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Sooooooo...................................................
I recently switched my Creme of Nature shampoo to Hello Hydration & I must say that I LOVE how they made my curls POP after getting out of the shower..
BUT I hated how dry it left my hair which lead to some unfortunate breakage :to:.
So I switched back to my C.O.N & now my hair is happy again!! :krs:

I've been thinking of giving my hair a break & doing a protective style.
Idk whether to do a full-weave, invest in a front lace(which I have no idea how to use), OR do twists or mini braids--->
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Rob doesn't want me to do either of those because he is against "hairhats" & he takes how I style my hair very seriously :comeon:
Either way, i'm still torn between what I want to do. I'm leaning towards the wig becuase I like that i can always take it off, wash my hair & braid it again. WHAT DO I DO?!! :lupe:

@ANewClassic Help me!!!
 

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Sooooooo...................................................
I recently switched my Creme of Nature shampoo to Hello Hydration & I must say that I LOVE how they made my curls POP after gettng out of the shower..
BUT I hated how dry it left my hair which lead to some unfortunate breakage :to:.
So I switched back to my C.O.N & now my hair is happy again!! :krs:

I've been thinking of giving my hair a break & doing a protective style.
Idk whether to do a full-weave, invest in a front lace(which I have no idea how to use), OR do twists or mini braids--->
521707_643437909016063_1771377399_n.jpg



Rob doesn't want me to do either of those because he is against "hairhats" & he takes how I style my hair very seriously :comeon:
Either way, i'm still torn between what I want to do. I'm leaning towards the wig becuase I like that i can always take it off, wash my hair & braid it again. WHAT DO I DO?!! :lupe:

@ANewClassic Help me!!!
@BellaVenus I think I'm about to do mini twist in my hair again. because I do them so small that it looks like the natural curls of my hair. Rob might not mind that.
But I've been suuuuuper bored with mine and was talking to my bf about dying it a brown-honey color. I've been messy bunning and wash & going for awhile now. Maybe I need a new haircut or something :lupe:
 

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@BellaVenus I think I'm about to do mini twist in my hair again. because I do them so small that it looks like the natural curls of my hair. Rob might not mind that.
But I've been suuuuuper bored with mine and was talking to my bf about dying it a brown-honey color. I've been messy bunning and wash & going for awhile now. Maybe I need a new haircut or something :lupe:

OMG ME TOO!! I was telling him that I wanted to do a sort of dark caramel color to my hair & he almost had a heart attack! Idk I really want to try something new, & twist was my second option.

The only problem is that i'm a DIY kind of girl & I don't let nobody but Rob or myself touch my hair LOL. I've had too many bad experiences with hair stylists (especially scissor-happy ones :snoop:)

I'm leaning towards the wig because I still want full access to my hair at all times but I don't wanna look like one of those girls--------------- >
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LOL TERRIBLE!!
 

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I want my hair color to look exactly like this ----------->
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i guess it has a red/brown tone to it.

@robvanham Babe, what do you think?
 

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@BellaVenus :
OMG, the only other person I let touch my hair since I went natural is my sister who is a trained stylist. My bf was like "Do it :obama:"
2) That hairhat is atrocious...
I've been debating these colors, I'm really kinda tired of my natural dark color
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@BellaVenus :
OMG, the only other person I let touch my hair since I went natural is my sister who is a trained stylist. My bf was like "Do it :obama:"
2) That hairhat is atrocious...
I've been debating these colors, I'm really kinda tired of my natural dark color
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DO IT!

Those colors look beautiful! I would like to do something like that too. I just wanna start off with something darker because I don't wanna have to bleach my hair too much :whoa:

Idk what to do.... I might just stop at the BSS tomorrow & see what makes sense :yeshrug:
 

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DO IT!

Those colors look beautiful! I would like to do something like that too. I just wanna start off with something darker because I don't wanna have to bleach my hair too much :whoa:

Idk what to do.... I might just stop at the BSS tomorrow & see what makes sense :yeshrug:
That's what I'm so scared of, which is why I wanted to do like a chocolate brown first and see if that will satisfy me. Just find something to do...something not detrimental :whoa: Because being bored with your hair sucks.
 

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That's what I'm so scared of, which is why I wanted to do like a chocolate brown first and see if that will satisfy me. Just find something to do...something not detrimental :whoa: Because being bored with your hair sucks.

Yes. Like a sex-less marriage :snoop:
You either gotta just live with it or try to spice things up :shaq:
 

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@BellaVenus :
OMG, the only other person I let touch my hair since I went natural is my sister who is a trained stylist. My bf was like "Do it :obama:"
2) That hairhat is atrocious...
I've been debating these colors, I'm really kinda tired of my natural dark color

african-american-hair-style-4.jpg
I like this color :lupe:. I have brown hair already so I wonder if I would have to bleach to get this color.

My main issue is how would the bleach affect my hair in this already dry heat.

I just did a length check and my hair is eyebrow length when stretched. I'm sick of this mini fro...

Typical woman, ain't never happy smh
 
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