I know a ton...grew up in the hood... u are right they still get wifed up cuz its been
normalized. Esp in the hood...but go talk those 1st gen immigrant communities and ask them how they feel about dating single parents...LOL. Id advise neither men or women to wife up single parents...but its been pushed and normalized to the point men/women just say fukk it..esp single motherhood.
Funny thing is not only do some single moms try to pressure young men but older men, on some “I settled so u might as well too”. I can see if an older cat settled with a woman with
1 kid and the baby daddy was dead ...or he had kids of his own. But alotta these old fools such as
@NoChillJones were childless when they got hitched with a BM and encourage young, stable men with no kids to wife up single mothers as a first choice. Thats cuz they dont want to look stupid and be the only one doing it.
Alotta young stable men in my age bracket are venturing out and saying no to single moms.....its a rise right now...
Would u recommend ur son to marry a single mother?