When you are that old changing yourself is extremely hard. As bad as she wants it what she needs to do in order to acquire it she might not be capable of. Very sad.
I know Breh. Got em as loved ones. It hurt to see someone you love struggle to find a companion around their age, but...
Alot of times, these individuals don't try to make changes in their lives to get the outcome they are seeking.
Being older shouldn't be used as an excuse.
There are solutions out there. .
There are 55+ communities that have social events whether it be at a senior center locally or in some cases, in their gated communities.
There are gyms everywhere and some senior centers have gyms inside the club house with instructors to help them. There are social events for seniors whether it be at a senior center, their local religious institution or in gated senior communities..
But, an older single person has choices, which is my point. They should know that life isn't easy nor are they owed understanding by anyone. If they want something, then they have to put in the work to achieve it no matter how difficult it may be..
I do know that staying in the house and/or going to the grocery store & back home while not interacting with ppl isn't gonna change a doggone thing!
I said the aforementioned respectfully..