Only beta male simps date or marry single mothers. fukk it.

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I had people shame me into entering relationships with women who have multiple kids. I used to always think in the back of my mind I'm not good enough to build my own family
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This thread is taking a strange turn lol... I don't get why people are urging y'all to get with single moms anyway, like if you not with it, then your not with it. Some of you guys have some fukked up stories and experiences and even have histories of dating a lot of em--I just don't get why you kept dating women with kids anyway? Was it just so commonplace to meet women with kids?

I honestly don't get why a young guy that is childless would do it anyway, let alone if she has multiple kids. And not necesssrily because the moms aren't good people, but it's just a lot of work. One of my cousins has three kids and got married to some guy in the Air Force, and I love her to death but her kids were bad as hell(like Bebe kids lol). the guy was a real stand up dude--he had so much patience.

But people really shaming you to date a single mom--I don't understand why they are, irl, I never hear about this happening. I'm 30 though so maybe since I'm older it's more expected for men and women to have kids.
 

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Ok you got me, you won, what a comeback. I throw in the towel. Hey yall I got clowned by a simp :mjcry:

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this board is infested with gay nikkas, you just the next one to have exposed yourself. I mean if that's your thing more power to you. :manny:
 

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This thread is taking a strange turn lol... I don't get why people are urging y'all to get with single moms anyway, like if you not with it, then your not with it. Some of you guys have some fukked up stories and experiences and even have histories of dating a lot of em--I just don't get why you kept dating women with kids anyway? Was it just so commonplace to meet women with kids?

I honestly don't get why a young guy that is childless would do it anyway, let alone if she has multiple kids. And not necesssrily because the moms aren't good people, but it's just a lot of work. One of my cousins has three kids and got married to some guy in the Air Force, and I love her to death but her kids were bad as hell(like Bebe kids lol). the guy was a real stand up dude--he had so much patience.

But people really shaming you to date a single mom--I don't understand why they are, irl, I never hear about this happening. I'm 30 though so maybe since I'm older it's more expected for men and women to have kids.
Yes I'm used to stay in a small southern town so if you're not in a relationship people look at you like a weirdo. So you're encouraged to go after a woman, any type of woman. As long as you are in a relationship thats the only thing that matters
 

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Why yall arguing with @NoChillJones


He’s a dikkless simp with a reformed whore wife whose blown out snatch gets shared like a pint of Jager at a frat boy party.:troll:


He def aint in a position to give out advice.

Here’s the thing though, idc if the next man dates single moms. But I will never personally do it. I dont got shyt against him he can do what he wants. I will think a little lower of him but again I wont judge. Im not gonna waste time worrying about what he do. Id rather be lonely until I die then date one.

And if u dont want a woman w kids, date an older professional woman or a younger women, or just go foreign. There’s a reason why so many men are not wifing up single moms.


I honestly don't know a ton of single moms, but of the ones I do every single one of them got wifed up. You'd be surprised at how easy it is, too. If not for this forum I wouldn't have ever known that men weren't marrying single moms or having relationships with them, because it just isn't what my experiences have been or what I've seen all. Then again I guess y'all refer to those men as simps. Lol.
 

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Yes I'm used to stay in a small southern town so if you're not in a relationship people look at you like a weirdo. So you're encouraged to go after a woman, any type of woman. As long as you are in a relationship thats the only thing that matters

Really? With your last sentence I could see that happening with women more so than with men. Was it men encouraging you or women?
 

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Really? With your last sentence I could see that happening with women more so than with men. Was it men encouraging you or women?
Men older men in particular. Never laced me on game to increase my finances, help me get a career, or further my education but always " where is yo woman yet"? :snoop:
 

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Men older men in particular. Never laced me on game to increase my finances, help me get a career, or further my education but always " where is yo woman yet"? :snoop:

And they were worried about your sexuality that's probably why breh.........:picard:@ the way this thread is turning..........seriously breh........
 

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I honestly don't know a ton of single moms, but of the ones I do every single one of them got wifed up. You'd be surprised at how easy it is, too. If not for this forum I wouldn't have ever known that men weren't marrying single moms or having relationships with them, because it just isn't what my experiences have been or what I've seen all. Then again I guess y'all refer to those men as simps. Lol.

I know a ton...grew up in the hood... u are right they still get wifed up cuz its been normalized. Esp in the hood...but go talk those 1st gen immigrant communities and ask them how they feel about dating single parents...LOL. Id advise neither men or women to wife up single parents...but its been pushed and normalized to the point men/women just say fukk it..esp single motherhood.

Funny thing is not only do some single moms try to pressure young men but older men, on some “I settled so u might as well too”. I can see if an older cat settled with a woman with 1 kid and the baby daddy was dead ...or he had kids of his own. But alotta these old fools such as @NoChillJones were childless when they got hitched with a BM and encourage young, stable men with no kids to wife up single mothers as a first choice. Thats cuz they dont want to look stupid and be the only one doing it.

Alotta young stable men in my age bracket are venturing out and saying no to single moms.....its a rise right now...

Would u recommend ur son to marry a single mother?
 
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