Women really do believe that most mens actions are coming from a place of “control” when reality is most of us are just reacting to what information is given.
I’ve personally seen this. Had a chick I was kicking it with (kicking it with, not dating yet) and we had great times and all the time I wasn’t really after sex (I probably wouldn’t have chilled with her like that if it was all that I was after, because she wasn’t giving it up). But I was cool because I actually was enjoying the company. I don’t fukk or even try to fukk every female I’m cool with especially if they’re not with it.
She hit me up one day talking about “help, this guy I was seeing (aka fukking) is banging on my car door” this is at like 4-5am and I knew she and him were drinking because of how she sounded and slurred words. I’m in the military, about to get ready to go do military bullshyt at like 6 that if I miss is going to cause me issues down the line.
So I told her to call the police instead and hung up.
Never spoke to her again because all the while I’m thinking this might go somewhere and the whole time, she’s fukking with someone else.
And guarantee some simps and c00ns will believe I am in the wrong for bushing her. No telling how long she knew him or how long she was giving up the ass because in my mind, no man gonna be doing wild shyt like that unless he’s emotionally invested. All I know is that I was going through her vetting process and the nikka trying to beat her ass wasn’t.