Only a BETA SIMP would think a woman is his equal & a combative woman challenging him often is IDEA.

[HarlemHottie]

. Education does not make you a good wife/SO.

I realize that. My education enables me to do my job better. I be in here cooking Roman recipes.

He's happy. Why do you feel the need to check me when I'm not yours???

 

[Sccit]

Y'all are unnecessarily aggy. I already found a bm who is my better. I'm good

And yes, I was better educated than most of you in hs, no shade, just facts. I'm not rude about it, but it is what it is.

HOW AM I AGGY?

SOUNDS LIKE U PROJECTING .. ITS REALLY NOT THAT HARD TO BE MORE EDUCATED THAN THE MAJORITY OF THIS FORUM.

I WAS MERELY SPEAKIN FACTS.

 

[badboys11]

before i met my man, i used to pride myself on how ‘smart’ i was in regards to most the men i’ve met.

he humbled my ass real quick. i realized that my ‘smarts’ really didn’t matter. in some things, they do because he appreciates not having to explain everything to me when teaching me. and me already knowing a lot of things in which we discuss, like me being anti-feminist etc

being ‘educated’ in certain things is a plus but learning and practicing the art of controlling your tongue, feelings etc is more useful in relationships and means more to a man than the ability to go off about a certain subject. a man would much rather have a women of peace and support than an ‘educated’ women. a kind, gentless, peaceful women will make a man’s life feel easier than a educated on worldly things, one.

looking forward to the eventual "he cheated on me my life is in turmoil" thread

 

[HarlemHottie]

i got recruited into Philips academy but declined and opted to go to one of the private schools in my area. Just off the strength of me living in mass i can gurantee that the best schools in your state are not even seeing our worst schools.

I got in there and can do you one better. No disrespect.

Am I wrong for wanting a man who matches my intellect?

 

[Hellmont]

Not being equal doesn't mean less than.

Men and women are very different so it's impossible to be equals. It's like say a Bear and Cougar are equals.


Men are so lost out here to were they think having a combative woman that challenges his every decision is idea

Simp - " I don't want a yes woman to do everything I say. I want a woman that's a challenge"

Because you're not built to lead and teach. If you were sure of yourself as a man that can lead, someone questioning your all the time would be viewed as disrespect and disbelief in your competence.

Men need to start being men again.

I feel the same way. "I want someone who can challenge me" headass nikkas in every submissive or assertive thread

 

[DJSmooth]

Yeah a combative woman is a curse to her man BUT if a woman has to be with you out of fear you're a bytch nikka

Your woman shouldn't need to fear you. She should want to be with you because you provide wisdom and stability and in the past resources and protection.

 

[HarlemHottie]

HOW AM I AGGY?

SOUNDS LIKE U PROJECTING .. ITS REALLY NOT THAT HARD TO BE MORE EDUCATED THAN THE MAJORITY OF THIS FORUM.

I WAS MERELY SPEAKIN FACTS.

You said that if I was looking for a man to be my leader, I was lost. I disagree. It is unnecessarily aggressive to tell a person their chosen way of life is wrong, cuz who the hell are you?!

 

[TripleAgent]

I realize that. My education enables me to do my job better. I be in here cooking Roman recipes.

He's happy. Why do you feel the need to check me when I'm not yours???

Read what I actually said. You presented it as education is the measure, and nothing else. That is a potentially dangerous message to spread to the women who are single.

 

[Sccit]

You said that if I was looking for a man to be my leader, I was lost. I disagree. It is unnecessarily aggressive to tell a person their chosen way of life is wrong, cuz who the hell are you?!

WRONG


I SAID IF U NOT LOOKIN FOR A LEADER IN A MAN, THEN U LOST



BUT IT SEEMS LIKE U UNDERSTAND THAT, SO DO U

 

[HarlemHottie]

Read what I actually said. You presented it as education is the measure, and nothing else. That is a potentially dangerous message to spread to the women who are single.

Agreed, but i thought I was among friends.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

I got in there and can do you one better. No disrespect.

Am I wrong for wanting a man who matches my intellect?

how ?!?, you literally need to be recommended to get in. Its acceptance shyts on most colleges. I got in because i was dual enrolled into college by sophomore year in hs

Also you from nyc so unless you lived in mass or you're a legacy child i don't know how you getting in or even heard about it

 

[HarlemHottie]

how ?!?, you literally need to be recommended to get in. Its acceptance shyts on most colleges. I got in because i was dual enrolled into college by sophomore year in hs

I was a prodigy.

We can speak privately if you wish.

 

[TripleAgent]

Agreed, but i thought I was among friends.

I understand, I meant in your general conversation/interactions. You're educated, in what I assume is a good, healthy relationship. Single women you talk to are probably looking to you as an example.

 

[the bossman]

Everybody's makin points in here but I'm a man with a submissive wife and 5 daughters

I teach my daughters to be like their mother but to work hard like their pops so that they can legitimately get what they want out of their lives....all people are different including women...some women like to take care of themselves and need that to be happy...but that doesn't mean that they shouldn't be submissive to their man, but I'll be damned if I'll let my daughters submit to a man that can't takeover where I leave off

I got my wife to submit because I'm that nikka...never been on no fukk shyt so there's no reason for her to doubt anything I say. She chose to be a housewife after a couple of failed businesses...and my daughters will have those same opportunities and I pray that they're able to find a man that deserves a woman that I'm instilling all sorts of great values in

But long story short.....have 5 daughters brehs

I got a homie like that. 3 daughters. You could tell he wante to have a son so bad, but by the time his wife pushed out that 3rd she prolly gave him that

 

[Afro]

he probably just mad i’m submitting to and in subjection to a black man, the black son of god and not a Connor and white jesus lol

before i met my man, i used to pride myself on how ‘smart’ i was in regards to most the men i’ve met.

he humbled my ass real quick. i realized that my ‘smarts’ really didn’t matter. in some things, they do because he appreciates not having to explain everything to me when teaching me. and me already knowing a lot of things in which we discuss, like me being anti-feminist etc

being ‘educated’ in certain things is a plus but learning and practicing the art of controlling your tongue, feelings etc is more useful in relationships and means more to a man than the ability to go off about a certain subject. a man would much rather have a women of peace and support than an ‘educated’ women. a kind, gentless, peaceful women will make a man’s life feel easier than a educated on worldly things, one.

You've come a long way. Peace be upon you

Y'all are unnecessarily aggy. I already found a bm who is my better. I'm good

And yes, I was better educated than most of you in hs, no shade, just facts. I'm not rude about it, but it is what it is.

How dare you not need validation