we all gon eat

 

[Lana del Rey]

I'm sorry but do yall ever get tired of making these black women vs black men threads. That's how they all end up anyways. Like seriously...

 

[HollowPoints2]

I'm sorry but do yall ever get tired of making these black women vs black men threads. That's how they all end up anyways. Like seriously...

It's not that.

Unchallenging the mentality a good portion of black men have against black women will leave us with the status quo.Moreover, I want the financially established black men to understand why some black women they approach may have their guard up.

Not challenging this element or spokingout against it is counterproductive, or should we just ignore it and let things become worse?

 

[PeridotPuss]

Let's talk about it then

Have been beat down mentally by no good black men which explains why a good portion of even middle class black women aren't marriage material as adults.

The concept of "marriage material" is a fallacy in my opinion. No one person is more worthy of a lifetime commitment than another. Folks issue lies with decision making and timing, but ultimately there is simply an element of luck. Once the marriages are in place then people either stick with it or dont, but there is no such thing as "marriage material" there is a lid for every pot

Indeed, it was their personal CHOICE to get involved with a loser who was mentally abusive; thus, she can't blame anyone.

Agreed.

However, where does that leave financially successful black men such as myself? Do I start a crusade against loser black men, who are mentally destroying our women,or do I ignore the entire situation and let the mental damage continue to take place?

this part tho - idk breh but money doesn't exclude you ftom other folks emotional damage, that shyt is a part of love, accepting that bullshyt honestly and being a better person for them and all that

Don't crusade against loser just be better than them and the part here that's actually deep is this emotional/mental damage shyt that shyt is real like i know a lot of single mothers and hoes and college girls that got turned out and even virgin bytches that could use some therapy real talk. ... a lot of nikkas out here are just cold blooded

I just came back from one of my routine trips from Cali.After a long day of taking care of business, I stopped by the local fast food joint to pick up something to eat before I went home. As I was walking out of the establishment, I observed a pimp verbally abusing a female that was in the parking lot. Instead of intervening, I decided to mind my business and continue to go on to my resident but it was clear that this guy was going to beat this chicks ass once he got her in a secluded area.

As black men,we need to do better in life instead of resorting to lifestyles such as being pimps or drug dealers.I often wonder if it's the job of upstanding law abiding Blackmen to speak out against this deviant subculture within the black community, or should we just mind your own business, and let the decay spread.

All this shyt sound racist-y and judgmental and I'm not with that so I'm not entertaining it

 

[bcrusaderw]

Are you male or female?

Laugh in my face?
I think they will reevaluate their choices in men after such a conversation.

Woman.

 

[Lana del Rey]

It's not that.

Unchallenging the mentality a good portion of black men have against black women will leave us with the status quo.Moreover, I want the financially established black men to understand why some black women they approach may have their guard up.

So,should this element be spoken out against, or should we just ignore it and let things become worse?

Yeah I understand what you mean. But it's eventually going to be turned into a black women vs black men thread. They always do lol

 

[Timeis$]

It's not that.

Unchallenging the mentality a good portion of black men have against black women will leave us with the status quo.Moreover, I want the financially established black men to understand why some black women they approach may have their guard up.

So,should this element be spoken out against, or should we just ignore it and let things become worse?

These discussions don't really do anything.

People date who they like. And the preconceived notions opinions people have often don't change.

 

[HollowPoints2]

Let's talk about it then



The concept of "marriage material" is a fallacy in my opinion. No one person is more worthy of a lifetime commitment than another. Folks issue lies with decision making and timing, but ultimately there is simply an element of luck. Once the marriages are in place then people either stick with it or dont, but there is no such thing as "marriage material" there is a lid for every pot



Agreed.



this part tho - idk breh but money doesn't exclude you ftom other folks emotional damage, that shyt is a part of love, accepting that bullshyt honestly and being a better person for them and all that

Don't crusade against loser just be better than them and the part here that's actually deep is this emotional/mental damage shyt that shyt is real like i know a lot of single mothers and hoes and college girls that got turned out and even virgin bytches that could use some therapy real talk. ... a lot of nikkas out here are just cold blooded



All this shyt sound racist-y and judgmental and I'm not with that so I'm not entertaining it

Sorry, but a woman who is mentally abused is DAMAGED goods.Often, they will bring their emotional bagged in to the NEXT relationship.Unless she's able to follow the good man NOW in her life and let go of her past abuse,there is no hope.

Lastly, you don't think we should start a crusade against the loser black man who caused this mental damage in our women?

These discussions don't really do anything.

People date who they like. And the preconceived notions opinions people have often don't change.

It's not so much about who we chose to date, but more about how we TREAT our women as a collective.

 

[PeridotPuss]

Sorry, but a woman who is mentally abused is DAMAGED goods.Often, they will bring their emotional bagged in to the NEXT relationship.Unless she's able to follow the good man NOW in her life and let go of her past abuse,there is no hope.

Lastly, you don't think we should speak out against the loser black man who caused this mental damage?

Anyone's whose life experiences has led them to feel qualified to call another DAMAGED goods....is someone I'd be concerned about as a partner. That's a mighty high horse breh

The true roots of success in life are in compassion and giving, though that's often not our first thought, it's often the path that sews seeds of success. You type with a seemingly hardened heart.....what makes you believe you're "marriage material" aside from your finances and overly strong opinions?

I too wish people could totally renew themselves after every life experience...but in that you lose the lesson and the character. People should evolve....the way you talk, you sound like maybe you're the hurt one.

And lastly - I check emotionally damaging nikkas when they come into my lane but a crusade is stupid extra like
... everyone on a different path, if you're worried about others your uncomfortable with yourself, figure out what's going on in ur own shyt

 

[HollowPoints2]

Anyone's whose life experiences has led them to feel qualified to call another DAMAGED goods....is someone I'd be concerned about as a partner. That's a mighty high horse breh

The true roots of success in life are in compassion and giving, though that's often not our first thought, it's often the path that sews seeds of success. You type with a seemingly hardened heart.....what makes you believe you're "marriage material" aside from your finances and overly strong opinions?

I too wish people could totally renew themselves after every life experience...but in that you lose the lesson and the character. People should evolve....the way you talk, you sound like maybe you're the hurt one.

And lastly - I check emotionally damaging nikkas when they come into my lane but a crusade is stupid extra like
... everyone on a different path, if you're worried about others your uncomfortable with yourself, figure out what's going on in ur own shyt

So I'm on a HIGH HORSE because I can pick up on the behavior patterns of a mentally damaged individual? No, that's just having enough social experience to be able to understand social pathologies, fukk boy.

If you can't identify a woman who's been damaged mentally from a previous relationship, then you are in a world of trouble.Or, maybe you're just being a dumb ass hole who's trying to go counter to my argument to score p*ssy points. Either way, you're a bytch ass niqqa who will let a dumb hoe play him because you aren't willing to use common sense or logic when a MENTALLY damaged hoe is in front of you.

In closing, you obviously didn't read the OP because my main point is that the damage to our women was caused by a certain element within the black community; therefore, in no way am I trying to attack women.None the less, you have your own agenda( to score p*ssy points) so go for it.

 

[Taadow]

They're not "our" women, yo.
We don't own them.
They can do whatever they wanna do.

The sooner you realize that, the better off you'll be...

 

[cyndaquil]

Repeated rhetoric from thecoli
Smfh

 

[HollowPoints2]

They're not "our" women, yo.
We don't own them.
They can do whatever they wanna do.

The sooner you realize that, the better off you'll be...

Whether it's fair or not , all black men are painted with a broad brush by the actions of the loser element so I think it may be our responsibility to either denounce the loser subculture within the black community or go to war with them.

When I say " our women" I'm speaking in terms that mean they are our other half,or better yet, they are apart of us .Indeed,we don't own them,but they are our other half.

 

[Taadow]

Whether it's fair or not , all black men are painted with a broad brush by the actions of the losers element so I think it may be our responsibility to either denounce the loser subculture within the black community or go to war with them.

When I say " our women" I'm speaking in terms that mean they are our other half,or better yet, they are apart of us .Indeed,we don't own them,but they are our other half.

They're not our other half. You are a whole person all by yourself. They are different from you. We are not all related.
They are not "ours". They can do whatever they wanna do.

The sooner you realize that, the better off you will be.

 

[HollowPoints2]

They're not our other half. You are a whole person all by yourself. They are different from you. We are not all related.
They are not "ours". They can do whatever they wanna do.

The sooner you realize that, the better off you will be.

what type of name is Taadow? I bet you're some skinny Somali totally detachsd from interpersonal relationships between opposite genders who come from the same race.

Go fyck yourself.

They are our other half.