Older brehs why don't you believe younger brehs when it comes to dating?

[Field Marshall Bradley]

You're not understanding


Are u over 40?

Your old to the young generation, an elder. Someone girls will seek out in crowded areas if you're clean because they feel safe


Not to mention, Charlotte is the banking capital of the South. Place is flooded with female bankers. I've seen all female batte rap cyphers take place right next to the hornets arena, that big shopping area 2 am in the morning. That's a unique situation. Most cities have way more men than women walking around

Young kids tell ya hanging outside and talking to randoms doesn't get u anywhere, mean while married men in they 40s refuse to believe the world has changed.

How old are you?

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

The consistent need to tell us women their age are washed.. reminding everyone they can pass for 29 at 42.. telling young men to “wait their turn” only to provide them with young women they’ve corrupted or treated like shyt

I really, on multiple levels, see why a lot of young men do not respect anything older men have to say.. as they are literally on their own in certain situations

This has to be one of the dumbest posts in here. For one, you’re basing an entire demographic off some internet strangers

 

[Monoblock]

I mean...do people really "date" anymore? Not saying it doesn't happen but as a whole I think that tradition is rapidly dying out.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

This has to be one of the dumbest posts in here. For one, you’re basing an entire demographic off some internet strangers

Have you also called out the multiple posters who are making generalized statements on young men? Calling them scary and awkward?

You haven’t.. so why are you quoting me?

 

[Mordith]

The consistent need to tell us women their age are washed.. reminding everyone they can pass for 29 at 42.. telling young men to “wait their turn” only to provide them with young women they’ve corrupted or treated like shyt

I really, on multiple levels, see why a lot of young men do not respect anything older men have to say.. as they are literally on their own in certain situations

This is the loser mentally that I see perpetuated on here. You lil nikkas want to be coddled and have your hands held.

Nikka you eat what you kill! When I was growing into a man I understood that no one owes me anything and that whatever I wanted in life I had to make it happen.

In essence the fact that many of you lack this trait is the same reason women in your peer group don't want to fukk you.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Have you also called out the multiple posters who are making generalized statements on young men? Calling them scary and awkward?

You haven’t.. so why are you quoting me?

This is your logic huh? I quoted the post based on the merit of what YOU said, not anyone else…. but instead of just standing on it, you jump to what aboutisms. I have dapped posters who made a good point about the game not being the same as it was 20 years ago, and I’ve dapped posters who have called out some of the new age character traits of gen z and gen alpha.

At the end of the day, you made a silly post. And grown men with common sense would agree

 

[RaspberryFitted]

This is the loser mentally that I see perpetuated on here. You lil nikkas want to be coddled and have your hands held.

Nikka you eat what you kill! When I was growing into a man I understood that no one owes me anything and that whatever I wanted in life I had to make it happen.

I really, on multiple levels, see why a lot of young men do not respect anything older men have to say.. as they are literally on their own in certain situations

Where in this post did I insinuate young men needed to be coddled and have their hand held?

you literally just restated what I said. You began typing rather than comprehending what I was even responding to.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

This is your logic huh? I quoted the post based on the merit of what YOU said, not anyone else…. but instead of just standing on it, you jump to what aboutisms. I have dapped posters who made a good point about the game not being the same as it was 20 years ago, and I’ve dapped posters who have called out some of the new age character traits of gen z and gen alpha.

At the end of the day, you made a silly post. And grown men with common sense would agree

Then this entire thread is silly because it’s full of generalizations on a group most posters don’t interact with. Again — why quote specifically me if the rest of the thread is full of generalizations?

and I can stand on my post: there’s a slew of grown adults who enjoy mocking and spewing bootstrap rhetoric towards the younger generation and getting upset they did not jump through the same hoops as them.. while also refusing to understand why they do the things they do.

this is seen in other sectors outside of dating.

 

[Ol’Otis]

Damn ya'll heartless like that? Ya'll ain't tryna uplift the black youth?

 

[Burned Verses]

this aint even an old/young thing

people share anecdotes and other people use their anecdotes to say the first person is lying/wrong.

A person can start a thread like: "So I'd like some advice with women. I've been in the gym, getting in shape and putting myself out there, but it's been difficult trying to date. *explains plight*

And within the first 10 posts someone will say "You gotta put yourself out there. Get in the gym. Get in shape."

This is quite literally how these threads go lol

 

[jmegamar]

All facts
Young brothers think IG fame translates to real world lol

She can have 100k followers , in real life if she’s in front of you .. and if you got game and know what to say

She’s going..they all going

Facts. Best I’ve ever done with getting women was when I was renting a room making 60k after I got divorced. Dudes just don’t know how to communicate with women.

 

[Neuromancer]

Yes I have talked to younger men. So my question to you is everyone getting put on tik Tok or are you grabbing samples of an extreme option to justify your position? That's what I mean by letting outside trauma or 2nd/3rd hand info dictate your choices. You're scared to do something because of an outcome that hasn't happen to you or you've seen personally just something that someone shared that could not even be true and they're farming for engagement. If you're a man and the leader you got to be able to step out on the conviction of who you are and what you stand for and accept the outcome. If she rejects you cool she wasn't for you. But sitting on your hands scared to approach because of what could go wrong isn't the move. It's like the brehs saying they won't get married because she'll take your money. You don't even know this fictional chick you just created a narrative in your head and running with it lol

I'm just telling you what they tell me. I try to listen and provide advice and I've provided this same advice. But your premise wasn't correct about the simping thing. That's not what their issue seems to be. Fear is a human emotion I'm not gonna invalidate the fear of someone else because I've overcome mine.

 

[Neuromancer]

The weather does change the way society moves. We've seen summers become longer and hotter. As well as winters becoming colder. The tornado Alley has shifted eastward which is causing stronger wind, tornados, rain, flooding, and thunderstorms in areas that normally don't receive that. So society has to change. Houses have to be built differently to withstand those changes. Insurance rates are changing to marginalize risk. People are leaving the area for calmer weather. Schools close more frequently. There are always constant variables that we can't change but we make adjustments to. That's what makes us humans.

You misunderstood what I was saying. Again hot snow does not fall up. But human behavior does change we've seen people actually eat things that would kill them for clout that's against any survival instinct humans are born with. That's what I mean.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

You misunderstood what I was saying. Again hot snow does not fall up. But human behavior does change we've seen people actually eat things that would kill them for clout that's against any survival instinct humans are born with. That's what I mean.

Not that deep
It’s Just a fear of rejection

 

[Scaaar]

Not that deep
It’s Just a fear of rejection

Essentially. They keep dancing around the issue but this is the gist of it.