Older lady breaks down in tears "I just wanna be somebody's something"

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Yeah, it's really rough for older Black women..

Sadly, she will probably die alone...

Is there hope for her? I don't know, but she can start by working on her physical health along with seeking therapy or joining a support group.

Form there, join some social clubs where men are at and maybe a gentleman will befriend her and take it from there...

It all starts with her!
Y’all gotta stop this rhetoric when it comes to certain demographics.

A 50something woman who presents herself like this VS someone like Nia Long or someone in between have major differences in their options and results.

And I don’t find this shyt funny at all and that Twitter user shouldn’t have posted that shyt. But a fat white woman looking like that would have the same dismal prospects. And if not, it’s only because the white men who are her equivalent wouldn’t think they were too good for her.

That lady is clearly going through it, to the point that she recorded herself and didn’t attempt to do the bare minimum to present herself well on a video that will exist online forever.
 

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She's probably been picky and over appraising herself just like the rest of us. #notsettlinggang :francis:

Everyone can get somebody, but we keep holding out for a better deal. Some of us wait decades as our stock drops.



I'm sure there are some drunks and homeless men outside the dollar store flirting with her when she goes and gets her Little Debbie cakes and sweet tea.

Maybe it's time to let one of them in.
Nicca I KNOW you didn’t type that with a straight face :bryan::bryan::russ:
 

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I feel for her. I know it sounds cliche—she needs to focus on working on herself. He chances will increase big time.
 

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Yeah man it does happen, good men/women do get overlooked or fall victim to the "game" every day.

Maybe she the problem, maybe she just got dealt a bad hand. Regardless man it still hurts my heart to see people suffering. We have been through so much shyt, its high time we started doing right by not just each other but ourselves as well.

I hope sis turns it around and finds someone to walm the righteous path with together going forward. Im sicking if watching my people fukking take it on the chin all the time.
Yeah, my only point is she said nothing about why she is alone and people are rushing to the conclusion that she did not want to "settle". Weirdo shyt. If this was someone that we saw or had a shytload of proof that she did that, then oh well. But that is not the case here.
 

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Y’all gotta stop this rhetoric when it comes to certain demographics.

A 50something woman who presents herself like this VS someone like Nia Long or someone in between have major differences in their options and results.

And I don’t find this shyt funny at all and that Twitter user shouldn’t have posted that shyt. But a fat white woman looking like that would have the same dismal prospects. And if not, it’s only because the white men who are her equivalent wouldn’t think they were too good for her.

That lady is clearly going through it, to the point that she recorded herself and didn’t attempt to do the bare minimum to present herself well on a video that will exist online forever.

Nahhh...

A Fat Old White Woman would snatch up the skinny alcoholic bruh at the Tire repair shop and call it a day. :sas1:
 
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