Older brehs why don't you believe younger brehs when it comes to dating?

[BmoreGorilla]

Breh this is facts. These as a young millennial borderline gen z breh I have witnessed the shift. Young dudes if they do even approach are asking for women's Instagrams instead of their number.

We had Instagram but that was something a chick gave you when she wasnt interested so you could up her follower count.
These folks have allowed social media to replace an essential thing like a phone number to communicate. Everything is online smh.

Ima be 44 in July. I went thru a divorce almost a decade ago and dated pretty heavy for a few years. As a mid 30s breh with a good job, homeowner, and a car I was pulling women from their early 20s to early 40s. The young chicks thought it was strange I wasn’t on social media like that. The older ones loved it

Basically society is what it is and these young folks are trying to navigate the same game we were with different rules. I can remember my mama thinking the OG Nintnedo was gonna rot my brain. Look at how far peoples perception of video games has changed

 

[Scaaar]

I assume you are talking anout people complaining and not me. Because there is a disingenuous tactic gynocrats have a habit of doing when people are simply stating environmental facts to shame it from being acknowledged. If i tell you it is raining outside that isnt complaining, it is stating facts so people can act accordingly

Fair point but if you say it's raining outside and I say ok just get an umbrella or a coat so the rain doesn't get on you. But then you say you don't want to do either and just stay in the house that's cool too. But when complain about the rain still is where it looks crazy. So yes you can state a fact but whether it's a fact or not is a matter of perspective. People can provide a remedy to that perspective. But a lot of folks reject it because it will shift their narrative that they've built for themselves why certain situations aren't working for them.

 

[King Poetic]

Another thing

Social Media vs Reality

Perfect example.. look at Anthony Edwards/ Lil Baby mama

Her profile says CEO/ Musical artist, but she had to tell the truth in court and she told the judge she’s unemployed…

And there is a ton of people who online live this nice life, but when u two meet in person, you discover all the lies…

Its a tougher scene today compared to 20 years ago

 

[Scaaar]

Because these dudes are fukked in the head by toxic manosphere content and PUA hustlers from a young age. They've grown up raised by the worst people on the internet. They're bringing forum advice into the real world and reaping the results.

These women are CLINGING to every man they meet who isn't lost in that shyt.

These dudes can't date because everything they process is telling them to hate women and approach them all the wrong ways.

They don't even want to walk up and give a chick a light compliment because they think it's simping. Then wonder why don't nobody want to date them lol

 

[Neuromancer]

Fair point but if you say it's raining outside and I say ok just get an umbrella or a coat so the rain doesn't get on you. But then you say you don't want to do either and just stay in the house that's cool too. But when complain about the rain still is where it looks crazy. So yes you can state a fact but whether it's a fact or not is a matter of perspective. People can provide a remedy to that perspective. But a lot of folks reject it because it will shift their narrative that they've built for themselves why certain situations aren't working for them.

Very different things. I'm 38 I'm about to get married in August. But these are very different things. The weather doesn't change the way society does. Humans are always a messy variable so we can't compare it to something like weather. Hot snow does not fall up. Rain doesn't rise into the sky.

 

[Neuromancer]

They don't even want to walk up and give a chick a light compliment because they think it's simping. Then wonder why don't nobody want to date them lol

Have you talked to younger men? Most of them are afraid of getting put on Tik Tok and clowned for approaching. I've actually had these convos with young men.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Because they're more interested in humble bragging so they can fell better about being old and washed.

Edit: Alot of them are divorced, separated from their kids ect...they have no valuable advice so they clown and give out euphemisms about pimping that make no sense.

How many male role models have you had in your life?

 

[Scaaar]

Very different things. I'm 38 I'm about to get married in August. But these are very different things. The weather doesn't change the way society does. Humans are always a messy variable so we can't compare it to something like weather. Hot snow does not fall up. Rain doesn't rise into the sky.

The weather does change the way society moves. We've seen summers become longer and hotter. As well as winters becoming colder. The tornado Alley has shifted eastward which is causing stronger wind, tornados, rain, flooding, and thunderstorms in areas that normally don't receive that. So society has to change. Houses have to be built differently to withstand those changes. Insurance rates are changing to marginalize risk. People are leaving the area for calmer weather. Schools close more frequently. There are always constant variables that we can't change but we make adjustments to. That's what makes us humans.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Because from socializing with the YNs on here I can say most of you are antisocial losers who don't take accountability that you as individuals are the reason you don't get any pussay....

what YNs? Outside of me and @Apprentice there’s no other visible posters under 25 and both of us give balanced takes on this topic

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Have you talked to younger men?

they don’t and that’s why the best advice you can give them is:

• avoid STDs & unwanted pregnancies
• respect a woman’s boundaries
• learn how to walk away

 

[The ADD]

Very different things. I'm 38 I'm about to get married in August. But these are very different things. The weather doesn't change the way society does. Humans are always a messy variable so we can't compare it to something like weather. Hot snow does not fall up. Rain doesn't rise into the sky.

 

[Scaaar]

Have you talked to younger men? Most of them are afraid of getting put on Tik Tok and clowned for approaching. I've actually had these convos with young men.

Yes I have talked to younger men. So my question to you is everyone getting put on tik Tok or are you grabbing samples of an extreme option to justify your position? That's what I mean by letting outside trauma or 2nd/3rd hand info dictate your choices. You're scared to do something because of an outcome that hasn't happen to you or you've seen personally just something that someone shared that could not even be true and they're farming for engagement. If you're a man and the leader you got to be able to step out on the conviction of who you are and what you stand for and accept the outcome. If she rejects you cool she wasn't for you. But sitting on your hands scared to approach because of what could go wrong isn't the move. It's like the brehs saying they won't get married because she'll take your money. You don't even know this fictional chick you just created a narrative in your head and running with it lol

 

[Apollo Creed]

Fair point but if you say it's raining outside and I say ok just get an umbrella or a coat so the rain doesn't get on you. But then you say you don't want to do either and just stay in the house that's cool too. But when complain about the rain still is where it looks crazy. So yes you can state a fact but whether it's a fact or not is a matter of perspective. People can provide a remedy to that perspective. But a lot of folks reject it because it will shift their narrative that they've built for themselves why certain situations aren't working for them.

I don't think you understood my post.

Let me rephrase it:

1.Young Dude - DAMN WTF Why Am I soaking Wet every time I go outside
2.Old Dude - nikka WTF quit crying you gotta grind so better take yo ass back outside
3.Me - Looks like there is rain outside, there are various ways to protect yourself if you choose to go outside, it's on you to choosewhiuch protective measure you choose to utilize if you decide you want to go back outside.

Makes sense? You're wasting your time trying to explain something to me when I`m not here to debate anything nor seeking guidance.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Because they're more interested in humble bragging so they can fell better about being old and washed.

Edit: Alot of them are divorced, separated from their kids ect...they have no valuable advice so they clown and give out euphemisms about pimping that make no sense.

The consistent need to tell us women their age are washed.. reminding everyone they can pass for 29 at 42.. telling young men to “wait their turn” only to provide them with young women they’ve corrupted or treated like shyt

I really, on multiple levels, see why a lot of young men do not respect anything older men have to say.. as they are literally on their own in certain situations

 

[Cat piss martini]

Young cats fell for the ( it aint
trickin if you got it ), (In love with
a stripper) shyt and now that's
the new norm.

This new climate is bizzaro realm
shyt where hoes are the stars who
get famous by who they fukked
and rich and famous men are
the groupies.....whole time regular
cats have went red pill to make
people beLIEve their lack of p*ssy
is a choice.

They started leading with their
wallets and not spitation.

I still get the (would you like some p*ssy?)
calls at least 3 times a week.
This shyt the young bucks are dealing
with is an alien concept.